Its Arjun who has always suffered the most! - Page 6

Originally posted by: Missscarlett

I reread my whole post and i couldnt find where i have said that arjun is suffering for no fault of his own. The point of this post was to say how arjun got the raw end of the deal in this whole marriage fiasco only because he was stupid enough to love purvi and give in her demands. I am not saying that arjun is not at fault okay? And i agree with u that he should have handled the ovi matter with a lil more sense. Yes, she deserved an apology and he gave it to her. I dont think even if arjun might have given her his blood she might have been pacified. She only wanted arjunz love and not his apology. Arjun is totally at fault in here but that doesnt justify what ovi did!
She should never have made that deal but should have accepted that arjun doesnt love her with dignity! U cant just say that itz all arjunz fault that he didnt explain his love to ovi. It is equally all of theirz fault. Ovi, purvi and arjun are responsible for this marriage fiasco. But what is funny is that arjun is the one who is suffering the most here!

i sum how dont get y is arjun termed being suffered a lot,

Originally posted by: sidgauri.

a guy who doesn't understand the seriousness of some another woman breast feeding his child is good for nothing. a pervert who has eyelocks with his saali who is the wife of the man who saved his own wife and child is not fit for sympathies.

i thank god that i haven't lost my sanity and senses yet

Originally posted by: sipokobusak

you are right linda.
a lover must fight for their love..and defend it.

look at ovi..she fight for it.
great example.

Originally posted by: TALIRAlinda

A person who truly loves you, will never let you go, no matter how hard the situation is !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

so true love not exist in this frame 😃

Originally posted by: Missscarlett

Hello guys...
I am a huge fan of RD's and i only started watching PR because RD was cast in it! Arjun is my fav character in PR from the day i started watching it. His character Arjun was nothing new. A rich suave businessman ,who is a workoholic and cares only about one thing i.e profit. What was new was the way RD portrayed him and soon enough i was heads over heels forArjun and Arvi.
It makes me sad that my fav character in PR is now just a shadow of what he used to be. He is crippled by the love of a women who has always put everyone before him.Arjun is the one who has always suffered the most due to Purviz endless sacrifices! He was forced to get married to a women he didnt love just for the sake of Purviz happiness. If that want enough now the true identity of his baby and all d mess related to it has been hidden from him. One can say that Onir has suffered just as much due to Purvi's selflessness but atleast he ASKED for it and brought this upon himself when he asked to be married to her. But what is Arjunz fault? The only fault of his is that he loved a girl more than himself. Purvi has never shown consideration for Arjunz emotions . Even when she donated her baby to Ovi it was Ovi's feelings she thought about NOT Arjun's. She wasnt like how will Arjun cope up with the loss of his child but what will Ovi feel just because she is Archanaz daughter! That pissed me off to no end.
Also neither have the D family or the K family have shown any consideration for his feelings. How in the world did they expect him to just move on from purvi to ovi just because he is married to her? The shocks on the faces of the whole family wen they heard that Arjun Ovi havent consummated their marriage was so stupid that it was almost funny! How thick can they be? Its so obvious that the man was in love with purvi. How can they think that he can forget about purvi in a few seconds? Most importantly why didnt anyone object or condemn Ovi for making the deal of the doom?
I really really feel sorry for Arjun. He has suffered the most for no fault of his own. I used to be a huge Arvi fan (read past tense) but i dont think Purvi deserves a guy like Arjun. I wish the truth of Pari comes out asap and Arjun sues both Purvi and Onir hard for playing with his happiness and divorce Ovi (now that he knows that Ovi isnt the mother of his child) for creating this whole mess in the first place, take his daughter and run the hell away from the D clan, Purvi and Ovi! Neither Purvi nor Ovi deserve him! He doesnt need the obsessive lover who makes deals to get him nor does he need the self proclaimed martyr who gives him up in a jiffy!
Arjun is a smart,kind,rich,very good looking,sucessful man. M pretty sure he will find a women who is SANE and mature to love him 😳

This is what I was referring to.

Bang on Post Shweta..
I really feel very bad for Arjun..!!
For he is not even a shadow of what he used to be..
see what have they done to our Arjun Kirlosker..
it sad but yes he has suffered the most..he fell in love with purvi,proved his love,was ditched on his marriage day by his lover,was made to marry another girl,and now he dont even know that the child purvi was carrying is his...and above all this the mahaan baby donation track..
Purvi gets to be free...marry other guy..and what abt arjun..?
he is still stuck with ovi..bearing all her tantrums
as esha said no one even remembers dat arjun loved purvi once..all just forgot about them..its so sad for cv's to come up with such type of story..
I for now really want arjun to get all the happiness which he deserves..enough of this suffering...he deserves to be happy..!!


my POV..!!

Originally posted by: Missscarlett

h huma... I so feel for arjun and even me no longer cares about purvi and onir. I dont even mind if they end up together! They deserve each other infact!
I just want a happy ending for arjun

Originally posted by: Missscarlett

I reread my whole post and i couldnt find where i have said that arjun is suffering for no fault of his own. The point of this post was to say how arjun got the raw end of the deal in this whole marriage fiasco only because he was stupid enough to love purvi and give in her demands. I am not saying that arjun is not at fault okay? And i agree with u that he should have handled the ovi matter with a lil more sense. Yes, she deserved an apology and he gave it to her. I dont think even if arjun might have given her his blood she might have been pacified. She only wanted arjunz love and not his apology. Arjun is totally at fault in here but that doesnt justify what ovi did!
She should never have made that deal but should have accepted that arjun doesnt love her with dignity! U cant just say that itz all arjunz fault that he didnt explain his love to ovi. It is equally all of theirz fault. Ovi, purvi and arjun are responsible for this marriage fiasco. But what is funny is that arjun is the one who is suffering the most here!

I absolutely agree with you. Ovi was definitely responsible for the mess and Purvi too. That's what I've been trying to get across. That OBVIOUSLY Purvi and Ovi are responsible. But so is Arjun. All 3 of them were equally responsible for the stupid marriage deal.

Originally posted by: ChemistryMajor

I sort of agree with you in the sense that yes! it sucked big time for Arjun when Purvi bailed on him ON the day of marriage.

However, I do not have any sympathy for him. You can't blame Ovi for what happened up until the actual day of marriage. Arjun agreed to marry her, kept her in the dark about Purvi, and didn't give two hoots about his "childhood friend" after Archana and Purvi agreed to him marrying Purvi. He didn't care about what Ovi was going through after he dumped her AND started his wedding preparations TO HER SISTER. He didn't even have the decency of having one conversation with Ovi and apologizing truthfully to her. You don't think that was cruel? I thought it was.

On the day of the marriage, when Ovi and Purvi struck the deal, yes then Ovi can be blamed.

HOWEVER, did anyone pull a gun to his head? Did anyone ACTUALLY FORCE him? Was he physically tied? Was anyone's life in danger that he absolutely had to agree to Purvi's stupid demands? The answer is NO.

You can blame Purvi and Ovi all you want. Yes, they are responsible for creating the mess. But Arjun is just as repsonsible for agreeing to marry Ovi. He could have said No. He could have said "Fine Purvi, I won't marry you. But I won't marry Ovi either and ruin my life" He is a grown man! You can't say he is suffering for "no faults of his own." He is responsible for his own actions. He is suffering because he agreed to Purvi's non-sensical demand.

And even after he has married Ovi, he continues to be stuck in his past. So much for all his talk about loving the baby and the baby changing his life. Even after he has a child, he won't move on and love the family he has. And I mean truly love and appreciate his wife and child. Because we all know he doesn't by the way he looks Purvi.

So yes Arjun has suffered, Not doubting that. But he is just as responsible for bringing this suffering upon himself as Purvi and Ovi.

Originally posted by: ChemistryMajor

This is what I was referring to.

Oh yeah thats right. M sorry. I didnt even notice that i had typed it as i am online from mobile nw :)
Its my fault. But actually i was reffering to this baby walla situation! What is arjunz fault in that? Doesnt he deserve to knw about the whole mess about pari? I shudder to think what he will go through once he learns that purvi has once again played with his life