Brief Update : 19th July 2012 - Page 8

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

what is there to trust ?

All Archana has to say is that the signatures are not mine , get them verified if you want to ...that's it ..

Archana should have let go of Sachin's promise today .That promise is ruining Teju 's life but then who cares about that poor sweet girl who always tried to make everyone happy and now she is a broken person , thanks to those who were supposed to protect her ..

Sorry Rashi , nothign can make me respect Archana as a mother for Ovi and teju ...nothing ...and Soham ...poor child ... I hope he comes back and gives Archana , Manav and Savita hell they deserve every bit of it .

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

why blame Vandu and Damodar ...when the mother who gave these girls birth does not cares about their tears then why should anyone else ...

Manav gives a lot of money to Vandu , maybe that is the reason why she does not wants to go on Savita's wrong side ...same for Damodar ...he knows how powerful Savita is thanks to his son Manav ...

But how can a mother not care for her children is something beyond me ...Looking at how lovely Teju was crying today broke my heart and the last nail in the coffin was the way Archana was behaving in front of Sulochna ..Not once she showed any anger towards Savita and even went to the extent of feeling sorry for Varsha ...no sympathy whatsoever for that poor little baby who fell down in the lake ...

For Purvi she is all the time worried if Purvi reached home , if Purvi ate etc etc ...what did poor Soham do that he doesn't gets even this little sympathy fron his mother even after falling from the cliff and the sympathy seems to be reserved for the person who kidnapped him ...

Originally posted by: naava

Tanya...i do understand where you are coming from but I don't think Archana is a bad mother.😳 I agree 100% she needs to tell the truth about everything and let the chips fall where they may. But i don't think she has connected dots, that the secret she is keeping about Sachin's demands has anything to do with Teju's anger and rejection. After all Teju's (and Ovi's and Manav's) reaction has nothing to do with Sachin or Shravani. It's directed solely at Archana.. She is a bad person they say. A selfish woman. A bad mother. She has internalized these things for so long, more than the 18 years, that she also believes it. this is why she can't act. This is why she can't defend herself and tell the truth. She believes the lie. She believes she is bad because everyone in the D family except for Damo and Vandu (who are both worthless towards her) has told her so. Once in a while she breaks out of her shell and says things to Ovi like "as long as i am here one more month i will interfere in your life whether you like it or not"... but most of the time she is under the spell of those who tell her she's a bad person. And she's under the spell of loving Manav...whom she believes will, in the end, still rescue her and be her prince charming.

He wont'. But i think it's too late for Archana. She has nothing left to give. She isn't a bad mother imo Tanya. She loves her children, but i think she didn't know how to love them. I'm not sure if I had a Savita and a Manav hurling things at me all the time, i would know how to love my children either. especially if they were taken far away and i was told never ever to contact them again. Maybe i too would believe it was in the best interest of the children, because it must be true that i am bad. I would have to be the strongest of women to overcome that. Maybe i wouldn't/couldn't be.

my humble opinion Tanya dear ...although i do see why you say what you do..

.i guess i ended up being more of an Archana supporter than i ever thought i would be. 😲 😆

Originally posted by: simusha

And purvi is archana adopted child ,but purvi loves archu and understands her even when archu told purvi not to see arjun,

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

There should be no difference between adopted child or biological child ...they both should be the same ...In this case I feel that this is not happening .Only adopted chidren are being loved and taken care of ..

Of course it is good that Archu cares about Purvi's whereabouts and if she ate or not ...Purvi is her responsibility but I want Archana to feel the pain of Teju's tears as well...Teju was in so much pain today and for that I blame Archana ...even more than Manav or Savita