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Posted: 12 years ago
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Purvi is just being strong to refuse pari and remind arjun that the baby is his and Ovi's. She cannot give them a baby and still call the baby hers. How can arjun and ovi move on if purvi takes pari and claim her again?

Purvi after finding out that ovi is not taking care of pari is faced with the news of her husband's predicament. Should she just neglect onir and go with pari or leave pari with her father who can take care of her until she has finished looking after the matter of Onir. Onir has no one else. She has to be there for him as he stood by her in thick and thin. On the other hand, Pari has arjun, DK, sulo, Savita etc to take care of her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Luv4games

you are right purvi is a great mother...such a good mother that she is putting her sister and ex lover's happiness before her own child...I doubt we can find a better mother than her...especially when that sister is saying she doesnt want the child because she is smart enough to know that her child is dead and this is someone elses child who already has a mother...purvi should get the best mother in the wold award...so what if pari is being neglected and her dad has no idea how to take care of her...



This child has always been neglected
Purvi has only succeeded in one role
That is being a daughter by accepting the deal
Every other role , she miserably failed
She neglected her baby when she ran away to Kolkata to fend for herself and the baby
Then married a complete stranger (how did she know whether he was a good man or not)
Then finally she gave her up
Now Ovi doesn't want her , Arjun can't take care of her but Purvi is not least bit worried
It's not hard to balance being a mom and a wife
She wanted to play both roles
Now that she has the opportunity
Why not ?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rayadallie

Purvi is just being strong to refuse pari and remind arjun that the baby
is his and Ovi's. She cannot give them a baby and still call the baby
hers. How can arjun and ovi move on if purvi takes pari and claim her
again?

Purvi after finding out that ovi is not taking care of
pari is faced with the news of her husband's predicament. Should she
just neglect onir and go with pari or leave pari with her father who can
take care of her until she has finished looking after the matter of
Onir. Onir has no one else. She has to be there for him as he stood by
her in thick and thin. On the other hand, Pari has arjun, DK, sulo,
Savita etc to take care of her.



Yeah she cannot give up a baby and still call it hers
But she can breastfeed the baby
But she can lecture Ovi on how to care for the baby
She can also cry and cry for the baby or pretend to cry
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird



Yeah she cannot give up a baby and still call it hers
But she can breastfeed the baby
But she can lecture Ovi on how to care for the baby
She can also cry and cry for the baby or pretend to cry


i dont understand why she cant do that...they didnt go through a legal adoption...purvi replaced the babies...now that ovi knows the truth and accepted the fact that pari is not her daughter and that her baby died...then why doesnt purvi step up and claim her baby...purvi is very cunning...she is not doing this so ovi gets blamed for neglecting the baby...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Luv4games


i dont understand why she cant do that...they didnt go through a legal adoption...purvi replaced the babies...now that ovi knows the truth and accepted the fact that pari is not her daughter and that her baby died...then why doesnt purvi step up and claim her baby...purvi is very cunning...she is not doing this so ovi gets blamed for neglecting the baby...

Purvi replaced the baby - yes

But the baby would have been registered to arjun and ovi. there would be no trace to purvi on paper except now the court case which I think was stupid for them to accept evidence of a CD in the court rather than going the DNA way in the first instance.

AS far as I am concerned the whole case was down played by the CV just to get Onir punished for his shortcomings. I hope someday he can regain his licence and get mittal and punni behind bars.

I dont think purvi gave Arjun ad Ovi the baby to claim the baby back at a later date. She gave them to keep. I respect her for staying her grounds. However, Arjun and Ovi as a good gesture can Offer Purvi to have back Pari considering all that she went through to have her. She may feel bad in accepting back pari which is natural but with insistance, she will.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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thanks so much for your post. i totally agree with u
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rayadallie

Purvi replaced the baby - yes

But the baby would have been registered to arjun and ovi. there would be no trace to purvi on paper except now the court case which I think was stupid for them to accept evidence of a CD in the court rather than going the DNA way in the first instance.

AS far as I am concerned the whole case was down played by the CV just to get Onir punished for his shortcomings. I hope someday he can regain his licence and get mittal and punni behind bars.

I dont think purvi gave Arjun ad Ovi the baby to claim the baby back at a later date. She gave them to keep. I respect her for staying her grounds. However, Arjun and Ovi as a good gesture can Offer Purvi to have back Pari considering all that she went through to have her. She may feel bad in accepting back pari which is natural but with insistance, she will.



I agree with you on the court case...it was a joke...how come purvi, ovi, arjun the hospital staff were not asked to testify...i dont think onir was the only person in the room when ovi gave birth...he obviously had other staff or at least a nurse...how come they didnt know...plus it took time for onir to go and tell purvi then how come no hospital staff notice that ovi delivered a dead baby...

even though, the baby was registered under ovi and arjun's name, they are not going to sue purvi or not allow her to take the baby..it is serial so they are not gonna go through the formalities of purvi adopting her...

purvi game the baby so ovi doesnt go through the trauma of losing her child...and even then there were so many moments that purvi would get week and want to take pari...but now ovi knows the truth and she herself has said numerous times that she is not pari's mom...plus arjun himself begged purvi to take care of pari because ovi cant yet purvi refused...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The only reason for Purvi staying away is her fear of her creating more problems for Arjun and Ovi.

She has damaged Ovi and Arjun's marriage so much that Ovi now wants them (Arjun-Purvi) to get married. Ovi wants to leave Arjun and she should be able to. Purvi doesn't need to fear she'll create more problems for Ovi and Arjun, she already has done so much! She should take Pari back and raise her. Why not do that now, instead of years later trying to win the child over from Ovi?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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If Purvi is not a bad mother I wonder what is or who is
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Posted: 12 years ago
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If Purvi takes the child back, wouldn't she be cursed that "she took away what she gave" by which "she did not sacrifice anything"?

Purvi thought about Ovi's love for Arjun when she let go off Arjun.
Again Purvi thought about Ovi&Arjun's marriage when she let go off her baby.

She thinks Ovi will come around to accept. Time will tell if she was right or wrong in the long run.



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