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Posted: 13 years ago
#11
If Ovi has psychiatric issues in not facing the fact abt Arjun not loving her than I must say that Arjun also has some issue in not being assertive and telling Ovi he loves Purvi and He is doing this as challenge put forth by Archana...To prove his love for Purvi...
End of story..Who cares what Ovi is going to feel? Does she not need reality check?

How long is Arjun going to beat around the bush? By not being assertive he is pacifying Ovi's behavior...He needs to be honest and clear but firmly...Not harsh...
When Ovi hugs Arjun, Arjun need to push away and say he is comitted to someone else...He does not love her..Nothing more..
Whether Arjun is a liar or not does not matter...his tongue gets tied everytime he is with Ovi...Does this mean he has some sort of feelings for her? and pls dont give me BS abt friendship..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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dabulls, agree with most of your post, Arjun does need to push Ovi away and though I think he probably feels bad repeating to her that he loves Purvi not her, he needs to have a serious talk with her.
Arjun told Manav he loves Purvi but since he was engaged to Ovi, I believe just telling Manav in front of Ovi is not enough. He needs to explain to Ovi especially as she is his childhood friend (he did tell Purvi he will "manaaunga Ovi ko") why he agreed to the engagement and that he is really sorry for what happened but he couldn't help himself from falling in love with Purvi and should also tell Ovi that it would have been disastrous for them to go forward with the engagement as he loves another.
Today for the first time, I saw Arjun remove Ovi's hands off him and he also made impatient faces at her. He needs to come off of cloud nine and realize this girl is going to make his life and Purvi's life a living hell unless he is absolutely clear with her as to where he stands. He may not want to be blunt as he fears that would hurt her, but he has to do it. Who is going to bell the cat and tell her the hurtful truth? no one except Tej seems to have the guts to do it. They are all walking on eggshells around Ovi not realizing that she is teetering on the edge of a complete breakdown unless they intervene and help her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I also don't think Archana should have promised Savita anything about keeping Arjun and Purvi apart. Promising something like this will only make Archana and Purvi look bad. Archana could have told Savita that she will ask Purvi to stay away from Arjun but promising on the assumption that Purvi will stay away is a bit much. Archana should not be taking responsibility for Purvi's future actions. She will only prove herself a liar unnecessarily in front of Savita.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nalonynnej

I think that the CVs are making a big mistake by not showing him rejecting Ovi already. However, if he told her he was doing this for Purvi, Ovi would probably go on a rage and harm Purvi for bringing him down to this level. I think Arjun was being circumspect and didn't want Ovi to hurt anyone so for this reason, he left the reason vague.



if thats the case its a v stupid excuse by Arjun. what happened to his i will protect my love. i dont know if he said that but i ma taking it for granted
for the girl and the girl's mother he is out there to prove his love and he cannot prove his love just by tellin his friend that i do not love u or when she is hugging u , u cant draw urself back!! thats just sad and hilarious at the same time.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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.If she wants Ovi to stay away from Arjun, same goes for purvi as Arjun lied and did not handle his love situation properly.


i swear if she had used the same dialogue she used with ovi i wud be praising achana to no end, but then hypocrisy in the charactercomes through. so am going to stop right there.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: dolce123

Arjun has already said in front of everyone including Ovi that he does not love Ovi and that he loves Purvi...so he is not a liar. He doesn't want to say this again and again so as not to hurt Ovi more by rubbing it in. If Ovi has pscychiatric issues because of her always getting what she wants and the fact that she is Savita's granddaughter(genes) and unfortunately has had Savita's upbringing...he is not at fault. Ovi's family needs to step up now and get her the help she needs and get her away from Savita granny



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he already did so by giving her his shares. she is already rich what WAS the point of giving her his shares. is it a compensation?


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

dabulls, agree with most of your post, Arjun does need to push Ovi away and though I think he probably feels bad repeating to her that he loves Purvi not her, he needs to have a serious talk with her.

Arjun told Manav he loves Purvi but since he was engaged to Ovi, I believe just telling Manav in front of Ovi is not enough. He needs to explain to Ovi especially as she is his childhood friend (he did tell Purvi he will "manaaunga Ovi ko") why he agreed to the engagement and that he is really sorry for what happened but he couldn't help himself from falling in love with Purvi and should also tell Ovi that it would have been disastrous for them to go forward with the engagement as he loves another.
SW1 I agree that he needs to explain to Ovi but his toungue get tied and he does not make anything clear...When I said who cares for Ovi how she feels? I was not being cruel but as far as Arjun is concerned he is not handling his friend the way he should...He should get manav and Ovi both together and tell them exactly what is going on abt Archana's challange and He doing it to prove his love for Purvi...Manav and Archana has to handle Ovi but Arjun has to pull back...he cant keep walking on eggshells and not say anything...With his round round talk he is not being clear nor assertive..
Today for the first time, I saw Arjun remove Ovi's hands off him and he also made impatient faces at her. He needs to come off of cloud nine and realize this girl is going to make his life and Purvi's life a living hell unless he is absolutely clear with her as to where he stands. He may not want to be blunt as he fears that would hurt her, but he has to do it. Who is going to bell the cat and tell her the hurtful truth? no one except Tej seems to have the guts to do it. They are all walking on eggshells around Ovi not realizing that she is teetering on the edge of a complete breakdown unless they intervene and help her.
SW we dont know Ovi is going to make Arjun and Purvi's life a living hell...Its an assumption is it not?? Yes I agree with you Arjun needs to make it very clear even if he has to keep saying to OVI "I dont love you and I love Purvi pls understand this and sooner u do it better for all..I never loved you" Unless he has some feelings for Ovi deep down and he is confused abt..Manav, Teju and Archana has tried somewhat..It is Arjun and only Arjun who can give her reality check...

Hope Ovi wakes up from her own dreamland and accepts reality...But with Archana's challenge to Arjun and promise to marry Purvi with Arjun if he makes her challenge good is not going help situation..She is supporting Arjun-purvi relationship by her own convoluted way and here telling Ovi that Arjun is not good for her...Also promising Savita that she will forbid Purvi from seeing Arjun...On top of that she is hiding this from Manav - Ovi and rest of the deshmukhs...Its not going to sit well with Manav or Ovi...Will make the matters worst..
Sanskari Sulo even supporting purvi to see Arjun behind Archana's back is not right either..Why can't karanjkars do things which are up and up? And here people call Savita mean...Hmmm
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ok seriously what is wrong with this man?

Whenever he is in front of Ovi, it seems the cat takes his tongue away.😳

There aren't any past indications to say, he is shy😲

He dropped his father's name like a hot 😕

And dropped his company's and his rightful place in it, in an wink of an eye🤔

In fact he is a successful businessman who took hard ruthless decisions quickly and assertively😲

So, seems that he is able to take quick and on the spot decisions….😃

So now when he needs to be firm with Ovi, he seems to be leading her unnecessarily….👎🏼

He couldn't pull himself up from Ovi's hug and say..Ovi I love someone else…

He couldn't say today, I took the challenge to prove my worth to the Mother of my love…

Is he even doing justice to Porvi….😔

Mind you, most of these encounters where he failed so far to push himself away or to stand for his love were behind Porvi's and rest of the families back😕…is this even a respectable act by a young man…Is he confused by his own feelings or does he feel something deeper than friendship for Ovi...😲

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i dont think there is a case of one in hand and one in bush
but what he is doing is leading ovi unnecesarily

are we waiting for a Varsha II
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kalapi

Ok seriously what is wrong with this man?

Whenever he is in front of Ovi, it seems the cat takes his tongue away.😳

There aren't any past indications to say, he is shy😲

He dropped his father's name like a hot 😕

And dropped his company's and his rightful place in it, in an wink of an eye🤔

In fact he is a successful businessman who took hard ruthless decisions quickly and assertively😲

So, seems that he is able to take quick and on the spot decisions'.😃

So now when he needs to be firm with Ovi, he seems to be leading her unnecessarily'.👎🏼

He couldn't pull himself up from Ovi's hug and say..Ovi I love someone else'

He couldn't say today, I took the challenge to prove my worth to the Mother of my love'

Is he even doing justice to Porvi'.😔

Mind you, most of these encounters where he failed so far to push himself away or to stand for his love were behind Porvi's and rest of the families back😕'is this even a respectable act by a young man'Is he confused by his own feelings or does he feel something deeper than friendship for Ovi...😲

Bang on!!! THis is what I think is the case...He makes it harder for himself and ovi or purvi...
An Assertive no nonsense business man can't speak clearly and concisely that he doesnot love Ovi and only loves Purvi..even if he has to say it hundred times...
Nirvan I hope not...Ovi turning into Varsha II 😳😭

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