Originally posted by: ptecvish
Sorry but I dont agree with you. I know that you must be feeling this strongly because you keep saying this again and again. My rebuttal is on the following lines
A) all the men had choices to make and they made them. No one forced manav tO love archana or Arjun to love purvi. Both of them had a choice to say no but CHOSE to become victims and look oh so helPless, especially manav.
B) why do you keep saying all k- women.do you think the men associated wit Savita deshmukhs have led a happy life ie Damodar and Manav or for that matter Sachin?
Filled with hatred and brainwashed.Do you find ajit a good man?
Every character at some point has been both good and bad and foolish. You seem to forget all the
them because they wanted to. They are no victims except of the choices they made.Sorry!
You dont have to be sorry for posting your views 😊.I agree to disagree..IF you see my post its in a generalized way .Manav and Arjun have their faults to share no question on that.But where does the core props lie here.Lack of trust.Archu has done so much ,way too much goodness is not also good.Soham incident was never the reason of their destruction ,it was final nail in the coffin but the chawl court case was major reason.Time and again Sulo has created so much mess in Archu's life like Savita did in Manav's life .I only mentioned three men good men of PR - Manav,Satish and Arjun and not Ajit and co.
I am no way disrespecting any woman here. I am talking about their choices.MY point is pertaining to the senseless sacrifices the mother-daughter duo have done for others happiness.
Every character has been selfish and foolish but whenever Manav has tried to approach ARchu for re-union like in Punni's engagement Archu had to backout due to a senseless Sachu's promise which she values even now.Manav tried but Archu is not ready to budge.
My whole point is what is the point of too much goodness which is giving pain for you and others around.Hence both Archu n Purvi are such sacrificial lambs.
I am ardent old school Arman/Sushita/Hiten fan and I all waiting for Arman re-union.But this senseless sacrifices by putting others over their love needs to be realized by both ARchu n Purvi.
I dont feel anything strongly like that its just a daily soap after all 😆
I am trying to find the reasoning behind these sacrifices and in the end I dont find any and I see these foolish men as victims who are foolish and idiots in their own sense.
Its said supporting crime is more punishable that the maker of the crime so yes these men deserve what they are getting for senselessly going through with it by making their choice.There is no question in that.My post was not to hurt anyone feelings here.Its just my two cents on the situation. I have defended Archu n Manav so many times like hell 😆 if you have seen my previous long posts..😆
I am not comparing men or women here at all as I already stated .The post was a mockery to Ekta for making the mess of the situation .
I am so waiting to Arman re-union but this time I want to see a changed Archu someone who has learnt from her mistakes of senseless sacrifice and been a tigress in standing mainly first for herself and her children and yes I want Manav to do the same too. 😊
I guess Arvi re-union will come but I want Purvi to realize and see how things could have turned out if she thought like Tej did and fight for her love if she wants to go back to Arjun.She also needs to come out of this sacrifice crap and think about herself and see that her Aai's happiness was her marriage and not her separation.
Thank you for your post and I am not guy who would ever like to compare men or woman and I am not exactly the one too who would want to debate harshly over it 😊..I think many of the forum dears know about me on that 😆
So I agree on some of your points and dont on some its 50-50 deal 😉..Thanks for your response.
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