Originally posted by: sherma
the problem is people want tosee bad in anything what ovi does,if she tells archu to cum home for arjun,she is bad
if she tells her to cumhome cause she needs her,she is selfish
i had not seen yeterday episode,so readthe updates,and i saw people commenting hw selfcentered ovi is,she is not wrried for her parents but arvi thing is still on her head
but she was genuinely worried for her parents adn teju
and she happily went to k house to give the news to sulo and purvi,
and ovi being insecure-arjun have given her reasons for doing it so
Okay let me get this straight, I do think that Ovi is being mature sometimes but not all the time.
It seems like she does it ONLY when it suits her but again that's not ALL the time, sometimes she does do things to make others happy but not all the time. Don't you remember those times when she specifically ordered Archu to call her 'ma'am' ?? Who in their right mind would order a middle aged lady to call them ma'am. You have to respect your elders and up until the point that she found out about the fact that it wasn't archu's fault she did anything but respect her. Teju at all times respected archu even at one point looked after archu when she was ill. So who's the better person there?
I understand that Ovi thought archu had abandoned them but that doesn't give her any right to act the way she did with archu in the first place, I mean this was the woman who went through the pain of birth for her regardless of whatever archu did with her afterwards.
I don't agree with you about the fact that Ovi genuinly asked archu to come home, that was ONLY and ONLY because of the fact that purvi explained to her that the only way Ovi can get married to arjun would be if she allowed archu to go home. So that was Ovi trying to save her supposed relationship with arjun.
I loved the part when Ovi told archu that she needed her because she does need her, Ovi has never had a mother figure in her life and I love to see that Ovi has finally excepted her, even hugging her which is just amazing to see. I also understand that she is worried for her parents but she does have a mobile phone so why can't she just press the button and call teju? They are sisters after all.
I also loved how Ovi decided to tell the good news to Purvi and Sulo, it shows that she does have a heart but someone somewhere needs to show the poor girl what true love is.
I'm not saying arjun and purvi are not at fault. Arjun should have forced purvi to accept that he would never marry Ovi, reason being that Ovi has already been through so much emotional upheaval and it wouldn't do good to her mental stability if her marriage carries on the way that it is doing now. Purvi was selfish in the fact that she gave up on arjun, she didn't think about what would happen to her sisters wellbeing after having got herself into a loveless marriage because that is what it is. Archu's situation could have been solved by bringing the truth out into the open which it eventually did. So purvi and arjuns 'sacrifice' holds no place in the whole fiasco. It happened for no reason whatsoever.
Ovi and Arjun are married by name only, they do not have a loving marriage and I think it's hightime that they sit down and have a long talk about what their future holds.
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