What Manav should do.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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If manav really cares he should get on a plane to Canada and help Ovi. Without knowing the whole story Manav is just advising Ovi.
He needs to go there and see what his daughter is doing. Rather than caring about her relationship with Arjun, he needs to care about his daughters health.
Will he be proud to see his daughter drinking like this? NO. So instead of preaching other people he should start with his daughter and get her the real help she needs.
She needs help or a therapist that will help her vent and cope with her feelings instead of drinking.
They already show that Manav is always going on about Ovi so why doesnt he go there and actually do some good for her. Instead of blaming Arjun all the time for Ovi's state. It is nt going to help anyone, so do something useful and go help your daughter that you love so much get out of that state.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: xoxoarvi

If manav really cares he should get on a plane to Canada and help Ovi. Without knowing the whole story Manav is just advising Ovi.
He needs to go there and see what his daughter is doing. Rather than caring about her relationship with Arjun, he needs to care about his daughters health.
Will he be proud to see his daughter drinking like this? NO. So instead of preaching other people he should start with his daughter and get her the real help she needs.
She needs help or a therapist that will help her vent and cope with her feelings instead of drinking.
They already show that Manav is always going on about Ovi so why doesnt he go there and actually do some good for her. Instead of blaming Arjun all the time for Ovi's state. It is nt going to help anyone, so do something useful and go help your daughter that you love so much get out of that state.


Yes, that was what I was thinking as well...as a parent, Manav's first reaction should be to rush to Canada on first flight and make sure his daughter wasnt drinking herself to oblivion! He knows already shes prone to alcoholism to drown her sorrows.
No, hes too busy finalizing business projects with DK! What a bad father, instead of lecturing to Arjun, he shd be there to support his spiritually weak daughter and encourage her to be strong, divorce Arjun and make a new life for herself.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25


Yes, that was what I was thinking as well...as a parent, Manav's first reaction should be to rush to Canada on first flight and make sure his daughter wasnt drinking herself to oblivion! He knows already shes prone to alcoholism to drown her sorrows.
No, hes too busy finalizing business projects with DK! What a bad father, instead of lecturing to Arjun, he shd be there to support his spiritually weak daughter and encourage her to be strong, divorce Arjun and make a new life for herself.


Exactly!
If DK takes all the crap that Manav says about Arjun, Im sure he wouldnt care if Manav took a week or two off to see that Ovi was settled instead of just adding fuel to the fire
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Manav should have got Ovi help when she tried to commit suicide when she found out that Arjun loved Purvi and didnt want to marry Ovi nor was he ever in love with her. instead he blamed Arjun and purvi for breaking Ovi's heart. he should have gotten her Profassional help to rid her of ther depression and obscession. but he let her wellow in her own weekness.
he should have forced Ovi and Arjun to get their marriage annuled, because that marriage had taken place for all the wrong reasons and under duress. arjun was forced into that marriage, and Manav should not have accepted it as valid. but he want to let Ovi get what she wanted. as her father he should have looked out for her best intrest in the long run. and what he let happen was not is ovi's best intrest/
Manav and Archana are as much to be blamed for Ovi's condition as Ovi herself. Purvi and Arjun too have been a cause to Ovi present state. Purvi should never givein to Ovi demands and sacrafised Arjun. Arjun should never have listened to Purvi.
but as a rational person i believe a person is a cause for their own problems. and have to bare the burden of their choices some more the others. and that is why Ovi suffers more that Arjun and Purvi.
Manav and Archana made the wrong choice for their daughter, Ovi, their timely inaction have caused Ovi's downfall and her present state. children are not so grownup that parents should not interveen. a child for a parent is always a child, and if the child how ever old is going on the wrong part then the parent should and must interveen.

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