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Posted: 12 years ago
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"wo meri beti hai i cant live without her"... purvi
darling give me a break!
so right now its not u !! its ur aatma!!
because u live without pari from 2 months!

n 4 ovi ... she is a darling... pari feels safe with her...!!
n trust me she should be given ample time to accept pari

but those selfish parents r busy in rotating pari...n they call themselves her parents!

OVI LOVE U IN THE PARI CASE!!! HATE U PURVI for thinking about all others b4 ur baby!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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lol this scene should have been played out when soham brought pari home. At that time Pari should have kept crying and only Ovi should have been able to get her to quiet down. That should show Purvi that just giving birth to someone doesnt make them "meri beti"
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: archis_2013



One small clarification, It is not that Purvi kept Ovi away from Pari's life, Ovi herself has decided to. What I don't understand is - on one hand, I read comments on why Ovi is forced to take Pari and that Purvi's has forgotten about Pari and romancing with her husband and on the other hand, she is accussed of keeping Ovi out of Pari's life? This reminds of a saying that the drum gets beaten on both the sides.

From Purvi's perspective, she gave up her baby to Arjun-Ovi as she thought it would strengthen the marriage. It would have worked if no one knew about the truth which she had kept away from the biological father. She decided to reveal the truth as she knew Punni would do a far greater damage with the secret. Even after Ovi came to know the truth, she thought Ovi's love for the baby would help Arjun and Ovi to reconcile. She came to know about Ovi's decision on not doing anything with the baby when Arjun told her in the temple. Still she kept to her resolve. But after the baby's kidnapping and Ovi's anger and conempt that she witnessed first hand in D-chawl and after she saw Arjun struggling when the baby had fever, she thought that enough was enough. She would be inhuman if she still not wake up to the plight of Pari.

So, what do you expect her to do?

I am not clear on what you meant by Purvi keeping Onir out.



Okay so first of , I have been against Ovi accepting Pari because of anything but pure love. I think Ovi's family members and the Ks are unfair to ask Ovi to play a mother to Pari when simply her biological parents are alive. No one has an issue with Purvi taking Pari back (except its a pimp area). What we do have a problem with is Purvi accusing Ovi of not being a good mother indirectly. What I do have a problem with is Arjun blaming Ovi for not being able to care for the child.
Purvi didn't give Pari away to strengthen Arovi marriage, she had 3 excuses :
1. Ovi will be depressed
2. Pari will be with her biological father and get all luxuries
3. If they don't have the baby the marriage will fall apart

Purvi is welcome to take her baby away , but she seems to have forgotten the baby is LEGALLY Ovi's daughter. She is Arovi baby.
If Ovi wants to make an issue , she can.
She should be smarter and want signatures and get legal documents ready giving her the mother's right.

Ovi is right where she is. Would anyone be able to accept another child from their husband's past relationship so quickly ? I wouldn't be able to. My husband could have 20 girlfriends before marriage but why should I hold that baby ? Why should I be forced to call myself their mother ?

Ovi doesn't hate Pari. Ovi is reminded of Purvi and Arjun's past when she holds Pari.
Purvi has no right to say her decision was "galat" yes it might have been wrong because of any reasons that doesn't have anything to do with Ovi

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Posted: 12 years ago
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The baby is ill so of course she will cry! No one can make the baby to stop crying when it is sick.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: archis_2013


One small clarification, It is not that Purvi kept Ovi away from Pari's life, Ovi herself has decided to. What I don't understand is - on one hand, I read comments on why Ovi is forced to take Pari and that Purvi's has forgotten about Pari and romancing with her husband and on the other hand, she is accussed of keeping Ovi out of Pari's life? This reminds of a saying that the drum gets beaten on both the sides.

From Purvi's perspective, she gave up her baby to Arjun-Ovi as she thought it would strengthen the marriage. It would have worked if no one knew about the truth which she had kept away from the biological father. She decided to reveal the truth as she knew Punni would do a far greater damage with the secret. Even after Ovi came to know the truth, she thought Ovi's love for the baby would help Arjun and Ovi to reconcile. She came to know about Ovi's decision on not doing anything with the baby when Arjun told her in the temple. Still she kept to her resolve. But after the baby's kidnapping and Ovi's anger and conempt that she witnessed first hand in D-chawl and after she saw Arjun struggling when the baby had fever, she thought that enough was enough. She would be inhuman if she still not wake up to the plight of Pari.

So, what do you expect her to do?

I am not clear on what you meant by Purvi keeping Onir out.


This I agree with.

If Ovi really wanted to be with Pari after being kidnap, she would have but didn't. Purvi didn't distance Ovi from Pari, nor did she say anything to Ovi.

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