Originally posted by: Laila2009
I can understand people's reluctance since they have the same set of parents. However, since there is no blood relationship, if written well, it can add more masala.
I can accept the Purvi-Arjun romance because they fell in love without her being aware that he was engaged to Ovi. Once it happened, and she realized he wanted to be with her as well, then it was acceptable. It is also important to note, we never saw Arjun in love with Ovi; he agreed to the marriage as she pestered him to death and he was like, well if I have to get married, I might as well get married to you. What is interesting is that Arjun and Ovi grew up together and were allowed to get married. - and they grew up more like siblings than did Purvi with Soham or Sachin...So, now Arjun agreed; he was never serious about it.
I hold Arjun responsible first...he knew he was engaged to be married to Ovi...Whether in love or not does not matter..I disagree with you on underlined part as it did not happen as you mentioned abv...
Purvi initially is not responsible or blamed for as she did not know Ovi-Arjun were engaged when he pursued her...But Arjun sure did..I can accept Ovi-Arjun's marriage as they initially were engaged to be married...But I dont get Arjun-purvi romance as she is adoptive sister of the woman he was engaged to...Tooo close for comfort IMHO...Not a good mature move on Arjun's part and Bad bad bad decision on supporting it on Archna-Sulo's part...
BTW why should Archana get mad at Ovi? She did not drive Purvi away...Its Arjun and Purvi she should be mad at...Especially Arjun they should be mad at ...Purvi gave the answer that she could not stand Arjun with other woman...Truth is out..Why blame Ovi for everything?
Once Purvi found out she should have stayed away...Both sisters should have stayed away from him once they found out he was in love with Purvi and engaged to Ovi...
Whether Arjun-Ovi grew up like siblings or best of friends is questionable...I believe they were more of best friends and he was acting with her as if he had special right over her...They did not act like siblings at all...Again its personal perspective..
Just because one of the partner is not in love does not mean marriage can't work..Be it arranged or love. We all can learn to fall in love and we do fall out of love so that is diff topic all together..I feel Arjun-Ovi could have had a good chance had he given a chance to this marriage instead of hanging on to his Ex-Lover's sadistic words-demands..
The whole Ovi-Arjun-purvi situation could have been avoided had Arjun not fallen in love with Ovi's sister..Had Purvi been a outsider 3 rd party it would have been much easier for Ovi to deal with...There was more than a friendship between Ovi-Arjun friendship...2 family had personal close relationships and business partnership..He has put two families and 3 people in a messy situation..
Ovi is not the one to be blamed for loving Arjun..If Ovi is blamed for loving Arjun, Then one has to blame Arjun for carrying the same torch for Purvi who is has done the worst by what she did in making Ovi-Arjun marry. My POV only.
Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago