In the midst of the mess.. - Page 2

Originally posted by: xoxoarvi

The baby is in a better place with God.😭

Originally posted by: Kalapi

I wish you could tell that to a mother who lost her child.

Varsha, expecting love for Ovi's child in this forum...that is actually looking for water in an arud desert...

I know to a mother who has lost child no words of comfort will ease her pain. In this I do support Ovi she was wronged, she had her rights of knowing about her child taken away.

About your second comment about expecting love for Ovi's child. To me both the children are valued equally in my mind, they were both innocent.

As I said before I wrote this post from the point of view of who would be affected the most due to these actions NOW.

I agree that the still born did not asked to be born and die the way she/he did. But that is reality. It was not the accident only that caused ovi to loose her child. It was as a result of her drinking if I can recall what I have seen in PR and hence the introduction of Onir and the return of Purvi. Ovi was partially responsible for the still born.

Ovi has indeed without doubt shown love and care for pari but she did this thinking that pari was hers and arjun's but as soon as she found out the truth. All the love, care and nursing etc ceased with immediate effect and off course came the argument of its a natural way to react towards a 2mths old baby etc.

Well I guess the PR Team should have shown arjun mourning for four days with ovi, ovi and arjun cuddling the stillborn, they finding out the sex of the baby, cremation for another two days, then religious ceremonies for another few and maybe by Christmas the whole truth about pari parentage would have come out and by them PR would be rating 0.5 or so.

I wonder how mahaan archanna, sulo aaji and vinod would have allowed the hospital to just throw away the still born by their loving purvi by the wayside without even looking back for once.

Just my POV

Stillborn is not in a better place...If she is than why not those who put her there Miss Purvi? She should have died instead...Instead of coming up with cruel ideas of swapping babies and havign someone else do the dirty job..

A dead baby in heaven is not in a better place that in this world? Talk about over the top arguments here.

So many here was quick to point fingers at other members when they talk about ovi getting what she deserved and sowing the seed she planted. They interpreted to mean that some of us is rejoicing the death of ovi's baby when they themselves are wishing death on Pari's mother. Talk about the back in the days world.😕

How does one guarantee that this baby went to Heaven?

Originally posted by: rayadallie

A dead baby in heaven is not in a better place that in this world? Talk about over the top arguments here.

So many here was quick to point fingers at other members when they talk about ovi getting what she deserved and sowing the seed she planted. They interpreted to mean that some of us is rejoicing the death of ovi's baby when they themselves are wishing death on Pari's mother. Talk about the back in the days world.😕

Completely agree with u. People call us insensitive and wht not. If some1 wish for ovi's death thats inhuman and heartless people and many more bt its ok if u discuss abt purvi's death as if only ovi has right to live and if u wish death of others its ok.

And really feeling bad for ovi's child. Bt that doesnt mean pari should nt get her happiness. I remember the day people were maurning 4 purvi's child and dozen of post cursing teju and rest of members for nt celebrating for ovi. At that time everything was so fresh bt demand was abt ovi should get attention. Bt now when 2 months pass away and here demand is abt maurning.

Question is abt in the midst of the mess and ovi's child is nt part of this mess anymore so how he/she is part of discussion.? If u want to compare even fate of dead child so why only ovi's child? Let disctss abt archana's first kid (which she lost coz of bad financial condition.) and ask savita and sulo how many miscarriage they had in their jawani days and mourn for all. Why maurning 4 ovi's child for 2 long months? I dnt think any pr mother cried for dead kid for 2 months. So they should make record of all still born and Start crying and maurning.

U need memories to miss some1. Unfortunately ovi's child was nt destined to come on this earth. Thats sad part. Bt maurning after 2 months?

Originally posted by: ..aastha..

Completely agree with u. People call us insensitive and wht not. If some1 wish for ovi's death thats inhuman and heartless people and many more bt its ok if u discuss abt purvi's death as if only ovi has right to live and if u wish death of others its ok.

And really feeling bad for ovi's child. Bt that doesnt mean pari should nt get her happiness. I remember the day people were maurning 4 purvi's child and dozen of post cursing teju and rest of members for nt celebrating for ovi. At that time everything was so fresh bt demand was abt ovi should get attention. Bt now when 2 months pass away and here demand is abt maurning.

Question is abt in the midst of the mess and ovi's child is nt part of this mess anymore so how he/she is part of discussion.? If u want to compare even fate of dead child so why only ovi's child? Let disctss abt archana's first kid (which she lost coz of bad financial condition.) and ask savita and sulo how many miscarriage they had in their jawani days and mourn for all. Why maurning 4 ovi's child for 2 long months? I dnt think any pr mother cried for dead kid for 2 months. So they should make record of all still born and Start crying and maurning.

Sadly the mother didn't know about her child 2 months before, nor is she mourning for 2 months. As far as I could calculate the timelines in PR, the mother knew about her stillborn 2 days (as of today;s episode). so, according to you dear, she shouldn't be allowed to do that too???

And the last line...I do not know how really to comment...it only shows our nature dear...

U need memories to miss some1. Unfortunately ovi's child was nt destined to come on this earth. Thats sad part. Bt maurning after 2 months?

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Wow Pari only? What about that Innocent Stillborn of Ovi's baby??? Did she asked to be born or die the way she did?? Atleast Pari is alive and her father has shown love and kissed her...Ovi has shown love, care and nursed her with her own milk..

What did that stillborn get? Parents do not even know what its gender was...No first holding by mother, love of affection, Oh forgot she died so no mourning either, no cremation for the baby nor proper goodbyes by the mother..

Now you tell me who is the unlucky one here...Pari or the stillborn..

Originally posted by: Anjli2010

Both the stillborn and Ovi too Di. It was heartbreaking to see Ovi grieve the

way she did. I must admit the girl playing Ovi is doing a s uperb job of the

character. I used to hate her once but now I just love her. I hope she

doesnot agree to take care of Pari and just walks out. She has been

truly wronged by sanskari Purvi. Our slapper mata Sulochana should

have given Purvi few more slaps😆

Are M latest is Ovi's stillborn is in better place with god in heaven and not in this world...Wow what a justification...If an innocent baby is not spared than how will Ovi be seen as unlucky and cheated..No mercy man...Duniya saali badi cruel hai re..😭

I have been writing for the longest Queen B sanskari Sulo is the most hypocritical PIMB woman.

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