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Posted: 13 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: nirvanlove



if thats the case its a v stupid excuse by Arjun. what happened to his i will protect my love. i dont know if he said that but i ma taking it for granted
for the girl and the girl's mother he is out there to prove his love and he cannot prove his love just by tellin his friend that i do not love u or when she is hugging u , u cant draw urself back!! thats just sad and hilarious at the same time.

Yup but Ovi's a very delicate situation. Even if he were to pull back from a hug or say I don't love you, do you think Ovi would believe Arjun? Nope. She has selective hearing. 😆 In fact, she might even consider this another one of his "majburis."
You can't blame the girl, though. Her entire life she's been handed everything on not a silver, but a golden platter. Now that Arjun has slipped away from her grasp, she can't believe it. Instead of coping with rejection, she's in an extreme case of denial.
I think if everyone was concerned for Ovi's welfare, they would just send her back to Canada where she couldn't pose as a volatile force to Arvi. Also, being away would allow her to cope and time could men her pain.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nirvanlove



if thats the case its a v stupid excuse by Arjun. what happened to his i will protect my love. i dont know if he said that but i ma taking it for granted
for the girl and the girl's mother he is out there to prove his love and he cannot prove his love just by tellin his friend that i do not love u or when she is hugging u , u cant draw urself back!! thats just sad and hilarious at the same time.

Besides, I don't see any past incidences yet that Ovi has intentional hurt anyone…so how is Arjun assuming she will hurt Porvi…and since the truth is out already, Ovi (if she had that intention) could have already hurt Porvi (she couldn't have naively gone an offered a blank cheque, right)…so don't see the justification that Arjun is protecting Porvi….

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Point is Arjun should take every effort in making it clear to Ovi abt his love for Purvi...If he walks on eggshells and beats around the bush than people will blame him...But if he takes all the initiatives and puts efforts out he will be off the hook...I wont blame him..
If Ovi does not get it after all assertive and honest efforts by Arjun than it is Ovi who is to blame for abt not getting it..
RIght now Arjun has not done well so far..
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Posted: 13 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: nirvanlove



@bold
he already did so by giving her his shares. she is already rich what WAS the point of giving her his shares. is it a compensation?


Exactly...did she want the shares? Isn't she rich enough already? Isn't she successful already...so giving her more shares makes absolutely no sense...other than degrading her or compensating her...to me this act of Arjun means he only values money and has no respect for their past friendship...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@varsha di
who are the two dogs. Ringo!?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Remember guys when Arjun told Manav abt giving his shares to Ovi he concluded that convo saying "This is all I could do"
How insensitive and cruel it is to pay Ovi's hurt with shares...COmpensating for the pain 😡
It had the same connotation as Ovi giving blank cheque to Purvi..
Its all subjective...How some want to justify one thing and question the other..Cant have double standards...no two measuring rods..
One for Archana and Purvi
Other for Manav and rest of the deshmukhs & Arjun 😳
Nirvan Yes Its my son's dog "Ringo" The drummer - Beatles 😃
Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Danulls, I knew you were not being cruel and that it was a rhetorical question. I agree with you that Arjun needs to tell Ovi why he moved away from home and why he is doing it, only because she is his friend. Even if she wasn't his friend, he would still owe her an explanation as to why he went forward with the engagement and an apology. That is common courtesy, one doesn't walk away from an engagement without making an attempt to explain to the girl who was your fiancee.

As to telling Manav why Arjun is doing this, I beg to differ, I don't think Arjun owes an explanation to anyone except initially to Ovi as to what is going on with Purvi and him.

Does Archana need to tell Manav? Yes, certainly especially as Ovi is blaming Manav for the latest happenings. I am hoping she does tell her husband tomorrow. They both now need to jointly come up wih a plan to help their daughter see the truth.

I agree it is totally an assumption that Ovi will make Arjun's and Purvi's lives miserable but knowing how these soaps work, the CVs will turn Ovi into a negative character to add masala to the show. It will be nice if they give it a novel twist instead and show Ovi falling in love with a new guy herself. But I am not holding my breath for that.

As for Archana, telling Ovi that Arjun is not for her, she is right in that as he doesn't love Ovi, but the condition she placed in front of Arjun to get Rs. 10,000 was ridiculous and making him sound unworthy all of a sudden based on his name and lack of standing on his own two feet, I thought was hogwash. This is the same guy they were all waxing poetical about when he was getting engaged to Ovi. Double standards? As I wrote elsewhere, I would have liked it better if Archana had just stuck to the barebones and said you cheated one daughter while loving another so I don't trust you unless you can prove otherwise. Instead we got the Ramayan about her love and her marriage and all that baseless stuff of Arjun being worth nothing by himself sans the Kirloskar name.
PS: Sorry for the typos, my phone posted before I could check :(
Edited by soapwatcher1 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kalapi

Besides, I don't see any past incidences yet that Ovi has intentional hurt anyone'so how is Arjun assuming she will hurt Porvi'and since the truth is out already, Ovi (if she had that intention) could have already hurt Porvi (she couldn't have naively gone an offered a blank cheque, right)'so don't see the justification that Arjun is protecting Porvi'.

Ovi believed a stranger (Punni) at the party and gave Purvi a hard slap! As time passes, she might reach a breaking point and become really violent. I don't think Arjun should wait till she hurts someone.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Remember guys when Arjun told Manav abt giving his shares to Ovi he concluded that convo saying "This is all I could do"

How insensitive and cruel it is to pay Ovi's hurt with shares...COmpensating for the pain 😡
It had the same connotation as Ovi giving blank cheque to Purvi..
Its all subjective...How some want to justify one thing and question the other..Cant have double standards...no two measuring rods..
One for Archana and Purvi
Other for Manav and rest of the deshmukhs & Arjun 😳

Agreed...why is he giving her those shares...payment for their past friendship...really...to me this single act shows that he has no self respect, my POV..and then say, after 3 more month, he likes another girl (hypothetically speaking), what will he give Porvi...seriously twisted Cvs.,...

Edited by Kalapi - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1



As to telling Manav why Arjun is doing this, I beg to differ, I don't think Arjun owes an explanation to anyone except initially to Ovi as to what is going on with Purvi and him.

Does Archana need to tell Manav? Yes, certainly especially as Ovi is blaming Manav for the latest happenings. I am hoping she does tell her husband tomorrow. They both now need to jointly come up wih a plan to help their daughter see the truth.

Yes I agree Arjun does not owe Manav this info...Only reason I said Arjun needs to have convo with manav and Ovi was to have another supporting or a sounding board-witness telling Ovi the truth...Manav could put some more sense into her..
I think Arjun need to say things to OVI in front of another person-witness as Ovi is not getting it..Arjun also gets his tongue tied...This way if he tells than he is off the hook...No one else to be blamed but Ovi if she does not come out of it...

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