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Tejaswini Wenham

@tejaswiniwenham

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Posted: 12 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
As Sana said , it was theek thaak show ..

Ankita's acting was superb in the first scene .One could see a mother's pain but as expected , the minute Archana saw pain in Purvi's eyes ( when she talked about Arjun and Ovi moving on ) ,she just forgot her own pain and hugged her child ..That was a lovely touch ...

Why is Arjun doing this to himself ..When will he learn to say NO ...

I am getting fed up with Arjun ...He is going deeper and eeper in a situation where he just does not wish to be ..I think now he considers it his duty because he is the father of Ovi's child ...

Manav came back today ...😊 looking great in a suit ...It was lovely to see all of them taking ashirwaads from Dmodar ..specially how Savita took Damodar 's blessings ...that was cute ...

Why is Manav not taking mithai for our Prince Soham ...he is in jail and even if he refuses to take it , I still want Manav to take mithai for him ...

My heart goes out to Arjun in the precap ..Very good acting by Rithwik ...

I think Archana wants to tell Arjun about Purvi ...maybe this is right because Arjun must also be wrorried about her . It's only fair that he too should know ...

Star Of The Day ...

Archana ...for forgetting her own pain and thinking about her daughter's pain ...for forgiving Purvi so quickly and also for looking so gorgeous ...

if I may, it technically (as in legally) is arjuns duty to keep ovi happy. she is carrying his child and she IS his wife. he either has to leave (which he does not WANT to do cos purvi told him not to and also because he wishes to ensure his baby arrives safely to the world) OR he has to keep her happy to make his home and family life bareable. and i honestly dont think he's properly tried. sleeping with her, food, shelter and medication, health care doesnt count. thats something her dad and she can provide for themselves.

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naava

@naava

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

if I may, it technically (as in legally) is arjuns duty to keep ovi happy. she is carrying his child and she IS his wife. he either has to leave (which he does not WANT to do cos purvi told him not to and also because he wishes to ensure his baby arrives safely to the world) OR he has to keep her happy to make his home and family life bareable. and i honestly dont think he's properly tried. sleeping with her, food, shelter and medication, health care doesnt count. thats something her dad and she can provide for themselves.

Teju...i understand what you are wanting to say, but i don't think there is a law to make someone happy. There is a responsibility to take care of someone and ensure most of the things you mention like food, shelter and health care and certainly for the well being of the baby...but there's no law to force someone to love another person.

I guess i am at a loss to see why anyone expects Arjun to love someone he says he doesn't and when he says clearly that he loves someone else. You can't make someone feel a certain way towards another. Yes, he should leave but Tanya is right in my opinion, he keeps digging his hole deeper and deeper.

Both Purvi and Ovi emotionally blackmailed him to marry Ovi whom he doesn't love. How is it Ovi's "right" to now expect him to love her? I really dont get this logic. 😕 Or for that matter how is it right for Purvi to demand the same thing? That Arjun "love" Ovi.

Even though he is acting like a robot, he really is a human being. 😲 but not a very smart one. 😆

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Tejaswini Wenham

@tejaswiniwenham

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#33

@nava negligence and emotional distress can be legitimate cases to sue for divorce. 'court concluded that "emotional distress is as real and tormenting as physical pain, and psychological well-being deserves as much legal protection as physical well-being."' McCulloh v. Drake (Wyoming, 3d. 1162 (2001)) atleast in usa and canada i think. she wud have a good case too as her doctors would vouch that she is emotionally distressed and suicidal. and they are canadian citizens im guessing. he is legally bound to not neglect her or emotionally distress her. now you may say there are doctors and super busy executives who never spend time with their wives. i knw im one of them. hahaha. but different people different needs. their relationship seems to be one of bitterness or utter silence. he just never really tried. but ya if i was pregnant (which incidentally i am) i wud want my husband at my beck and call to cater to my every craving or just even listen to my silly insecurities. sorry for being such a stickler. i just studied the case. i just studied the case few months back. haha 😊but lets forget legalities. i dnt think ovi cares for declarations of love at this point but his time and care is a different deal. he doesnt need to love her to show her the minimum level of care that he showed her today and there was a change in her behavior. she actually refered to the child as theirs and didnt bicker with him. so... dont get me wrong i agree with tanya that he shud leave but if he cant for whatever reason he really shud try to show some regard for her and not just as the mother of his baby...especially if he 'cared' enough to get her pregnant.

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 12 years ago

#34

Teju, I want Arjun to leave Ovi .His heart is just not into her at all..He made a huge mistake listening to Purvi and now every day he is dying a slow painful death ...Purvi has sentenced him to a life that is unbearable for him to live ..

I know it was his fault that he accepted ...I know all that but I just can't help feeling sorry for him ...

I bad very very bad for him and Ovi in my opinion is terribly spoilt and to be honest I don't like her one bit .She knows the conditions on which she married ...I know a lot feel that she has a right to be loved by Arjun but I can't help it ..I just can't forget the way she and Purvi bullied Arjun into doing what they wanted him to do ...

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pomegranate

@pomegranate

Sparkler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
Teju, I want Arjun to leave Ovi .His heart is just not into her at all..He made a huge mistake listening to Purvi and now every day he is dying a slow painful death ...Purvi has sentenced him to a life that is unbearable for him to live ..

I know it was his fault that he accepted ...I know all that but I just can't help feeling sorry for him ...

I bad very very bad for him and Ovi in my opinion is terribly spoilt and to be honest I don't like her one bit .She knows the conditions on which she married ...I know a lot feel that she has a right to be loved by Arjun but I can't help it ..I just can't forget the way she and Purvi bullied Arjun into doing what they wanted him to do ...

I think I'm just beginning to realize that maybe arjun just cannot love ovi.u can't force love and if you're heart is not in it, better to just let go. the problem is that ovi is pregnant and divorcing her is just not right. I wish he didn't listen to purvi and put an end to is agony earlier.

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 12 years ago

#36

Oh by the way Teju , congratulations and all the best for you and your new baby ...👍🏼

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Tejaswini Wenham

@tejaswiniwenham

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
Teju, I want Arjun to leave Ovi .His heart is just not into her at all..He made a huge mistake listening to Purvi and now every day he is dying a slow painful death ...Purvi has sentenced him to a life that is unbearable for him to live ..

I know it was his fault that he accepted ...I know all that but I just can't help feeling sorry for him ...

I bad very very bad for him and Ovi in my opinion is terribly spoilt and to be honest I don't like her one bit .She knows the conditions on which she married ...I know a lot feel that she has a right to be loved by Arjun but I can't help it ..I just can't forget the way she and Purvi bullied Arjun into doing what they wanted him to do ...

oh no tanya...i dont disagree with you about arjun's scenerio and at times i do feel for him too. but come on he is human right? terrible things happen to human beings all the time and they deal with it. all ovi wants is a little bit of attention and that seems like too much for him to deal with. on the other hand leaving her seems like too much for him to deal with. i mean come on dude be a man. he had the guts/audacity to slap his legally wed wife infront of everyone in a party but he didnt have the guts to say no to purvi's marry ovi, sleep with ovi 'orders'?!?

ovi may be terribly spoilt but that has nothing to do with the requests she makes of arjun. she never asked him for things that were beyond his affordability. yes she doesnt like dr. onir but to be fair i dont think any of us would appreciate a doctor who was as condescending as onir to her and also his chamber is not within her comfort zone its natural for her to feel off. and most of all as we learnt from onir and arjuns convo today, ovi makes arjun irritated because she is miserable. and as for the conditions of their marriage. she never signed a contract saying she will be a desk lamp in arjuns bedroom forever, and arjun never said that he finds her impossible to love or even care for or spend some time with. infact he asked to try make his marriage work- that means spending time with her and working out their differences, not sleeping with her occasionally and living life in complete silence. love is overrated but not companionship and commitment. i think its clear by now how rare moments like today are in ovis life and arjun barely said a word to her!

BUT f all that, if he doesnt wanna make any effort whatsoever, atleast make a little bit of effort and LEAVE! your not doing ovi, your baby or yourself any favors dude. your making path for a child who will be miserable between parents who are constantly at war (i knw kids from divorced families are perfectly fine but not when their parents are constantly bitter about each other) whilst you and your wife are already miserable! he's just a mentally weak man who doesnt know how to stand up for what he wants or properly honor his commitments and im not talking about love tanya just friendship and companionship. if purvi was never in the picture, him and ovi would have been married and whether he loved her or not, he would have kept her happy cos she was his best friend or wouldve atleast tried right? well dats what he really shud have done when purvi exited the picture and he asked for a second chance.

makes sense?

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Tejaswini Wenham

@tejaswiniwenham

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
Oh by the way Teju , congratulations and all the best for you and your new baby ...👍🏼

hahaha thank you much tanya! 😳 ⭐️

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Jalkaur

@Jalkaur

Inactive

Posted: 12 years ago

#39

After reading the updates here and comments I don't thin Arjun and Purvi will get together. Purvi can act that she is happy and Arjun is just plain miserable but is in it because of his promise to Purvi.

What a punishment for love!!!! Well, Ovi can have Arjun because she is the supermodel😡 or so she says but I think Purvi would be more a supermodel than Ovi.

If they are all married how can they ever be together again? its finished.

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sushkita10

@sushkita10

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

#40

tanya and naava i see in real life a person fall in love but somehow parents get married with another person but later they become happy couple and forget previous love with the time.i saw 2of my relative and 2/3 freind who r happy with their hubby/wife.life is unpredictable love and if he/she dont get her/him, he/she moved away.its possible if ppl try to adjust with the situation.there r many ppl in settle marriage they dislike the person whom going to marry but after marriage they discover the person is perfect fr them.i m not saying ovi is perfect for arjun but arjun proceed in his life wth ovi and ovi is pregnant so how he left him now?its totally wrong for the baby who not even come in this world.what the baby did?why he/she will b abundant by its dad?bc its mother is ovi?how ppl can say arjun should left ovi now?he should left her before he physically involved with ovi and shouldnt go for pregnancy

Edited by poas - 12 years ago

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