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Posted: 13 years ago
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So now the divorce is happenign after 15 days , Manav is going back to Canda with family after 15 days and Purvi and Arjun are gettign married after 15 days ..
Too much happening after 15 days ..Maybe KBC is starting after 15 days so that is why all this rush ...😆
Why is Damodar playing these games .Why is he giving Manav only .05 info when he knows the entire truth ...I don't like Damodar at all .All this my bahu my bahu is all dramabaazi .I am not buying it at all .
Somehow it looked to me that Purvi and Soham are a little bit soft with each other ...I mean Soham has no intentions of hurting Purvi at all ...but he does not have any problems hurting Arjun ...and Purvi says in the precap that Soham seemed like one of them ...thatis strange because he shot Arjun ...she should only hate him .But I think Purvi and Archana are going to take some kind of a liking for Soham and he too will like them , never mind if he hurts Arjun or Manav .
After a long time , Archana looked absolutely fed up of Manav and Savita .savita of course for obvious reasons and Manav because thisguy just stands there , letting his mother insult her and taunt her all the time and does not say anything to his laadli mother .And when Archu gets tears in her eyes about her daughetrs leaving , he asks her casually ' why are yo ucrying ? Is there anything wrong ? ' I think Manav thinks that the only mother in this world is his mother Savita .
I am glad that Archaan protected Arjun in front of Manav .She need not give this Deshmukh family any explanations ...She is standing by the truth and she also cares a hell of a lot about her daughter Ovi and she need not prove this ...I am glad that she only talked to Manav today about their children and nothing else ..
I want Archana to start getting herslef ready for this divorce and start making herself strong .
Why is Purvi not telling Arjun about Archana's real reason for divorce .He is her fiance , she should share this big secret with him , maybe he can help ...It seems that Purvi just does not care that much now ...I hope the Cvs correct this as it is not looking nice ..Purvi should show some concern for her mother 's life and her pain .Just because Archana told her not to worry does not means tha tPurvi should stop thinking about Archana and what is going to happen to her .
I am fed up with Manav just standing and not doing anything ever for Archana ...He seems so disinterested in her pain or anything about her ...But Hiten looked cool in his new haircut .He looks so much younger ...
Vishnu is interesting I think .I found him entertaining today in the mandir scene .He thinks of his mother as Bhagwan ,I don't think anything in the world will make him blame his mother ..
The way he was taking pangas with Arjun , I think Vishnu will be the reason for the Arjun Purvi problems ...
Star Of The Day .
No one really but if it has to be someone then I guess Archana for giving some angry looks to Savita and looking bit fed up with Manav and forcing the point on him that only he has to tell Ovi that Arjun does not loves her and love cannot be forced .
Edited by Tanyaz - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I don't know why but today I felt that Archana indirectly taunted Manav that Arjun has guts to stand up for his love in front of everyone ...
This is something that Manav has badly failed in ..he has failed to give respect and dignity to the woman he is supposed to love and he just stands there and lets her get insulted day in and day out ..
Today this is what Archana was telling him that she really liked that Arjun came here and in front of the whole world , without caring about anything or anyone , told the world that he loves Purvi ..
If Manav had done this then Archana's life would have been different ...If Manav had told his mother to stop insulting Archaan , stopped Sachin , Tej u and Ovi to stop insulting Archana and the reason ' because I love her and cannot stand her getting insulted ' ...This is something he has never said ...
No wonder Sachin believes that he is doing all this for Manav's happiness because Manav himself does not show the world what Archana means to him ...
I honestly believe that if Manav says only once in front of Sachin that he loves Archana and feels incomplete without her , Sachin would take back his kassam from Archana .
No wonder Archana is so disillusioned and fed up with Manav .It is because of Manav that she stopped having faith in love ..Bu tnow because of Arjun and Purvi she has this faith again and will not hear one word against them .
Edited by Tanyaz - 13 years ago
Posted: 13 years ago
#43
Thanks for the update...,😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

So now the divorce is happenign after 15 days , Manav is going back to Canda with family after 15 days and Purvi and Arjun are gettign married after 15 days ..

Too much happening after 15 days ..Maybe KBC is starting after 15 days so that is why all this rush ...😆
Why is Damodar playing these games .Why is he giving Manav only .05 info when he knows the entire truth ...I don't like Damodar at all .All this my bahu my bahu is all dramabaazi .I am not buying it at all .
Somehow it looked to me that Purvi and Soham are a little bit soft with each other ...I mean Soham has no intentions of hurting Purvi at all ...but he does not have any problems hurting Arjun ...and Purvi says in the precap that Soham seemed like one of them ...thatis strange because he shot Arjun ...she should only hate him .But I think Purvi and Archana are going to take some kind of a liking for Soham and he too will like them , never mind if he hurts Arjun or Manav .
After a long time , Archana looked absolutely fed up of Manav and Savita .savita of course for obvious reasons and Manav because thisguy just stands there , letting his mother insult her and taunt her all the time and does not say anything to his laadli mother .And when Archu gets tears in her eyes about her daughetrs leaving , he asks her casually ' why are yo ucrying ? Is there anything wrong ? ' I think Manav thinks that the only mother in this world is his mother Savita .
I am glad that Archaan protected Arjun in front of Manav .She need not give this Deshmukh family any explanations ...She is standing by the truth and she also cares a hell of a lot about her daughter Ovi and she need not prove this ...I am glad that she only talked to Manav today about their children and nothing else ..
I want Archana to start getting herslef ready for this divorce and start making herself strong .
Why is Purvi not telling Arjun about Archana's real reason for divorce .He is her fiance , she should share this big secret with him , maybe he can help ...It seems that Purvi just does not care that much now ...I hope the Cvs correct this as it is not looking nice ..Purvi should show some concern for her mother 's life and her pain .Just because Archana told her not to worry does not means tha tPurvi should stop thinking about Archana and what is going to happen to her .
I am fed up with Manav just standing and not doing anything ever for Archana ...He seems so disinterested in her pain or anything about her ...But Hiten looked cool in his new haircut .He looks so much younger ...
Vishnu is interesting I think .I found him entertaining today in the mandir scene .He thinks of his mother as Bhagwan ,I don't think anything in the world will make him blame his mother ..
The way he was taking pangas with Arjun , I think Vishnu will be the reason for the Arjun Purvi problems ...
Star Of The Day .
No one really but if it has to be someone then I guess Archana for giving some angry looks to Savita and looking bit fed up with Manav and forcing the point on him that only he has to tell Ovi that Arjun does not loves her and love cannot be forced .


Tanya he asked Archu casually coz he is confused at Archu's state fo behavior..Now we all say that Manav is capricious blowing hot and cold alternatively..How about Archu..One time she shows her full concern pouring out her emotions ,next minute when Manav asks her to come back like in June 13rd epi seeing how much she loves her daughters and says he will talk to his daughters for her ,Archu says money is important and its too late ,cant come back..How is one man suppose to identify for whom or what she is crying..Manav is not a Einstein to figure out everything and moreover useless Damo has not even told 1% of truth..With all this in mind ,how will Manav figure out anything considering how confused soul the guy has been always..To add to this with everything happening around,Arvi situation,Ovi complication etc I dont see both of them in a state of even analyzing things..Hell when have these 2 even thought logically first of all,emotional fools these 2 have always been throughout their life.And moreover according to him(as pictured by Savita and Sachu),its Archu who has demanded divorce and not him and Archu has clearly indicated to him (perfect acting by Archu) that she needs money and loves money more than anything else..And to add to this circumstances like Arvi situation,Ovi factor does not help matter.
Of course we can debate over that Manav should know Archu and Archu should know Manav stuff but but but its Arman we are talking about ,two emotional fools who gave up their relationship for Shravani coz she was carrying Senior Sachu's child whereas the simple solution would have been to adopt that child or support Shravani through this phase and help her settle down with her child...It never happened..So straight forward thinking is never Arman's game..Its always sacrifices,others happiness more important for them.
I will blame Arman equally for the mess as I always have stated..Archu has been carrying over this senseless sacrifice crap and is not ready to open her mouth and Manav does not know the truth and still he is unable to come out of his mother's clutches completely brain washed.This is what I always say for Arman,a perfect example of what happens when you are already to sacrifice everything for others and put others over your relationship.
Archu of course need to open her mouth..Things can be solved only someone talks..No one can live or wait for the fact that one's goodness will be understand..Goodness can be either understood by actions or words..Neither has worked in favor of Archu nor Archu has tried in exposing the truth..So in all this mess I am not sure how Manav is expected to be a Einstein and figure out everything with no one telling him anything..
Yes the place I agree Manav is wrong is that he is not yet come out of his mother's clutches and has been completely brain washed and has allowed his mother to brain wash his children without stopping it..But Manav wanted to correct ,all he wanted the truth but Archu refused to budge due to sachu and Manav is still on MU that Archu wants this divorce .As Archu has given up to destiny ,even Manav has given up and lost hopes I guess and hence he is feeling void.As Archu's focus is Purvi,Manav' focus is Ovi...Again they have placed their responsibilities over their relationship..Both are equal at fault for letting this happen to them and affecting their children in a bad way.
If they are re-uniting ,I sure hope that there be a some straight 1 -1 talks between these 2 and then with their children...This is going beyond a point where even pity will start to wonder whats with these 2 fools..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

I don't know why but today I felt that Archana indirectly taunted Manav that Arjun has guts to stand up for his love in front of everyone ...

This is something that Manav has badly failed in ..he has failed to give respect and dignity to the woman he is supposed to love and he just stands there and lets her get insulted day in and day out ..
Today this is what Archana was telling him that she really liked that Arjun came here and in front of the whole world , without caring about anything or anyone , told the world that he loves Purvi ..
If Manav had done this then Archana's life would have been different ...If Manav had told his mother to stop insulting Archaan , stopped Sachin , Tej u and Ovi to stop insulting Archana and the reason ' because I love her and cannot stand her getting insulted ' ...This is something he has never said ...
No wonder Sachin believes that he is doing all this for Manav's happiness because Manav himself does not show the world what Archana means to him ...
I honestly believe that if Manav says only once in front of Sachin that he loves Archana and feels incomplete without her , Sachin would take back his kassam from Archana .
No wonder Archana is so disillusioned and fed up with Manav .It is because of Manav that she stopped having faith in love ..Bu tnow because of Arjun and Purvi she has this faith again and will not hear one word against them .


Tanya dear when Archu has created a situation where she is asking divorce from Manav for money (thanks to Savita n Sachu),I dont know how it is expected of Manav to tell to the world that he loves her..
He already told her how much he misses her and she told him that (June 13rd epi,may 23rd epis for eg) but for this to happen there needs to be that understanding and trust which lacks big time between the two..
Archu does not have the guts to open up about Sachu as much as Manav does not have guts to open up about his true feelings..Both are same in this way ,they just dont have guts to open up coz of the fact that they feel many people will be hurt..
If Manav for once opens up like this to Sachu,I am sure there will be more emotional blackmail coming back to him..
First of all Archu needs to clear out the MU with Sachu for Sachu take back.Sachu is clouded badly due to Savita which is non-sense..When the other side cant see things clearly,its responsbility of opposite end to clear out the MU if you want to make up to them but Archu is just happy to ensure Sachu's demands are meet without even trying to clear out the MU with him..I dont know how Manav is expected to be the one here to do all the stuff when Archu herself is not willing to budge from her side..
And this is the same Manav who has stood by her side when they re-united on Nov 2010 (of course that Manav n this Manav after leap may be different) but he has done it before..For her he has taken slaps, humiliations everything like she did for him..Hence Archu mentioned you should know Manav about it...And Archu protected Arjun coz she herself knew she was at fault and not any other way,,,She proclaimed Arjun is not suitable for both her daughters and then was forced to revoke back once she knew the reality.So she had to protect Arjun there.
And Archu lost faith in love not coz of Manav...She still loves Manav and she stated to Sulo that both still love each other but cant be together..So I dont think its coz of Manav she lost faith in love but coz of destiny ,fate and her mainly her sister Varsha.If she had thought it was coz of Manav ,she would have stopped loving Manav which she did not and she cant coz she knows both are right and wrong in their own way.
Archu humiliated Manav in front of all in Punni's engagement instead of taking him aside and talking to him..after that I am not sure how can Manav proclaim to the world that both love each other...There needs to be mutual understanding for this to open which is totally not there..So blaming Manav here alone is not fair considering the senseless sacrifice and lies Archu is hiding to satisfy senseless demands..
Edited by Jaishankar - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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how can Archana open her mouth .You know her nature ..She goes out of her way for the happiness of her people and here we are talking about the happiness of her children .Ovi , Teju and Sachin , they all want her out and have a happy home ..
If only once Sachin and the girls says that they want her back in his father's life , she will come running .
Now why do they hate her so much , why do they think that their dad is better off without her ..It is because Manav has never ever told anyone how much he loves Archana .Manav has never told his children all the good that Archana did for him , how they struggled in their life and how she never cared for money ..Only one day savita comes and says , Archana wants money and Manav forgets everything good that Archana ever did for him and he never ever mentions one good thing about Archana to his children ..Why blame the kids for hating their mother ..Why blame Sachin for forcing Archana to put up this act ..The reason wh ySachin is doing this is to make his Baba happy .Why does he believes that his Baba's happiness lies with Shravani and not Archana ?
This is Manav's fault ...
Purvi was always told the good things about Manav and how much Aie loves baba, Even on Archana's end there could have been some bad stories to tell, like the divorce papers that Manav was upposed to send by Savita...But Archana alway told Purv ithat Aie loves Baba ...
I am telling you now Jai, all Manav has to do is tell in front of Sachin , only once , ' do not insult this woman because I love her , I don't care if she lives with me ot not but I will always love her for what we shared .Manav has to be a man and stand up for his woman ( if he still loves her which I have strong doubts about ) ,he should learn from Arjun .
Just like he could never stand anyone insulting Archana at one time , he can do the same ...Sachin is not evil ,..He is doing all this for Manav's happiness ...all Manav has to do is tell Sachin and everyone else that he loves Archana and the entire scene will change itself ...
But Manav does not do that because he knows that his telling of Archana's love will hurt Savita and that is why he will never say anything ...
Edited by Tanyaz - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

how can Archana open her mouth .You know her nature ..She goes out of her way for the happiness of her people and here we are talking about the happiness of her children .Ovi , Teju and Sachin , they all want her out and have a happy home ..

If only once Sachin and the girls says that they want her back in his father's life , she will come running .
Now why do they hate her so much , why do they think that their dad is better off without her ..It is because Manav has never ever told anyone how much he loves Archana .Manav has never told his children all the good that Archana did for him , how they struggled in their life and how she never cared for money ..Only one day savita comes and says , Archana wants money and Manav forgets everything good that Archana ever did for him and he never ever mentions one good thing about Archana to his children ..Why blame the kids for hating their mother ..Why blame Sachin for forcing Archana to put up this act ..The reason wh ySachin is doing this is to make his Baba happy .Why does he believes that his Baba's happiness lies with Shravani and not Archana ?
This is Manav's fault ...
Purvi was always told the good things about Manav and how much Aie loves baba, Even on Archana's end there could have been some bad stories to tell, like the divorce papers that Manav was upposed to send by Savita...But Archana alway told Purv ithat Aie loves Baba ...
I am telling you now Jai, all Manav has to do is tell in front of Sachin , only once , ' do not insult this woman because I love her , I don't care if she lives with me ot not but I will always love her for what we shared .Manav has to be a man and stand up for his woman ( if he still oves her which I have strong doubts about ) ,he should learn from Arjun .
Just like he could never stand anyone insulting Archana at one time , he can do the same ...Sachin is not evil ,..He is doing all this for Manav's happiness ...all Manav has to do is tell Sachin and everyone else that he loves Archana and the entire scene will change itself ...
But Manav does not do that because he knows that his telling of Archana's love will hurt Savita and that is why he will never say anything ...


I agree he needs to open up..Hence I mentioned as Sachu,Ovi n Tej are imp to Archu and hence she is not opening her mouth ,similarly for Manav its same with mainly Savita added..You know Manav nature as well,in fact Manav goes even more out of the way to help people and we have seen it..He is just the same like Archu and hence Archu once mentioned in their first hug of 14th sept 09 epi that he is exactly like her..(remember I am kid of good with dates 😆)Hence once cannot expect even Manav to open up coz both are the same...Hence I mentioned the fact that they are not and have never been protective about their relationship which is sadly a true fact...Both will not open up their mouth coz they will feel it will hurt their closed ones..Both live for others and thats the main props..
For Manav to do what you say Tanya ,he needs to first think and think about his life which he never does like Archu..Both are ready to sacrifice and they are doing it right now..
This is the same Manav Tanya who fought with Savita before for Archu and this is the same Manav who is doing the opposite now..
This is the same Archu who once stood up and stood by Manav in all times and now she is doing the opposite coz of the circumstances..
Common factor : Sacrifice and fear of closed one getting hurt..
Until both of them starting thinking about themselves and not dear about what others might think,I dont see this ever possible Tanya..
I so wish Tanya Manav would one day like the old Manav stand up and tell Sachu the lines you mentioned..And I surely know Sachu is not a bad boy just clouded with big MU..Again Archu wont open up coz of the fear of making others sad/hurt..
So I dont see any of these 2 opening their mouth unless for a change they start thinking about their own life..I am just hoping it will happen one day eventually...

Edited by Jaishankar - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jaishankar

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Archu humiliated Manav in front of all in Punni's engagement instead of taking him aside and talking to him..after that I am not sure how can Manav proclaim to the world that both love each other...There needs to be mutual understanding for this to open which is totally not there..So blaming Manav here alone is not fair considering the senseless sacrifice and lies Archu is hiding to satisfy senseless demands..

Both Manav and Archana had a talk on the terrace once ..Archana got all emotional and she even hugged Manav and told him that she is desperate to get back with him and then she changed her self quickly ..Manav asked her wh yshe is doing this and he knows that she loves her daughters and wants to come back...Then Archana said that the reason why she does not wants to come back is Savita and sachin and she does not wants to live with them..I know this is not the right reason but the way Savita and Sachin have been behaving with Archana ...would she be wrong in saying that she cannot live with them ...
But Manav did not try to say anything .He did not even suggest that she could live in a seperate house because he knows that his mother really does not likes Archana ..Would that be so wrong to suggest something like this ...Savita makes Archana sleep in the kitchen , abuses her day and night ...Manav has seen how much even now Archana does for her family and her daughters ..Is it not unfair of him to ever even suggest the idea of a seperate home for Archana ..No ,. he wil lnever say that because he only loves one person in this world ...Savita and only Savita ...
Archana and even her daughetrs and sachin and all come way after Savita ..It is beautiful to love your mother , we all know that but then might as well marry the woman who mommy loves because then why give a woman so much pain if your mother is going to treat her like an animal and you will never do anything to support her and only stay quiet while she gets insulted all the time ...
Edited by Tanyaz - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree he needs to open up..Hence I mentioned as Sachu,Ovi n Tej are imp to Archu and hence she is not opening her mouth ,similarly for Manav its same with mainly Savita added..Hence once cannot expect even Manav to open up coz both are the same...

I agree with you Jai .He does not dare tell the world about his love for Archana because he is too scared of hurting his mother Savita .
It has been like this for the past 18 years .He will not hurt Savita by telling anyone that he loves his wife ...To be honest I don't blame sachin now .from his point , his demands are not unreasonable .
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Both Manav and Archana and a talk on the terrace once ..Archana got all emotional and she even hugged Manav and told him that she is desperate to get back with him and then she changed her self quickly ..Manav asked her wh yshe is doing this and he knows that she loves her daughters and wants to come back...Then Archana said that the reason why she does not wants to come back is Savita and sachin and she does not wants to live with them..I know this is not the right reason but the way Savita and Sachin have been behaving with Archana ...would she be wrong in saying that she cannot live with them ...
But Manav did not try to say anything .He did not even suggest that she could live in a seperate house because he knows that his mother really does not likes Archana ..Would that be so wrong to suggest something like this ...Savita makes Archana sleep in the kitchen , abuses her day and night ...Manav has seen how much even now Archana does for her family and her daughters ..Is it not unfair of him to ever even suggest the idea of a seperate home for Archana ..No ,. he wil lnever say that because he only loves one person in this world ...Savita and only Savita ...
Archana and even her daughetrs and sachin and all come way after Savita ..It is beautiful to love your mother , we all know that but then might as well marry the woman who mommy loves because then why give a woman so much pain if your mother is going to treat her like an animal and you will never do anything to support her and only stay quiet while she gets insulted all the time ...


Tanya dear you omitted the rest..He also mentioned come back ,I will set things straight..I will talk to the daughters and clear the MU..What is more imp there and priority..Priority was talking to the daughters and clearing the MU and Manav said he will do it and in front of all..He also said I know my daughters will forgive me...
Also he requested and told her when Archu said "I have my own requirements",Manav pleaded that she could have it all even by staying with them..Manav's first priority was to clear the MU with her daughters for Archu which is right then comes Savita and living separate which could have easily worked out later bur priority was Archu's daughters where Archu did not budge Tanya..
So its not fair here to put the blame on Manav..
Now Archu is not sleeping in Kitchen Tanya ,it was in the past and for that in return Manav got his shares from the K's and even before that he got his share going to the jail along with his entire family,thanks to Manju...
IF he does not love her ,he would not have pleaded the way he did..
Edited by Jaishankar - 13 years ago

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