Kool's Commentary : 8 Oct PR - Page 8

Originally posted by: Kalapi

Soap critic...wanted to butt in here 😆, to me the BAHL is a bit different...Priya was assumed dead after (I am guessing )a police inquiry and the other sister was pregoo with the brother's child...some people does marry a sister or a bhabhi just to keep the child within the family and prevent badnami...so, at least I see the POV...besides, in my veiw, what Priya did was beyond pardonable (my POV)...she simply took a decision on behalf of all her family and parents...I really felt that day when Priya's dad said, 'do you know what it is to lose a child'...Priya was simply wrong to do what she did and to me Ram's anger is totally justifiable...I mean even legal court will consider a person dead after a while...in that sense Ram/Priya do not have a valid marriage anymore...

Kool,

Yes, Priya never even contacted Ram when she came to know her pregnancy. Wasn't Ram entitled to this info? She continuously took decisions on behalf of others in the name of all kind of justifications…God, how the leads are glorified, when some decisions can't be solely theirs to make.

Shymala,

Wasn't the 7 yr loophole used cleverly by the Cvs here? How convenient it is to have Priya come back after 5 yrs, when she just knew exactly where Ram lived etc. all these years. She wasn't the one losing her mental stability, either. It was rather a cool and calculated move and then she chose to hide her daughter for Ram, who had every right to this piece of info., in my opinion.

I am especially interested in this 7 yrs loophole. Priya was assumed and in all possibilities considered death after the accident. In this scenario, how can the 7 yr rule be applied? What if Ram really did move on and married someone and is happily leading a married life. It is unfair, for a wife to appear after 5 yrs and just disrupt the other wife/kids family? Somehow, this doesn't seem fair at all.

Now, if Priya was just declared missing, even then, isn't 7 yrs too long a wait. What is there are circumstances like a small kid is involved and the family decides to get the hubby married for the sake of the child. What if the hubby, after awhile of mourning, moves on and finds a girl and gets married? It is so unfair to this girl, because the first wife suddenly appears from nowhere? I find at this age, a 7 yrs wait is just not acceptable…it is a long time to wait to keep life 'on a hold' and see if someone wants to make that appearance. Even if this person lost mental stability or something, that doesn't give the person the right anymore even then to disrupt someone else's life. Unfair, yes, but when is life fair…at best, life is bitter sweet😃

In case of Ayesha, she might be evil personified, but she did make a life for herself and for her son. How fair is this to this son, for Priya to come and disrupt a setup that was working, in a sense…

As for Arjun/Ovi and Purvi mess, I too don't care where the banana finally lands up, rather am interested to see who gets to peel it first😆

Kool, I never understood why Varsha 'chose' to be with Balan all these years. What was her reasoning? I mean, she was the only Karanjkar female who was not only educated but also successful professionally and had a mind of her own. So, being educated, she could have found a low key job like teaching in a primary school of something that could sustain them both and in fact give a better future to Soham. I mean she did love Soham like her son, so there wasn't any reason to want a bad future of a goon for him. It is so unbelievable and is only done to make Varsha look evil, to actual avoid understanding her POV, since Soham being a negative character totally makes her look bad and give her no points for her love for Soham and her own incapability as well as that the entire Karanjkar failed to understand her or help her…Soham being a goon is to only glorify Archana in a way and nothing else. It is the trend in this serial.

Varsha, you raise an extremely interesting point. But, even in modern Indian an life of an unmarried Girl preggo and then living with a family she isn't married too, is not easy ...I mean Indian society isn't that big hearted, even today... it was bound to start the tongue rolling... what status Ayesha had without a marriage to Sid- nothing, she is and was just his mistress, right. In fact, the parents of this unmarried girl will face a lot of humiliation not only for the pregnancy but for living under a different roof with no 'named' relationship. Besides, I guess, Sid fled leaving Ayesha stranded. Priya for all logical reason was dead. Yes, you would say there wasn't love between Ayesha and Ram, but then we are assuming that love is a needed component for marriage. But, marriage can happen even for duty. Few episodes back, they showed in CP that a bhabhi was married off to BIL, when her 1 yr old hubby met with an accident. So, Ram might have married Ayesha to, keep the baby in the family, save all of them from badnami (and not just Ayesha). Besides, it must have been very hard for Priya's father to deal with the death of Priya and Ayesha's pregnancy and Sid's betrayal and the associated badnami of the family and Ram just did the right thing he thought could help all...Priya was dead to him...this is how I look at Ram's situation atleast...

Originally posted by: Kalapi

Varsha, you raise an extremely interesting point. But, even in modern Indian an life of an unmarried Girl preggo and then living with a family she isn't married too, is not easy ...I mean Indian society isn't that big hearted, even today... it was bound to start the tongue rolling... what status Ayesha had without a marriage to Sid- nothing, she is and was just his mistress, right. In fact, the parents of this unmarried girl will face a lot of humiliation not only for the pregnancy but for living under a different roof with no 'named' relationship. Besides, I guess, Sid fled leaving Ayesha stranded. Priya for all logical reason was dead. Yes, you would say there wasn't love between Ayesha and Ram, but then we are assuming that love is a needed component for marriage. But, marriage can happen even for duty. Few episodes back, they showed in CP that a bhabhi was married off to BIL, when her 1 yr old hubby met with an accident. So, Ram might have married Ayesha to, keep the baby in the family, save all of them from badnami (and not just Ayesha). Besides, it must have been very hard for Priya's father to deal with the death of Priya and Ayesha's pregnancy and Sid's betrayal and the associated badnami of the family and Ram just did the right thing he thought could help all...Priya was dead to him...this is how I look at Ram's situation atleast...

Varsha, can't quote from work😃

No, I agree that all should have been dead mad at Ayesha for what she did to Priya...Ram of all person, should have just shot her point blank..although, from Ayesha POV, I get why she did it...probably a marriage was the barter here..there is always some exchange in Ekta land😕

Ayesha could have declare her marriage to Sid secretly...very true, and that was a way out definitely, since Sid probably wasn't in the picture anyway...marriage in secrecy has it share of problems, but could work if both Kapoor and Sharmas were ok to accept...marriage is nothing but a social form of acceptance..so that could work...yes, I agree with you...absolutely

Don't know if any other men could willingly marry a preggo girl, maybe for money, possible 😕

Yes, Rishabh could have married too, but Ram felt he needed to be the sacrificial lamb 😉and spare Rishabh the headache later 😉😆 and Ayesha's tantrums😆...besides, Ayesha just wanted her jeeju😉...Jeejus are some prized possession in Ekta serials😆😉...all SILs only run after them for some reason😆😉😉🤣...

You are really one of the best DA 👏 👏and that is a huge compliment, my dear 🤗and I also consider myself quite a good DA😃, since I can argue both sides effectively most of the time..😆