How exactly are Arjun and Purvi 'selfish' ?!

Hi guys, Esha here (:

Making a topic at this forum for the very first time. Just a silent reader, but maybe you've seen me at the PR CG (:

Anyways, i see posts and replies saying that Arjun is selfish, Purvi is selfish, how can they do that, why did they do that, etc.

Firstly, I don't see what they did was wrong?

Arjun went to sve the love of his life. Come on, do you expect him to sit at his chawl house, twiddling his thumbs and just waiting till Manav brings Purvi home? Uhh... no. Of course he's gonna go; lover's first instinct. Arjun can't save two people now can he? He took Purvi, and since the police men were present, he put Manav's safety upon them. Now if Arjun was to not run away with Purvi, and also wait for Manav who knows what that crazy Lala/Vishnu/Soham could have done out of anger? And plus, Manav is the one who played along when Arjun sneaked up around the jeep, r i g h t ?

Secondly, how is Purvi being selfish? The girl's been k i d n a p p e d. She's been away from her loved ones and Romeo, she obviously has no sense at the moment. She started crying the minute she saw Arjun at the car window; that was her breath of "yes, i can finally be rescued". And the way Manav and Arjun did what they did last minute, Purvi might have thought of it as a planned act, no?! Im pretty sure i would have thought that.

Thirdly, if anyone was harmed, it was Arjun; he's the one who got shot. Even being temporarily handicapped, he saved Purvi. If he hadn't then I'd understand the accusation. Saving two people at once, like i said before, isnt a good idea since the target is Manav, but the road to the target is Purvi. In the very situation they all were in, saving both would be like a "miracle". If Arjun saved Manav, where in the world would the logic be?! He kinda can't leave Purvi at the hands of the police and Vishnu the great. And anyways, Purvi is a girl, and Manav a man, so if anything he can put up a fight, Purvi on the other hand will not last long in a fight, now will she?!

So i don't see how Arjun and Purvi are exactly "selfish".


Hope i didn't hurt anyone, just what i thought(:

Do share your views (:

there are members who don't like Purvi because they think that Purvi snatched Ovi's love.

But I am not talking about Ovi and Arjun and Purvi. That's another angle, no? Im talking about Arjun, Purvi, and Manav.

And if it all leads back to Purvi/Arjun/Ovi based on the current Vishnu kidnapping track, then wow. That has nothing to do with the kidnappig and what happened at that moment ...

Esha, good post, do not want to repost but do see my response on in Defense of Purvi thread.
Tulsey, aptly and succinctly said, better Ovi learnt before her marriage that Arjun did not love her than after.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Esha, good post, do not want to repost but do see my response on in Defense of Purvi thread.
Tulsey, aptly and succinctly said, better Ovi learnt before her marriage that Arjun did not love her than after.

Thank you. And yes, i read the posts there. And i agree 100% . Its all natural, and based upon the situation that they are face with which results in their actions. Hence, i say; i dont see how anyone is being selfish.

in PR land only archana,ovi,manav do mistake 😆😆others only do what is right and there is logic behind what others do and forum always flooded with bashing thread of archu manav and ovi.others r all angel🤣🤣

Agree wit u esha...U have exactly written the points whch i had it in my mind😳 Noone was selfish yesterday according 2 me..

Originally posted by: poas

in PR land only archana,ovi,manav do mistake 😆😆others
only do what is right and there is logic behind what others do and
forum always flooded with bashing thread of archu manav and ovi.others r
all angel🤣🤣

Umm, not bashing archu and ovi at all?

And I havent said anything against manav in my post ... This post is in no way bashislng those three or anyone .

And of course the other characters make mistakes, i can name many mistakes but i wont cause that isnt what the topic was opened for.

i just dont see how these two characters in this very situation are to be called "selfish".

Originally posted by: ..StarAngel..

Agree wit u esha...U have exactly written the points whch i had it in my mind😳 Noone was selfish yesterday according 2 me..

Ahh thank you for agreeing. I fail to understand how the term selfish is being used with them based on the episode!!

we see in yesterday episode that arjun take purvi and try to run and we think that he not care for manav but what if arjun's plan to take purvi in he's care because we know that arjun's car is park in the direction that he run with purvi to take purvi and put her in car and after she is safe in he's car he will come and save manav but before that he goot shoot.and we think that he put manav in danger.