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pari87

@pari87

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: eshaaax3.

@bold&red Exact thoughts in my head, and the answer is the war zone that's created in every topic, sadly

it's really simple-

you don't support a couple/character/etc - do not comment. Yes we're all allowed to commen t wherever and whenever we want, but there's a difference between posting your view in a healthy manner as opposed to posting your opinion and shoving it down everyone else's throats -

I don't think we call the arjun-purvi AT's of glorious hymns about them or the arguments made on this thread or any other post of ARVI's pavitra love as opinions shoved down our throat! this forum is meant for everyone and if people do not have arguments for points, it's a different matter, rather than calling other people as forcing their opinions. Topics are closed because some people get over emotional or get personal or attacking...That doesn't mean that people who are opposing the view cause the topic to shut down.

If people have a problem with putting up a healthy debate and feel "threatened" by opposing opinions, there is no one stopping them from using the AT's of their fav characters to sing praises without having us or any one else bother with a counter-argument.

I love OVi, but I don't call the people who hate her on this forum as people who are "shoving" their opinions. If I feel the need to argue on their post, I do, if I have nothing to say, I don't. OR I don't even bother reading some of the material against her. I request people to do the same for their characters.

MY POV strictly.

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rayadallie

@rayadallie

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: eshaaax3.

@bold&red Exact thoughts in my head, and the answer is the war zone that's created in every topic, sadly

it's really simple-

you don't support a couple/character/etc - do not comment. Yes we're all allowed to commen t wherever and whenever we want, but there's a difference between posting your view in a healthy manner as opposed to posting your opinion and shoving it down everyone else's throats -

@bold Very True, I observed this in many post here😆

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Kalapi

@Kalapi

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: rayadallie
I agree with most of your comments here but as soon as someone open a thread and there seems to be support for ARVI its always closed by the moderator or someone always request for it to be closed. It seems to me that the forum does not support two point of view and healthy discussion.

I agree that some members do get all emotional and disrespectful but there are rules which the moderator can apply and the punishment which is justified if the members defaulting dont desist from such actions.

I was absent for quite sometime from this forum because of the same issue as i felt that the forum was one sided. I only come back here a few weeks back and it seems as though nothing has changed. One of my topic was closed and i could not understand why

Well, I am not sure why particular threads are closed, you should take it up with the mods, but I can assure you me and many others in this forum are interested in genuine discussions. I find certain topic interesting and even more find it interesting to hear what others have to share. In fact we had many interesting discussions before from rape, to abortion to union strikes just to name a few. Having a different POV does make anyone bad, nor presenting it means, they are up to any mischief. These days it seems, whenever an alternate view is presented, members are mocked, or called names or simply told not to comment on certain topics. That to me is dictatorship. I am sure all of us are mature and adult and can take these fictional character as just that ' fictional. None of the actors/actress in real life has any hard feeling for each other; rather there are colleagues who share their world with each other at work. So, I for one am never emotional about any character/ actor/actress, nor am I into AT. To me the only thing that matter, is the storyline that I analyze according to my experience, my moral value systems, as I have been raised and my individual outlook towards life. Anyway, me and many others are mature enough to know we can't change anyone by just writing post, ppl change under circumstances, so nothing is being shoved down anyone throat, But, at the same time, no member can dictate where a fellow member might or might not post...and members are free to post for or against any topic of their choice... there can't be any restrictions on that. That is the reason we have forum, where different POV are shared, surely that happens in real life too. So, at least I can say, members with different views are only here to share their view, following forum rules and following forum decorum, and sharing their views shouldn't be construed as something else, like shoving down anyone throat...truly, do we believe that we can do that ...is changing another person POV is that easy, I believe not...

Edited by Kalapi - 12 years ago

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Orchid

@_OrChiD_

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: aathya

linda thats your opinion dear. ... each individual has their own thinkng their own way of living some ppl dont give a damn abt society... in my opinion if we think abt society v cant do the things v want to do ..see for example take asha only.. her parents were against her acting desire because of the society(normally every1 feels its a bad industry) at last they let go of that feeling and thats y asha is here today ... its just our way of thinkg abt somethng or somebody.. each individual has their own perception...

yeah every individual personality has their own opinion , i just said society more important thats it ..its just MY POV .

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Orchid

@_OrChiD_

Trailblazer

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Posted: 12 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: rayadallie
It maybe unethical and you as a brother, mother, father, sister etc would not want for it to happen but it does and we have no control over it. But I do not think we should make a big deal out of it as we would push those very people we claim to love over the edge. Its reality and we have to deal with it. the fact that it is a sin or not is irrelevant. My POV

WELL if we stuck at only love point then it is not sin nor unethical as they about to get married but still it is unethical ,

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zonan

@zonan

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: TALIRAlinda

WELL if we stuck at only love point then it is not sin nor unethical as they about to get married but still it is unethical ,

For me, a sin is a sin.
Using love as an excuse does not change it.

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JShiv

@JShiv

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#67

Well i wasn't gonna post on this tread but i cant help my self😳

First of all since almost everyone is debating on weather sex before marriage is a sin or not i'm just gonna put what i know. Of course sex before marriage is a sin. But is Purvi the only girl in this world to commit this terrible sin??? No right cause i'm sure more than 80 % of this world has and still is committing this very sin. People are having sex before marriage all part of this world this is something that is happening every single day.

I'm no gonna degrade Purvi for doing it or look at her differently i know many people who did the same thing but that does not mean i go around gossiping about what they did or what has happen to them.Because i have sisters, nieces cousins and friends and this can happen to them as well (i hope not though) but it will not make me treat them any different if it happen by mistake the most you can do is make sure they don't do the same thing twice cause then it will not be a mistake but a choice a mistake made once should be forgiven. Purvi made a mistake and she knows it she is trying not to let this mistake ruin her family's happiness what is so wrong in doing that.

I have seen Purvi acknowledging and realizing her mistakes but so far has never seen Ovi showing any remorse for her mistakes not even for harming her own baby. That means if sex before marriage is such a big sin isn't harming your baby a sin as well??? Ovi didn't harm her baby by mistake she did it fully well knowing what she was doing and not once many times yet she never feels sorry for doing so. Purvi has done enough good deeds in her life to make up for this sin My POV strictly.

Edited by jonelle - 12 years ago

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Orchid

@_OrChiD_

Trailblazer

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Posted: 12 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: sipokobusak

For me, a sin is a sin.
Using love as an excuse does not change it.

still it is unethical ,,,,, will always be unethical ,,,,,,,, and love ❓

love doesnt change the fact ,, right ????

it is just an excuse ,,,,,,,,,, nothing else ...

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rayadallie

@rayadallie

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: jonelle
Well i wasn't gonna post on this tread but i cant help my self😳

First of all since almost everyone is debating on weather sex before marriage is a sin or not i'm just gonna put what i know. Of course sex before marriage is a sin. But is Purvi the only girl in this world to commit this terrible sin??? No right cause i'm sure more than 80 % of this world has and still is committing this very sin. People are having sex before marriage all part of this world this is something that is happening every single day.

I'm no gonna degrade Purvi for doing it or look at her differently i know many people who did the same thing but that does not mean i go around gossiping about what they did or what has happen to them.Because i have sisters, nieces cousins and friends and this can happen to them as well (i hope not though) but it will not make me treat them any different if it happen by mistake the most you can do is make sure they don't do the same thing twice cause then it will not be a mistake but a choice a mistake made once should be forgiven. Purvi made a mistake and she knows it she is trying not to let this mistake ruin her family's happiness what is so wrong in doing that.

I have seen Purvi acknowledging and realizing her mistakes but so far has never seen Ovi showing any remorse for her mistakes not even for harming her own baby. That means if sex before marriage is such a big sin isn't harming your baby a sin as well??? Ovi didn't harm her baby by mistake she did it fully well knowing what she was doing and not once many times yet she never feels sorry for doing so. Purvi has done enough good deeds in her life to make up for this sin My POV strictly.

Lovely post as always. I like the way you look at the realities and mesh it with what is happening in the serial.

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Shweta laxman

@-Stardust-

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: jonelle
Well i wasn't gonna post on this tread but i cant help my self😳

First of all since almost everyone 0„2is debating on weather sex before marriage is a sin or not i'm just gonna put what i know. Of course sex before marriage is a sin. But is Purvi the only girl 0„2in this world to commit this terrible sin??? No right cause i'm sure more than 80 % of this world has and still is0„2committing0„2this very sin. People are having sex before marriage all part of this world this is something that is happening every single day.

0„2I'm no gonna degrade Purvi for doing it or look at her differently i know many people who did the same thing but that0„2does0„2not mean i go around gossiping about what they did or what has happen to them.Because i have sisters, nieces cousins and friends and this can happen to them as well (i hope not though) but it will not make me treat them any different0„2if it happen by mistake the most you can do is make sure they don't do the same thing twice cause then it will not be a mistake but a choice 0„2a mistake made once should be forgiven. Purvi made a mistake and she knows it she is trying not to let this mistake ruin her family's happiness what is so wrong in doing that.

0„2I have seen Purvi0„2acknowledging0„2and0„2realizing0„2her mistakes but so far has never seen Ovi showing any remorse for her mistakes not even for harming her own baby. That means if sex before marriage is such a big sin isn't harming your baby a sin as well??? Ovi didn't harm her baby by mistake she did it fully well knowing what she was doing and not once many times yet she never feels sorry for doing so. Purvi has done enough good deeds in her life to make up for this sin My POV0„2strictly.0„2

Omg! Awesome post.. Agree with u... Even i have known a lot of ppl who have commited this 'sin' and i really dont care about it. I will nt view purvi or arvi differently juss bcause of this. They loved each other and love each other. Period! .

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