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Posted: 12 years ago
Just a clarification: Purvi did NOT sacrifice for Ovi. She explicitly said that she did for her mom and her mom only. I don't think anyone apart from Teju, Savita, and Manav gave a shit about Ovi's life. In fact, even after her first suicide attempt, Purvi wanted Manav to come to her wedding as HER father despite knowing that Ovi attempted suicide. Yea invite the father of the girl who was supposed to marry your fiance even after her trying to kill herself. Besides, if she really cared about Ovi, Purvi would not have gone back to Arjun even with that lame challenge.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Why she should have not been with Arjun after all she did love him. That is why I said Purvi is a fool. I think this time she did it for both. More for her mother and little for Ovi.

You can understand from where Ovi is coming from but can not justify Ovi's choices and she has made lot's of wrong choices and now she has to face the consequences of those.

Purvi, Ovi and Arjun are product of neglect and poor up bringing.

Purvi may have gotten love from Archana but not the confidence and self worth, as Archana herself had none.other's kept on reminding her that she is not of blood but adopted.

Ovi was spoiled rotten by her family and she has gone to far that now it too late to teach her importance of thinking about others.

Arjun had no mother to guide him while his dad was to busy to guide him about relationships.

Ovi made those choices herself noone forced her to make them, she has a brain but she does not use that, as she does not know what is right and wrong.

Like Purvi and Arjun they have made those choices and are paying for it.

Likewise Ovi will have to pay for those choices she has made.

All 3 are equally to blame, not only Purvi and Arjun.
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Posted: 12 years ago
^ I think we're talking about completely different issues. Whether or not Purvi should or should not have given up Arjun is not the question. You alluded that Purvi gave up Ovi to save her life which is 100% not true. I countered by saying that IF and only IF Purvi cared about Ovi's life, this whole hoopla wouldn't have happened. There was no concern raised after the first suicide attempt so they did not know abt her second attempt. Now whether Purvi SHOULD care about Ovi or not is another question altogether. It's pretty much confirmed that the sacrifice was not done for Ovi at all, no matter what is shown on later.
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Posted: 12 years ago
But I do agree that everyone has had a hand in the decision. No one was a unwilling lamb. Ovi's motive is clear, she wants Arjun more than her life so it's an offer she couldn't refuse when Purvi came to her door with a cool rational mind. It is her who carried out the whole thing, planned it while Ovi wasn't even prepared and surprised to see it all happen. Ovi clinched on to anything to get Arjun as a wailing child might do. Does that make it right? No but it does explain her actions. Purvi and Arjun's motives are more blurred. What reasons does Arjun have to stay in the marriage let alone get into it in the first place? I think he's a confused character.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: sunflower52

I do not agree with your post.


Nice girls do not do what Ovi did, she has made the deal and she will have to lay on the bed.

Ovi needs to wake up from the slumber that Arjun does not love her and her forcing him and blaming Purvi will not make her marriage work. After all she got Arjun through the deal and did not win him. That her marriage is a sham from the word go.

About Purvi , she is the biggest fool I have ever seen in my life. Who does that, giving up her love. Hope she regrets what she did. If she had really loved Arjun she would have not forced him to get married to Ovi, just because she was about commit to suicide. She should have told Arjun and both should have gone to stop her from committing this folly and knock some sense into Ovi or let her dad know.

Normal and nice humans have a conscience while Ovi has none what so ever.

Ekta needs to show that people like Ovi will never win, as in real life these kind of people do not have a good end.

Ovi's hassrat will remain that only.

The biggest example of the show that use to air on Zee called "Hassratein".

purvi dint marry arjun not for ovi,but for archan,this purvi had tld ovi blintly inthe mandir whn ovi was thanking her
hnestly nor arvi or armaan were concernedd wid d fact that ovi had becm sucidal,any fther in manavs place wld never evn think of leavimg her daughter like this,same goes wid archna
the concern she was yseterday for soham thinking abt him,although he has hurted her more then wat ovi did wid her
and ovi was in mre bad condition then soham was yesterday
but she very happily was dressed up for purvis marriage,not evn once thinking abt ovi
wat i like abt ovi,is her honesty,she isnt double faced like punni
she doesnt like purvi mean she doesnt like
and she doesnt chnges her feeeling and emotions like others
purvi did eevryting for archu,she sacrificed arjun for archu
but whn she went tomeet his friend(aditya of phir subah hogi fame)she chnged the reason,saying she idid for her sister ovi
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: PandorasBox

But I do agree that everyone has had a hand in the decision. No one was a unwilling lamb. Ovi's motive is clear, she wants Arjun more than her life so it's an offer she couldn't refuse when Purvi came to her door with a cool rational mind. It is her who carried out the whole thing, planned it while Ovi wasn't even prepared and surprised to see it all happen. Ovi clinched on to anything to get Arjun as a wailing child might do. Does that make it right? No but it does explain her actions. Purvi and Arjun's motives are more blurred. What reasons does Arjun have to stay in the marriage let alone get into it in the first place? I think he's a confused character.

i so agree wid u,y is arjun still waiting in the marriage,if he is so unhappy,
evn if u assume purvi left after yesterday scene,he cld still divorce ovi,
but wat he did,he made her pregnnat
and i dont by this that the ovi kid is not arjuns,cause if it wldnt arjun wldnt b runing to doctrs 4 ovi
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: sherma

purvi dint marry arjun not for ovi,but for archan,this purvi had tld ovi blintly inthe mandir whn ovi was thanking her

hnestly nor arvi or armaan were concernedd wid d fact that ovi had becm sucidal,any fther in manavs place wld never evn think of leavimg her daughter like this,same goes wid archna
the concern she was yseterday for soham thinking abt him,although he has hurted her more then wat ovi did wid her
and ovi was in mre bad condition then soham was yesterday
but she very happily was dressed up for purvis marriage,not evn once thinking abt ovi
wat i like abt ovi,is her honesty,she isnt double faced like punni
she doesnt like purvi mean she doesnt like
and she doesnt chnges her feeeling and emotions like others
purvi did eevryting for archu,she sacrificed arjun for archu
but whn she went tomeet his friend(aditya of phir subah hogi fame)she chnged the reason,saying she idid for her sister ovi


We know Punni is a horrible person , again her up bringing.

This all come to the choices people make whether good or bad, you face the consequences. Oh please Soham is in the same boat as the rest of the kids in PR.

When it comes to Ovi, all I see is a self centred and selfish spoiled rich girl, who does not look beyond her own needs and wants. If Arjun was selfish so was Ovi.

People who are nice are not selfish, self centred and ill mannered.

Ovi is only nice when she gets what she wants, otherwise she is not so nice. As long as people agree with her she is fine and if someone goes against her she shows her true colours. I have seen people like Ovi.

I think Purvi did for both more for Archana and little for Ovi. As Ovi is Archana's real daughter.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: PandorasBox

But I do agree that everyone has had a hand in the decision. No one was a unwilling lamb. Ovi's motive is clear, she wants Arjun more than her life so it's an offer she couldn't refuse when Purvi came to her door with a cool rational mind. It is her who carried out the whole thing, planned it while Ovi wasn't even prepared and surprised to see it all happen. Ovi clinched on to anything to get Arjun as a wailing child might do. Does that make it right? No but it does explain her actions. Purvi and Arjun's motives are more blurred. What reasons does Arjun have to stay in the marriage let alone get into it in the first place? I think he's a confused character.


About Arjun's motive I am not clear, Purvi and Ovi made the decision with a clear mind.

If Ovi is really nice, she would have stopped Purvi from making this decision and said No I wont get married like this, but no she saw the opportunity grabbed it knowing deep inside that the man she is getting married to does not love her.

Purvi is a fool.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: PandorasBox

^ I think we're talking about completely different issues. Whether or not Purvi should or should not have given up Arjun is not the question. You alluded that Purvi gave up Ovi to save her life which is 100% not true. I countered by saying that IF and only IF Purvi cared about Ovi's life, this whole hoopla wouldn't have happened. There was no concern raised after the first suicide attempt so they did not know abt her second attempt. Now whether Purvi SHOULD care about Ovi or not is another question altogether. It's pretty much confirmed that the sacrifice was not done for Ovi at all, no matter what is shown on later.

Hi there!!
Totally agree on your post..
Not only there was no concern raised on Ovi's first suicide attempt, but even her kidnapping was totally underminded as Ovi had escaped. Purvi's kidnapping was highlighted...No one ever remembers Ovi was kidnapped or tried killing herself..
Ovi had put an offer forth to Archana her mother but Archana flat out refused it.
Ovi yet again put the same offer-deal to Purvi but never heard back..Why purvi did not refuse that offer? Ovi had given up and thought Arjun-Purvi were getting married as their marriage-rishta was rubbed into her and deshmukh's faces every chance Archana, Sulochana and Purvi got..
How was Ovi to know sanskari purvi will set all this in motion to get Arjun and Ovi married..She was surprised as Arjun too...Why did Purvi not tell Arjun abt Ovi's deal?? She also hide so much from Arjun. Purvi dumped Arjun for her mother's happiness and nothing or no one else..
Had Arjun-Purvi gotten married as planned Ovi had no choice but accept..
My biggest gripe is Purvi should have stayed away from Arjun once she did find out they were verbally engaged to be married.. Sister does not do this to other sister if there was any concern...Mother and grand mother does not support sister falling in love with the other sister's fiance...EK shows everything one must not do...😡
Edited by Dabulls23 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: iluvarvi

@ orange, excuse u, wow wow! what a clever way to attack members and their memory! we all remember how ovi got kidnapped and ovi trying to commit suicide. she committed suicicde to get sympathy from others😡 nobiody needs to feel sorry for her because its just an act to put up sympathy. and let me tell u something, our memories arent weak or anything so stop saying that!

Excuse me 😲 What r u talking abt and you are the one who is attacking me by accusing..
Read my post...NO One on PR Team of the show including Ovi's parents ArMan remember she tried killing herself But Purvi's kidnapping was brought up even in court...Ovi's kidnapping was not even mentioned in the case against Bishnu lala-Soham. Her kidnapping and suicide both were forgotten & shoved under the rug as if they never happened..Stop reading too much into my post..
Why dont you speak for yourself instead of with "Our"
Edited by Dabulls23 - 12 years ago

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