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Posted: 13 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: nalonynnej

Ovi believed a stranger (Punni) at the party and gave Purvi a hard slap! As time passes, she might reach a breaking point and become really violent. I don't think Arjun should wait till she hurts someone.

Dear the reason Ovi believed Punni because Arjun and Archana both had convinced Ovi that Purvi will do the checking out who was calling...Ovi felt Purvi had betrayed and lied...So the thappad came...Anyone in Ovi's shoe would have done the same...If Arjun was around he probably would have gotten a slap along with Purvi..
I do not condone Slapping at all..
No way Arjun was protecting let alone thinking abt Purvi at that time..😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: nalonynnej

Ovi believed a stranger (Punni) at the party and gave Purvi a hard slap! As time passes, she might reach a breaking point and become really violent. I don't think Arjun should wait till she hurts someone.

True, she believed a relative stranger, but one has to note why she reacted so…don't you think any young engaged girl could react in a similar fashion when someone is telling her that this girl Porvi is having an affair with you fianc…I could have done the same..isn't this an instant reaction…if she stop to think but/when/why, I think, we could have question her love for Arjun and thought she was coldhearted, money minded and calculative…mind you she isn't doubting Arjun but doubting Porvi's intentions…to me there is the difference….

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Posted: 13 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Dear the reason Ovi believed Punni because Arjun and Archana both had convinced Ovi that Purvi will do the checking out who was calling...Ovi felt Purvi had betrayed and lied...So the thappad came...Anyone in Ovi's shoe would have done the same...If Arjun was around he probably would have gotten a slap along with Purvi..
I do not condone Slapping at all..
No way Arjun was protecting let alone thinking abt Purvi at that time..😳

Thanks Varsha...I forgot that too...
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Posted: 13 years ago
#34
Yes, but it goes to show this "instantaneous" reaction did not involve logic and cool. In the future, these sudden responses may lead her to do something like hurting Purvi.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: nalonynnej

Yes, but it goes to show this "instantaneous" reaction did not involve logic and cool. In the future, these sudden responses may lead her to do something like hurting Purvi.

But instantaneous reactions doesn't involve logic or cool(ness)...does it these days...I mean if a boyfriend breaksup, do we try justifying the act first before reacting...beats me...😕
And if Ovi didn't react violently up til now, what makes anyone think/assume that she will in the future...I could see her being rather cool and calculative then...the way people play chess...but wait that could make the serial really interesting...don't think the Cvs could think that deep...😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think Ovi might herself before hurting Purvi..I am more worried abt Ovi..
This is the reason Archana's faltoo challange has put the whole thing rolling..
Why could she stay out of this drama...Both sisters should have stayed away until things got all squared away...Ovi has accepted things and than what ever happens between Arjun-Purvi let it happen..
By than confused soul Arjun would know for sure if he love Purvi or the next girl or Ovi 😈
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ovi's not being cool and collective now. She's obsessing over Arjun and being impulsive. I don't expect her to calculate and plan in the future either if she doesn't come to terms with reality now.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

If Ovi has psychiatric issues in not facing the fact abt Arjun not loving her than I must say that Arjun also has some issue in not being assertive and telling Ovi he loves Purvi and He is doing this as challenge put forth by Archana...To prove his love for Purvi...

End of story..Who cares what Ovi is going to feel? Does she not need reality check?

How long is Arjun going to beat around the bush? By not being assertive he is pacifying Ovi's behavior...He needs to be honest and clear but firmly...Not harsh...
When Ovi hugs Arjun, Arjun need to push away and say he is comitted to someone else...He does not love her..Nothing more..
Whether Arjun is a liar or not does not matter...his tongue gets tied everytime he is with Ovi...Does this mean he has some sort of feelings for her? and pls dont give me BS abt friendship..

I don't think we need to push any feelings other than those of friendship on Arjun...he thinks of Ovi as a childhood friend an out of being sensitive to her feelings, he is not telling her again and again that he loves Purvi...how is he supposed to know that she needs a reality check and be told this way??Ovi is the one with the problem, not Arjun.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kalapi

True, she believed a relative stranger, but one has to note why she reacted so'don't you think any young engaged girl could react in a similar fashion when someone is telling her that this girl Porvi is having an affair with you fianc'I could have done the same..isn't this an instant reaction'if she stop to think but/when/why, I think, we could have question her love for Arjun and thought she was coldhearted, money minded and calculative'mind you she isn't doubting Arjun but doubting Porvi's intentions'to me there is the difference'.

@bold, Kalapi, I would have slapped the girl and my fiance 🤣, it takes two hands to clap and I would have been angrier at the guy as he would be the one cheating on me, the girl would owe me no allegiance. But this is a soap and it is all messed up logic. Why else would a wife and mother keep telling her husband and children that she cares more for money than for them? I guess normal people would make very boring characters so the CVs make these reel people with twisted thinking who are totally lacking in logic. 😭
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Posted: 13 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Yes I agree Arjun does not owe Manav this info...Only reason I said Arjun needs to have convo with manav and Ovi was to have another supporting or a sounding board-witness telling Ovi the truth...Manav could put some more sense into her..
I think Arjun need to say things to OVI in front of another person-witness as Ovi is not getting it..Arjun also gets his tongue tied...This way if he tells than he is off the hook...No one else to be blamed but Ovi if she does not come out of it...

@ underline - Yes, agree, Manav or Teju as witness would help. Someone who would take a strong stand. To give Manav credit, he did get Ovi tickets to Canada but I still don't think he has the heart to push her into anything. Teju might be the better choice to be blunt and straight forward with her sister.

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