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Posted: 13 years ago
Dabulls, no, not trying to set up Ovi with Romil, just drawing a parallel. She cannot marry for love and he for friendship, that is unfair.

I agree that friendship is the mainstay of a marriage, be it arranged, love or whatever. But friendships are built over a lifetime as you grow together. The sort of friendship Ovi shares with Arjun does not guarantee a happy marriage. Under other circumstances with him never having met Purvi or falling in love, maybe they could have worked it out. But it would have been an uneven match, even if she was ready to be undemanding and expected nothing, and he continued to be married to his work, they might have had.an amicable relationship but I would not call it happy or ideal. A girl needs to be put first and loved (even in an arranged marriage) and Ovi would never have had that with Arjun. I wouldn't want that for her, just a settling and no fireworks. Call me an emotional fool like Jai but I would want more for any girl at least on the soaps.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: nirvanlove



i think it was v stupid of her to do that not manipulative.. doesnt seem the right word.

Totally agree with you on the words "Manipulative or delusional" It is totally unfounded for that time 😳
Nirvan I wrote this couple of days ago abt Archana being so obsessed with her being right all the time...She is convinced and believes what ever she does is right - fair and out of goodness of her heart.
She is still @ 50+ attached to her mommy...Every little thing happens at Ds she comes home and tells her mommy dearest...Its almost diyfunction relationship where u are so dependent on your mommy when you should be having an independent marrige and a family life with your spouse and children...what a shame 😳
Archana's rationality or logics are short lived and extremely rare IMHO...
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Posted: 13 years ago
u know am dependent on my friends cause am not sure what am thinking is right or wrong but if i do this when am 30 oe 40 or 50, then i dont have the hakk to govern my child or anyone elses life. period.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: nirvanlove


if ovi is not God to change or write someone's destiny who was she when she came and said she loved manav in shravani's wedding mandap ...till the wedding day she had not given up ...did not SHE write Sachin and Shravan'is destiny with her ill fated marraige to Manav in which she gave him zero happiness ? Savita should ask her that .




its just sad education or no education, people dont realise that sometimes they need counselling, even savita archana relationship or sulochana - archana's we are always right syndrome, they need counselling just like varsha did and now ovi does. but EK being the bitch she is, counselling or psychiatric treatment is for the empty headed ones, in real life if someone is depressed or upset, watching these shows wud be like a stamp that i ts ok, i dont need treatment, i am ok or i will be ok later.



Great post nirvan😊 Especially @blue. Who is Archana to be telling Ovi that she is not God and she can't write people's destiny especially when Ovi is going thru so much pain Archana is just rubbing salt in her wounds. And the way Archana was praising Arjun today I could not believe. Arjun cheated Ovi he betrayed her and fell in love with Purvi and he stilll went ahead with the engagement. Archana knew all of this and now she is calling him a good person? If Arjun ever cheated Purvi the way he cheated Ovi Archana would never spare him! But since he cheated Ovi acccording to Archana it's not a big deal.

And Archana needs to stop thinking she is always right she is 99.9% of the time never right. She never regrets her mistakes and then with Sulo and Damodar pacifying and encouraging her every mistake she will never learn. Manav CAN be good at times but when Archana starts with those tears he suddenly becomes a weakling.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Sorry Nirvan, called you Kalapi. Not sure if it is not manipulative, you want some thing so badly you start telling people that in the hopes perhaps that being your friend the guy has no way out except to say yes, he does say no the first time. But her plan does work when he says yes the second time. I remember the conversation with Manav and DK after the first incident. Psychological manipulation is how I see it - he knows his best friend wants it, as do his dad and his hero, Manav uncle, he says no the first time around but the thought has already taken seed and the second time she tries to make him jealous and it misfires, he agrees. Delusional at least, manipulative at worst is how I see it.

Have you all noticed there is not one happy marriage in PR - Archana & Manav, Ajit and Vandu, Varsha and Satish, Vaishali & Dharmesh, Damo & Savita, even DK and Ashna had their set of problems and then she died. Only couple that fights always but at least has a modicum of normalcy is Manju and Vinod. What is with Ekta?
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Sorry Nirvan, called you Kalapi.

Have you all noticed there is not one happy marriage in PR - Archana & Manav, Ajit and Vandu, Varsha and Satish, Vaishali & Dharmesh, Damo & Savita, even DK and Ashna had their set of problems and then she died. Only couple that fights always but at least has a modicum of normalcy is Manju and Vinod. What is with Ekta?

PR has everyone unhappy even the kids...Remember lil Soham and Sachu both...😭
You know why ManOd's marriage has worked? No matter how bad Manju may have been at times she has always shared her responsibilities in marriage along with Vinod or even when he did not have a job...Think you being the only son-dil of the family and you have to take care of ILs, 3 SILs and 2 kids...She even took in Varsha, Archu and Vashali after they were married when they ran into problems in their married life. Manju has never given her income to her mother or brother - Lokhandes. Unlike Archana who ruined her own marriage for her mayka Karanjkars and lost crores..😳
Sulo always praised Archu to Manju and her other 2 daughters too...No one could be Archu...Archu can do no wrong...Sulo did not correct Manju when she was wrong because Manju was bringing in her sallary and was sharing the family burden along with Vinod...Tooo bad they cheated her out of her house that is a seperate topic alltogether...But as a mother, wife and DIL Most of the time Manju has done what she was supposed to do being married into Karanjkar family...
Look at Archana, Varsha and Vaishali has done to their ILs...You will see the difference..
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Posted: 13 years ago
I can understand what Varsha did wrong in her marriage, what did Vaishali do wrong, she was the cheated one, wasn't she?
Archana is a gone case, I feel like shaking some serious sense into her. She has everything to lead a happy life, reclaim everything she has lost but she won't do it. She is dumber than dumb, sorry Jai.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

I can understand what Varsha did wrong in her marriage, what did Vaishali do wrong, she was the cheated one, wasn't she?
Archana is a gone case, I feel like shaking some serious sense into her. She has everything to lead a happy life, reclaim everything she has lost but she won't do it. She is dumber than dumb, sorry Jai.




vaishali went back to dharmesh the cheat and lying scum just cause for her children and to secure her and the childrens future and took madhuri's legality and then didnt even treat varun right, except for the guilt trips that she wud go back to being nice to him. ***** !!!

oh am so angry this morning - damn PR 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

I can understand what Varsha did wrong in her marriage, what did Vaishali do wrong, she was the cheated one, wasn't she?
Archana is a gone case, I feel like shaking some serious sense into her. She has everything to lead a happy life, reclaim everything she has lost but she won't do it. She is dumber than dumb, sorry Jai.

Vaishai was cheated on but why did she stay with the bigomist?? She even ruined Madhuri's life thanks to Archana and her manipulations...Vaishali should have divorced or left FBD...let Madhuri and her kids be FBD or let FBD do what ever he wanted with them...Atleast dont play part in ruining some wife and her 2 kids life-future...Varun had terminal disease for crying out loud...How cruel could Vaishali-Archana be...Shame..😡
Vaishali could have raised her baby by her self , worked & managed it all with support of her family. But she wanted to sit on her butt in karanjkar home and create more problems.
All 3 girls are cuckoo and I blame Sulo for that...Mano was there just to wipe his eye glasses and be in the frame with the garland around once he was gone..Nothing more..
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Posted: 13 years ago
What is FBD?

Whether bad or good, right or wrong in going back to Dharmesh, Vaishali did not do anything to break up her marriage with Dharmesh before the Madhuri incident. Never could understand why Madhuri agreed to give up Dharmesh. I agree he should have been brought to justice by both wronged women, Madhuri and Vaishali, instead he got off scot free and Madhuri paid the price.
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