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Posted: 12 years ago
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MARVELOUS POST. Your writing proves that what real meaning of Purvi's mind. She all time try to good for family but destiny play all time cruel to her. That all people are bashing purvi. Their comment are really hurting ARVIAN. No one can try to understand Purvi's mind.No human is perfect. If anyone make not any wrong then s/he is not human but saint. Purvi is not a saint but human.

Purvi feels that she owes so much to the Deshmukhs.. Primarily Archana since she gave her a home and love even though she was an orphan. When she was with Archana these 18 years all Archu talked about was how much she wanted her family back.. Now that her family is back she somehow feels obligated to make sure they are always happy.. She always blames herself for Ovi's unhappiness...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: john909

well according to me it is a stupid decision. no one is really happy right now. purvi might be happy after doing this stupid sacrifice of hers. she got ovi and arjun married by blackmailing arjun. answer one question only.


who is really happy with this marriage? def not ovi or arjun.



Well said. No need to go into the long discussions. I would be surprised if there is even one person in this forum who could claim that either Ovi, Arjun, or the Mahanta personifed Purvi is happy with this marriage.

If anything, all three of them are more miserable than ever. And why? Thanks to mahanta ki devi.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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love this post. i rli feel sorry for purvi. Itz rli hard to leave the person you love
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Posted: 12 years ago
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When she got a bakra like Arjun to do the stupidest of the things she can keep getting Mahanta title.Firstly who gave her the right to decide Arjun's life.She used him to the last and now she is using Onir.In the name of doing good to Deshmukh she puts other people's life in misery and who gave her the right.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Rayadallie, i am glad you have written in support of Purvi. I think she's kind of like Archana in the sense that no matter what she does she blamed for doing the wrong thing,. She can't win.

Truthfully I believe that if she had announced her pregnancy by Arjun at the time she found out, when Ovi just announced they hadn't consummated their marriage, THAT would have been the very worst time of all to reveal it. Think of what Ovi would have done, it would have been like an explosion in the family and Ovi probably would have done something terrible.

In my opinion Purvi did the best she knew how to do. So much turmoil for her. Of course she shouldn't have caved in to Ovi's demands and manipulations about getting them married, nor should Arjun have agreed...but once that was done, I think she had no choice but to leave.

Just because no one is happy doesn't mean she made a wrong decision about revealing the baby. No one is happy because everyone is mismatched.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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The mismatch is due to her decision making .


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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think it does not matter when she announced or how she announced or whatever on earth she sacrificed for Ovi.

The bottom line is, she slept with her sisters husband. She so desperately wanted to get away from, and to whom she kept repeatedly asking him to go back to Ovi and start afresh, to only sleep with him in a moment of weakness? So much for sacrifice and strength. The fact that she has the audacity to come back to "help" Ovi for Ovi's good, in my opinion is pure BS. If she truly cared so much about her Arjun and her sister Ovi, she would have never thought of doing what she is doing to the three of them, Archana, Onir and Ovi. As for Arjun, he deserves the misery he is going through. Ironically, all of Purvi's sacrifices kind of wash away infront of this major selfish act of hers. She is not that mahan afterall, actually, she is just umm, a tad bit more selfish and weak than Ovi.
~Naina, assertively.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well said. Thank for the post...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: john909

well according to me it is a stupid decision. no one is really happy right now. purvi might be happy after doing this stupid sacrifice of hers. she got ovi and arjun married by blackmailing arjun. answer one question only.


who is really happy with this marriage? def not ovi or arjun.

Yet the parents and the one who raised these immature and naive kids think all is well and are fooled by fake smiles and fake stories or happiness

What makes you think Purvi is happy as well? She's pregnant with the love of her life's kid, yet she's not married to him - he's married to her sister, while she's married to someone else whom she doesn't feel as strong of a love for.

Of course, Ovi realizes Arjun's love for Purvi AFTER they get married And of course - the family is happy with this marriage. Apparently everyone is, except for Purvi, Arjun, and Ovi 🤔
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

The mismatch is due to her decision making .





Kools, I think the mismatch is because Ovi was dense and just could not accept that Arjun was not hers. If Ovi had not proposed the deal, Purvi would have been happily married to Arjun.

While we are blaming Purvi, let us not forget to point fingers at the master mind behind it all, Ovi Deshmuck, the root cause behind all this misery. My POV, Ovi deserves all the anguish coming her way, good is always rewarded, bad will be punished, sooner or later. Purvi had good intentions, yes, she paved the way to hell and back but Ovi's motives were pure selfishness and that unfortunately will come back to bite her.

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