Shyamala dear ,
I see the root cause of this entire scenario is blind love.
Ovi and Purvi are two girls very young (just giving a analog on age alone).
Ovi - delusional and blind love towards Arjun
Purvi - delusional and blind love towards Manav.
But yes there is a major major difference in the two.But my point is the expectancy.I can understand Purvi's expectancy.The first man in her life will always be her Hero her Baba and especially after the kidnap incident and in the court for Soham's hearing,the way was in trance with her Baba says it all.
Cant blame the girl as she is brought up with the dreams and aspirations of being with her Baba.
But this blind love has someway got its connections rooted to her aai's happiness.Archu is too naive and a emotional selfless fool as always.She has no one to share her feelings except Purvi.She try to hide her feelings but Purvi hit her back saying once that you dont consider me yours.so since Purvi is equally adamant to know Archu's feelings,Archu has no other go but to vent out and the other reason seems to be that Purvi is not coming terms to reality.Archu is stating her reasoning by sharing her feelings to say her that "No matter what this cannot happen" so that Purvi can come to terms with reality but Purvi having been brought up in a emotional love filled environment and with dreams of being with her Baba,its hard to convince a young girl to come to terms to reality.
Certain things are out of parental control and this is one such instance where Archu or anyone cant do anything about it.Manav tried his best explaining it to her,he even shouted her back the repercussion of Archu coming to D's but guess her heart is not ready to accept it and hence she so easily feel for Ovi's trick without even thinking about anything in a jeffy.
Before Purvi makes any move ,I hope she backs off and thinks once :
1)End result of such senseless sacrifices which is the very reason of her Aai's current state.
2)Her marriage is her happiness and nothing else.If she stops her marriage she destroys her aai's happiness.
3)Very important - you cannot play with one life for the sake of other.Cant comprise with people's life.By sacrificing for a happiness of her Aai which is non-existent at the moment ,Purvi cannot afford to put her love/relationship on line.She should repeat the same mistake her Aai did.
I hope Purvi somehow thinks that she cannot force Arman to unite.Relationships cannot be forced.IF Arman want to re-unite ,they will do it on their own terms.Let them do it on their own terms.IF Purvi wants to help she should expose the truth she knows about forged signatures to Manav or give good emotional support to her Aai.
Do either one and leave it to Arman on what they want to do.
Its their life and they are the ones to decide on their relationship.
Sometimes its best for kids not to interfere where they should not be i.e their parents relationship.
Purvi should just focus on her life and her future - Arjun and move on as Manav told her and be supportive to her Aai.
IF destiny/Ekta decides to unite Arman it will happen in its own terms with Arman deciding it.Till that time focus on your relationship and your marriage and take care of your Aai.
Edited by Jaishankar - 13 years ago
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