In the midst of the mess..

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Throughout all of the mess we have been viewing, reading, discussing about most of us have a characters that we sympathize with more or less because we understand them better. For me the only person I truly feel bad for is PARI. Pari is the only person who didn't have a single hand in creating this mess. How would Pari feel if she learned of this when she got older? That her parents were to get married, but then ended up marrying others, her dad never knew her mom was pregnant with her, her mom gave her to her sister in 2 mins, her aunt found out about her truth and then no longer felt love for her?
Pari's life is a mess, she is the true victim. A child/ baby needs to be in a stable environment with parents who are there to meet her needs rather than be absolved in their own drama. Leading up to this event whether we like to admit it or not every single character except maybe Varsha had a role to play. Ovi for professing the deal, Purvi for forcing Arjun to marry Ovi, Arjun for listening to Purvi, Parents standing idle and not doing anything..šŸ¤”
The one person who is the victim is Pari. All the other characters one way or another are getting Karma, yeah maybe what they are recieving back is a little to much but they did play a role in the drama.
Now on the only person I truly feel bad for and sympathize with is dear angel Pari. For her lifes about to get a whole lot worse in the 2 months shes been in this world.

This is my POV. Constructive words and comments are invited.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Most definitely. I am waiting to see how the CV's work this out. Pari is the biggest victim and I want her to get justice in all of this. As it seem at the moment is only her father loves her the most. I also hope that arjun does teh right thing and return pari to her rightful mother, at least she can control her anger more than her sister. She would be sensible enough to not see pari as a burden and a reminder of her problems. she fetched pari for 9 mths and bring her into this world lovingly. Some of us tend to forget that
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ekta, my sincere request to you. Introduce a new character for Arjun, make them fall in love, give Pari a perfect mother :)
None of these mothers are good enough.
I would love to see Sukriti and Rithvik back on screen together :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Great post Avni! šŸ‘ I mean I do feel very bad for Ovi, like sympathizing for her is justified because she was cheated and no one can deny that she was. But after seeing the precap, it made me really mad Ovi and I felt like she got what she deserved. If I was in Ovi's place, the year before with Purvi and Arjun were about to get married, I would have let them, because in her heart, does Ovi not know that Arjun never truly loved her? Of course he loved her as a friend, even a sister but nothing beyond that. I started feeling bad for Pari the second when Purvi decided to give her away. Sure it made Ovi happy for the time being, but I don't think she thought it through. When everyone found out, they were bound to be mad. The thing that makes me feel most bad about Pari is that even at such a young age, so much is going on around her and things are changing around her. She dosen't deserve it because she did nothing. The sad part is, she dosen't even know what's going on, and when she grows up, it's all gonna be there. 😭
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Wow Pari only? What about that Innocent Stillborn of Ovi's baby??? Did she asked to be born or die the way she did?? Atleast Pari is alive and her father has shown love and kissed her...Ovi has shown love, care and nursed her with her own milk..
What did that stillborn get? Parents do not even know what its gender was...No first holding by mother, love of affection, Oh forgot she died so no mourning either, no cremation for the baby nor proper goodbyes by the mother..
Now you tell me who is the unlucky one here...Pari or the stillborn..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Wow Pari only? What about that Innocent Stillborn of Ovi's baby??? Did she asked to be born or die the way she did?? Atleast Pari is alive and her father has shown love and kissed her...Ovi has shown love, care and nursed her with her own milk..

What did that stillborn get? Parents do not even know what its gender was...No first holding by mother, love of affection, Oh forgot she died so no mourning either, no cremation for the baby nor proper goodbyes by the mother..
Now you tell me who is the unlucky one here...Pari or the stillborn..



I agree with you the poor baby was not even wept over. I made my analysis based on the people affected now in the current situation.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: xoxoarvi



I agree with you the poor baby was not even wept over. I made my analysis based on the people affected now in the current situation.

Current situation is the rest of the cast has not even mentioned a single oz of mourning or sadness for Ovi's loss..The stillborn is still part of the current situation dead or alive..
SHe is the most unfortunate child whose mother loved her-him to death, father did not give 2 hoots abt, nor did grand parents or siblings-aunt uncles..
Baby was as isolated as Ovi was..What a shame..
While Purvi hogged all attention now Pari will too..I agree at this time she is innocent too
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Current situation is the rest of the cast has not even mentioned a single oz of mourning or sadness for Ovi's loss..The stillborn is still part of the current situation dead or alive..

SHe is the most unfortunate child whose mother loved her-him to death, father did not give 2 hoots abt, nor did grand parents or siblings-aunt uncles..
Baby was as isolated as Ovi was..What a shame..
While Purvi hogged all attention now Pari will too..I agree at this time she is innocent too


The baby is in a better place with God.😭
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Avni rightfully said! šŸ‘

Everyone is a culprit in this entire mess.So blaming one character for this mess alone is absolutely well crappy...

And Pari ,poor child ,born in a world of drama ...
She is honestly the one who all this will affect ..

Her aunty blackmailed her mother just to get the happiness for her grandmother.And then well her mother forcing her father into a marriagešŸ˜•

Poor child...


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Posted: 12 years ago
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In PR no character is worth any sympathy. All are to be blamed hands down.
Ovi's kid died and that's a sad thing and no mother should ever face such situations. It hurts when a mother loses her kid, I know because I have seen my relative who had 4-5 miscarriages. But then the kid is at a better place.

Pari I feel is better off in an orphanage I feel sometimes. Away from her kaand-filled family. She deserves a good household free of any tamasha and tyaag lovers.

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