Regarding today's episode!!! - Page 11

You guys have been busy!! Bhalla, Umi, Varsha, Kalapi, Jai and others- agree completely with all your points. Anything else I might add will only be repetitive, so I won't waste my time and yours!. Loved reading all the viewpoints!

Dear Kalapi, friendship does make it easy but while you can have many friends, you cannot marry any friend hoping you will be happy with him/her. Ovi is friends with Romil, she could be happy with him too. If she loves Arjun and wants him for love, why should Arjun have to settle for mere friendship? Just because Ovi wants, Ovi cannot have it both ways, love on her side, friendship on his.

Also, Ovi is not as undemanding as she says she is, she is pretty manipulative, she did get him trapped the second time into agreeing to marry her. And let us not forget the same girl who said she would ask for nothing from him, asked Purvi to take over all Arjun's work after their marriage so that Arjun could spend ALL his time with her, Ovi. Her demands would soon make him go bonkers.

Even in an arranged marriage, where there is no basis of friendship even to begin with, the girl and the boy have to learn to live with each other, make compromises, adjustments to build a life together. In an arranged marriage, I think that the fact the families expect you to work it out and that you enter the marriage with the mind set to compromise and commit to each other is what makes it last.

Purvi knows Arjun's world of business, she knows him as a person, she may not have his wealth but being of equal economic status does not ensure a happy marriage in itself. Look at Manav and Archana and all the other couples in PR - none have a happy marriage except perhaps Vinod and Manju. Most of them are of similar economic background barring a few thousand rupees here and there.

Between Arjun and Purvi, there is chemistry (yes the CVs show us this just as they do about Ovi and her love/friendship/obsession so we base our opinions on what they choose to dish out unfortunately), there is love, there is commitment, a propensity to sacrifice for each other, the parents like the match - it sure looks like it is blessed and will work if it happens.

Soapwatcher

from what i remember she told her friends that tey are engaged and arjun cleared it out in front of both the families right there and then that its not true.
then ovi was being treated badly by some men, thats when arjun comes n says, am her fiancee or soemthing like that. how did ovi trap him?

Originally posted by: Kalapi

👏👏Oooppps Varsha, my lonnng twin lost at the Kutumb mela😃🤗I wrote in similar lines...we do share the same brain😃

Its amazing that no one in Manav or Archana's family has made the connection between Varsha and Ovi's madness. Haven't they learnt from Varsha's disillusionment?

Originally posted by: nirvanlove

Soapwatcher

from what i remember she told her friends that tey are engaged and arjun cleared it out in front of both the families right there and then that its not true.
then ovi was being treated badly by some men, thats when arjun comes n says, am her fiancee or soemthing like that. how did ovi trap him?

Nirvan, pretending to be engaged, going around telling people you are engaged when she knows it is not true is being manipulative or delusional.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Kalapi, pretending to be engaged, going around telling people you are engaged when she knows it is not true is being manipulative or delusional.

i think it was v stupid of her to do that not manipulative.. doesnt seem the right word.

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

^^^^ I shocked and wonder how come no one has made connection between Varsha's behavior and Archana's bipolar or passive-aggressive behavior?? Pretty foolish decisions most of her life abt her marriage and kids...😔

am always right but still am sad, am not doing anything for myself but they dont understand. Sulo ki karni - a 50yr old woman still relies on her mummy for her decisions (she does get influenced)



i was so glad when she was rational and pointed out that arjun had two women at athe same time, the excuses arent even worth being accepted and then he earns 10000rs and hurray, i can forget or discard the cheating =------?