Its Arjun who has always suffered the most! - Page 5

i was really a big fan of arjuns chrcter frm the time he entered(plus loved him in pyar ki ek kahani) too,

Originally posted by: TALIRAlinda

actually we can say ovi fought but way was wrong ,

that doesnt mean purvi was right , purvi was super wrong .

and purvi wrong that doesnt mean arjun right , arjun was super hit wrong

and conclusion is everyone were wrong

but ovi fought for her love , its true .

and arjun purvi accepted it , its true .

and they left each other willingly , its true .

so final conclusion is their love was not love ,😃

that was just temporary attraction .😃😉

in the end same word ,'''''''''''' A person who truly loves you, will never let you go, no matter how hard the situation is!!!!! '''''''' so fake it was !!!!!! other word ''''''' 'infatuation '''''''

Yes dear. Its ua pov and i respect that 😊

I sort of agree with you in the sense that yes! it sucked big time for Arjun when Purvi bailed on him ON the day of marriage.

However, I do not have any sympathy for him. You can't blame Ovi for what happened up until the actual day of marriage. Arjun agreed to marry her, kept her in the dark about Purvi, and didn't give two hoots about his "childhood friend" after Archana and Purvi agreed to him marrying Purvi. He didn't care about what Ovi was going through after he dumped her AND started his wedding preparations TO HER SISTER. He didn't even have the decency of having one conversation with Ovi and apologizing truthfully to her. You don't think that was cruel? I thought it was.

On the day of the marriage, when Ovi and Purvi struck the deal, yes then Ovi can be blamed.

HOWEVER, did anyone pull a gun to his head? Did anyone ACTUALLY FORCE him? Was he physically tied? Was anyone's life in danger that he absolutely had to agree to Purvi's stupid demands? The answer is NO.

You can blame Purvi and Ovi all you want. Yes, they are responsible for creating the mess. But Arjun is just as repsonsible for agreeing to marry Ovi. He could have said No. He could have said "Fine Purvi, I won't marry you. But I won't marry Ovi either and ruin my life" He is a grown man! You can't say he is suffering for "no faults of his own." He is responsible for his own actions. He is suffering because he agreed to Purvi's non-sensical demand.

And even after he has married Ovi, he continues to be stuck in his past. So much for all his talk about loving the baby and the baby changing his life. Even after he has a child, he won't move on and love the family he has. And I mean truly love and appreciate his wife and child. Because we all know he doesn't by the way he looks Purvi.

So yes Arjun has suffered, Not doubting that. But he is just as responsible for bringing this suffering upon himself as Purvi and Ovi.

Originally posted by: sipokobusak

purvi the one who snatched it.

Originally posted by: ChemistryMajor

I sort of agree with you in the sense that yes! it sucked big time for Arjun when Purvi bailed on him ON the day of marriage.

However, I do not have any sympathy for him. You can't blame Ovi for what happened up until the actual day of marriage. Arjun agreed to marry her, kept her in the dark about Purvi, and didn't give two hoots about his "childhood friend" after Archana and Purvi agreed to him marrying Purvi. He didn't care about what Ovi was going through after he dumped her AND started his wedding preparations TO HER SISTER. He didn't even have the decency of having one conversation with Ovi and apologizing truthfully to her. You don't think that was cruel? I thought it was.

On the day of the marriage, when Ovi and Purvi struck the deal, yes then Ovi can be blamed.

HOWEVER, did anyone pull a gun to his head? Did anyone ACTUALLY FORCE him? Was he physically tied? Was anyone's life in danger that he absolutely had to agree to Purvi's stupid demands? The answer is NO.

You can blame Purvi and Ovi all you want. Yes, they are responsible for creating the mess. But Arjun is just as repsonsible for agreeing to marry Ovi. He could have said No. He could have said "Fine Purvi, I won't marry you. But I won't marry Ovi either and ruin my life"

And even after he has married Ovi, he continues to be stuck in his past. So much for all his talk about loving the baby and the baby changing his life. Even after he has a child, he won't move on and love the family he has. And I mean truly love and appreciate his wife and child. Because we all know he doesn't by the way he looks Purvi.

So yes Arjun has suffered, Not doubting that. But he is just as responsible for bringing this suffering upon himself as Purvi and Ovi.

I agree with ua comment but i wasnt pointing who is responsible for this whole mess. Arjun is at fault that he didnt handle the situation with ovi very well. I can justify him by saying that he had more important things on his mind like d deal that archana forced on him. And anyways ovi was beyond reasoning at that time. The whole D clan was trying to make her understand the situation yet she was adamanant. I dont see how if arjun would have made ovi understand. It would just have given her false hope as she was totally convinced that he loves her. Arjun would have made the matter worse if he would have being close to her and i am glad that he maintained his distance.
The marriage walla deal was forced upon him! Purvi did kinda sorta hold him on the gun point. Ofcourse he didnt have to do it but did it anyways because he knew how devasted purvi would b if armaan divorce. I am nt saying that it was a smart decision but i can see why he did it. And hence i say that this was his only mistake that he gave in purviz demands and is suffering like anything now

Originally posted by: Missscarlett

I agree with ua comment but i wasnt pointing who is responsible for this whole mess. Arjun is at fault that he didnt handle the situation with ovi very well. I can justify him by saying that he had more important things on his mind like d deal that archana forced on him. And anyways ovi was beyond reasoning at that time. The whole D clan was trying to make her understand the situation yet she was adamanant. I dont see how if arjun would have made ovi understand. It would just have given her false hope as she was totally convinced that he loves her. Arjun would have made the matter worse if he would have being close to her and i am glad that he maintained his distance.
The marriage walla deal was forced upon him! Purvi did kinda sorta hold him on the gun point. Ofcourse he didnt have to do it but did it anyways because he knew how devasted purvi would b if armaan divorce. I am nt saying that it was a smart decision but i can see why he did it. And hence i say that this was his only mistake that he gave in purviz demands and is suffering like anything now

Yes you were pointing to who's responsible for the mess. In your first post, you said Arjun is suffering for no fault of his own. That's why I mentioned my opinion about it.

And NO Purvi did NOT "sorta hold him at gun point". And Archana's deal wasn't on his mind! Archana's deal was over long before that. The Arjun/Purvi marriage was planned BECAUSE Archana agreed to it after Arjun got shot saving Purvi's life. Archana was another big culprit at the time, shoving Purvi/Arjun's marriage in the D's face. But that's another story.

Yes, Purvi insisted and blackmailed him but in no way did she drag him to the mandap and forced him to marry Ovi. It's your opinion and I respect it. However, I disgree with it. A marriage is BIG decision that you don't just take like that.

Yes Ovi was beyond reasoning. But Arjun was very inconsiderate with her. How do you know she would have had false hopes? Did Arjun even TRY to be honest with her about loving Purvi? NO. Because he truly did not care or respect Ovi as a FRIEND at the time. Was he not his childhood friend? Was he not his MANAV uncle's daughter? She absolutely deserved an explanation for it.

Or okay fine, you don't think he should have explained anything to her. Fine, I'll give you that. But did she not deserve a single sorry?! A single apology for Arjun agreeing to marry her in Canada and wooing Purvi on the side in India? Yeah, what a honourable guy he is.

I dont know why does everyone says that arjun is struck in his past! What is his fault that he loves purvi and not ovi? This whole marriage was forced upon him. Even then he holds dignity and i dont think he has ever crossed his line. He always maintans a digified distance from purvi even though he loves her like anything. This is because he respects his marriage to ovi. He even wants purvi to move on and try for a baby again with onir. He has never crossed his lines even tough he loves purvi a lot and it hurts him to see her with onir. He has given his 100% to this marriage. He respects ovi, loves his child, gives both of them all they want! Its not like he is having an extramartial affair with anyone or comes home drunk and beats his wife or chases after his ex lover. I say arjun is living in the present not the past. If he would have been living in the past then he would have left ovi long time back. Arjun is trying his best to forget about purvi and move on.and make his marriage with ovi successful

Originally posted by: Missscarlett

I dont know why does everyone says that arjun is struck in his past! What is his fault that he loves purvi and not ovi? This whole marriage was forced upon him. Even then he holds dignity and i dont think he has ever crossed his line. He always maintans a digified distance from purvi even though he loves her like anything. This is because he respects his marriage to ovi. He even wants purvi to move on and try for a baby again with onir. He has never crossed his lines even tough he loves purvi a lot and it hurts him to see her with onir. He has given his 100% to this marriage. He respects ovi, loves his child, gives both of them all they want! Its not like he is having an extramartial affair with anyone or comes home drunk and beats his wife or chases after his ex lover. I say arjun is living in the present not the past. If he would have been living in the past then he would have left ovi long time back. Arjun is trying his best to forget about purvi and move on.and make his marriage with ovi successful

Originally posted by: ChemistryMajor

Yes you were pointing to who's responsible for the mess. In your first post, you said Arjun is suffering for no fault of his own.0„2 That's why I mentioned my opinion about it.

And NO Purvi did NOT "sorta hold him at gun point". And Archana's deal wasn't on his mind! Archana's deal was over long before that. The Arjun/Purvi marriage was planned BECAUSE Archana agreed to it after Arjun got shot saving Purvi's life. Archana was another big culprit at the time, shoving Purvi/Arjun's marriage in the D's face. But that's another story.

Yes, Purvi insisted and blackmailed him but in no way did she drag him to the mandap and forced him to marry Ovi. It's your opinion and I respect it. However, I disgree with it. A marriage is BIG decision that you don't just take like that.

Yes Ovi was beyond reasoning. But Arjun was very inconsiderate with her. How do you know she would have had false hopes? Did Arjun even TRY to be honest with her about loving Purvi? NO. Because he truly did not care or respect Ovi as a FRIEND at the time. Was he not his childhood friend? Was he not his MANAV uncle's daughter? She absolutely deserved an explanation for it.0„2

Or okay fine, you don't think he should have explained anything to her. Fine, I'll give you that. But did she not deserve a single sorry?! A single apology for Arjun agreeing to marry her in Canada and wooing Purvi on the side in India? Yeah, what a honourable guy he is.

I reread my whole post and i couldnt find where i have said that arjun is suffering for no fault of his own. The point of this post was to say how arjun got the raw end of the deal in this whole marriage fiasco only because he was stupid enough to love purvi and give in her demands. I am not saying that arjun is not at fault okay? And i agree with u that he should have handled the ovi matter with a lil more sense. Yes, she deserved an apology and he gave it to her. I dont think even if arjun might have given her his blood she might have been pacified. She only wanted arjunz love and not his apology. Arjun is totally at fault in here but that doesnt justify what ovi did!
She should never have made that deal but should have accepted that arjun doesnt love her with dignity! U cant just say that itz all arjunz fault that he didnt explain his love to ovi. It is equally all of theirz fault. Ovi, purvi and arjun are responsible for this marriage fiasco. But what is funny is that arjun is the one who is suffering the most here!

Originally posted by: sherma

the problem is,he isnt

y wld he give his and ovi daughter name pari,

y wld he not react like a normal fther wld whn ovi tld him abt purvi

the fact is if onir wldnt have been in picture,arjun wld have still ran behind purvi,and purvi wld b termed as mistress of mr arjun

How do u knw what arjun might have done if onir wasnt in the picture?
He named his daughter pari because he wanted to. Its his choice. Mayb he likes the name?
I Wouldnt comment of this breastfeeding matter as i havent seen the episode!