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Posted: 13 years ago
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i just want to say creatives plz give our ArVi back...purvi is too much i mean her behaviour is unbearable to watch...why she is not listening to arjun?same thing she did on that mms incident...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Shyamala,
I was contemplating whether to write something or not .. finally I muster the courage ...

Actually whatever I wanted to say is already within your post.

The observations you have about Purvi is right and I agree.

Either tomorrow or a few days later they might show a scene as to why Purvi behaved the way she did. They might show that by being rude she was only trying to push him towards Ovi and which according to her assumption is the right thing to do. [Which you have already stated that you don't buy and neither do I.] Oh yeah, they are trying to show that she was intentionally faking it.

Once a confession is done, that too from both the sides, then there is nothing more to say within a story. But they have to drag the story until the divorce drama, that is the reason why they have to add this separation part. And to justify that separation they have to bend their characters backwards/ twist them/butcher the characters/ whatever else you can call it. This is not an attempt to defend Purvi, but the issue lies somewhere else.

There is hardly anything else left in the story.

Either they could have dragged the love story to a much later point before the confession from either parties or both of them OR logically taken them to the next level. The latter part is something that CVs are holding off from, because that is the only high-point they have at their hands, the carrot! But time and patience of the viewer are a limited resource which CVs need to understand and respect. Hope THAT happens.

I respect your opinion but also agree to someone who wrote Ovi doesn't need Arjun either. Why should she have to deal with his emotional issues.

So, today's is not the end of it. More ugliness is yet to come in the future unless the CVs buckle under pressure of the forumers or until they have got something new in their brains that they can utilize for few more months.

p.s: Actually I do have a story track in my mind for them which they can utilize for 3 more years, but I am afraid if I say it out, forumers are going to kick me out of here 😆
Edited by bee5 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: archverma10

Oh god Shyamala after reading your post...I am thankful thankful thankful that in the US we do not get the episode aired until the evening and we are 12 hours behind. I shall skip watching this so that I can retain some semblance of the magic. I agree...Purvi has an ability to be extremely harsh and rude...no matter how hurt she is over the engagement...it doesnt give her the right to be downright shrewish.

I am sick and tired of the way the CVs are butchering this relationship...from what Ive seen all over the forum today they are turning Purvi's character upside down and taking away the fire from Arjun. From this forum and facebook it sounds like they have already lost a number of viewers. I seriously hope they take this into account and quit turning this into such a mockery and circus. 😡
Jhanvi dearest...looks like you are going to be hard-pressed to defend little Purvi today. I cant believe Im saying this but now I am looking for anything to help me keep patience with Purvi and not wind up hating her like during the MMS fiasco and Arjun's confession time. She really angered me with her shabby treatment of Arjun after the MMS fiasco, but her pride swallowing trip to the airport and sweet confession helped get us back into the fold.
Now we sorely have need of you and your eloquence to help us have patience with Purvi from the sounds of it...like I said last time I hope they dont draw out this meanness and harshness of character to the point where, by the time the finally come together, its too late because we wound up hating her.

Dear Archana, Shyamala & Bee, I have to agree with Laurie (Axiom), our dear Arjun is not walking on water either and " hell hath no fury like that of a woman scorned" and scorned she was, he did not spare a thought to Purvi the day of the engagement. Yes, I know, he has tried to explain, he has even talked to his dad, he is despondent and so on. Big deal, he failed to deliver and he still has that hated ring on his finger and Archana, he looked at it today, so he knows it is there (you thought maybe he had forgotten about it). 😆 If love is only about forgiveness that is total crapshoot, sorry 😃 Love is about mutual trust and putting one another first above all else, that didn't happen on Arjun's side in the first place for all his dewy eyed looks and flowery words. It is not now happening on her side either. But it is young love, new love and they are both not very certain of each other so they are destined to go through the test of true love and we have to endure in patience..
I still cling to that straw that the CVs gave us today (Arch, I watched it online, had to), when Purvi comes home and hears Archana talking to Sulo (by the way, did you guys notice Purvi's feet outside the door waiting for her cue to enter?), she asks her mom in the form of a statement, "Ovi is happy and so if Ovi is happy you are happy, and if you are happy, I am happy" Tanya, this doesn't sound like a girl who thinks Arjun is a cheater, no, she is giving up on him, to make sure her Aai is happy, Bee is right the story line has to be stretched and we have to be subjected to this pain. Purvi knows if she gives Arjun an opportunity to talk, she will be lost, look what happened the night of the confession. She cannot let that happen.
Remember too, we expected Purvi to understand Arjun's predicament the day of the engagement, well so should he, understand i.e., that her shrill ranting emanates from a broken heart, in pain for him as much as for herself and for their oh, so pavitra rishta.
And Tanya, Archana hid the fact about Teju for a long time, Purvi has only hidden the facts about Arjun for a day or two. And Archana pouring her heart out to Purvi about Ovi, I don't think was in adherance to her promise to tell Purvi everything, it was more the outpouring of her own emotions and happiness at having spent time with her long lost daughter. Archana needs to curb that a little but as Bee so well puts it, this too has to happen so that Purvi's resolve to sacrifice is reinforced at every juncture.
Please give the girl a break, put yourself in Purvi's place, if the guy you loved and who said he loved you, got engaged right before you to your sister and you knew your parents and sister and his dad were ecstatic about the match, would you go telling them, "hey, the guy belongs to me"? I don't think so. She does not know how the news will be received and even if Arjun loves her how far he will go to stand by that love. He let her down once, he has made mistakes before (the gifting, the MMS), she knows he is like a bull in a china shop when it comes to her, he will rage and rant and not pay attention to any propriety but at the end of the day, will he take it to the next step, marriage? He said he would, we believe he will but he went through with that engagement, yes, it was a surprise, would he have gone through a surprise marriage if his dad had arranged it for him? Purvi stands to lose big time with a disclosure, her maan will be in shreds, her aai, her aaji, her baba will all be at least disappointed at the turn of events.
You are asking Purvi to throw caution to the winds and be blown away by Arjun's sweet promises? Not a chance, he needs to get out of that engagement first and foremost to prove he means business as Laurie says, NOT flirt with Punni dearest but he can show his mettle, 😆 stay strong if you guys want him to😉, give Purvi the silent treatment if it will appease your souls (tit for tat) and then they can make up and we can all be merry once again! .
I think Purvi's treatment will throw Arjun off the edge and get him to realize the enormity of the situation (please don't tell me he already does, he doesn't, not until he chucks that silly band off his finger and Ovi's delicate arms off from around his neck). Once he realizes, get out he will ASAP out of the clutches of saccharine sweet Ovi into the waiting and forgiving arms of his Miss. Purvi. And to twist Browning a little "Arjun is with his Purvi, all's right with the world" 😃
I like happy endings, I am sure you do too.😳
Edited by soapwatcher1 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Shyamala that was a fantastic post... 👏⭐️

you have articulated it so very well...👏


- I don't know..i am baffled at her outburst.. she was going through the same anguish...but, at the same time, was she indifferent to his pleas...or was she trying to avoid listening to him... only because she would not be able stop herself from the genuineness and honesty and truth in his eyes...that she might not be able to pull up the strength to put this brave.. I hate you attitude towards him

- I really don't know what she was thinking...if she is thinking on the sacrificial lines... at least the CVs should have shown her inner voice talking about how rude she has to be with Arjun so that he will hate her...and move on with Ovi...

- but one thing she is missing...how much ever harsh she is ...however rude and mean she is to him..in her anger and pain...there will never be a time where Arjun will hate Purvi and start loving Ovi ...just because she called him selfish and liar and betrayer...

for Arjun ...Purvi is still the same.. who changed him..who means his world...he understands her every accusation... he takes every word of hers with despair but he never felt offended...

she says he thinks with brain..if he really thought with brain...he would not be here begging her ...he would have been making some smart moves and cornering her where she would have no option but to accept him...

Arjun is majorly guilt ridden... he thinks with his heart..he does not want to hurt either of the girls... but he is ending up hurting everyone...including himself...

- I don't know where the story is leading,,,,,but i am sure ,.Arjun Purvi will end up together...but i wonder how they will give a proper logical conclusion to this love triangle

-but again calling him selfish is which hurts me the most...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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After watching todays eposide we can consider that what purvi did with arjun was totaly wrong and childissh..she did not even try to listin to not even once did not even give him a chance to talk she just kept bllaabbbhhrrringg her own words out...making arjun feel that he is not worth of her that hes nothing but a "THING" of no self respect towards her she did not even consider arjun as an HUMAN BEING" 😡 ...purvi only thinked about her self rescpect and her aais she did not even try to noticed about what will arjun be feeling as of now.. She did not even think once of what she was saying to arjun...poor boy i feel soo much for him after today 😭 now if purvi dont want to listin to him well that is going to be her loss not arjuns...after giving up on arjun she will later relize that what she did to him was not right..i hope that DK sir returens soon back to india and unite arjun and purvi ASAP...i am sorry for what i wrote for purvi today but in my opion i did not like todays eposide...it was sad..harsh.. :) all in all i still love our ARVI and want them to reunite soon...so we can see our dear arjun as purvis duhla and purvi as arjuns duhalan 😳 👏 Plzzz ekta mam do something soon so we arvi fans can c our arjun and purvi married togather :) luv u arvi muuzzhh
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Munni, he is selfish, he gave not a thought to either of the two girls, how they would react if they came to know, especially as they are sisters. Don't get me wrong, not that being selfish is evil, we all are selfish upto a point. Arjun though did put his own emotions and needs before Purvi's, in declaring his love to her before clearing his past with Ovi, and again in putting DK and Ovi before her at the engagement party. Many on the forum have said he is newly in love and so wholly in love. Yes, he is but he is like a child about a new toy, he sees the toy in the store, it is not yet bought, not yet wholly his but he lays claim to it anyway. Maybe Arjun needs to mature a little, lovable as he is now, it wouldn't hurt. Purvi is young, she is human and did get affronted with his behavior, she is no saint to say oh, poor Arjun, he loves me and I need to look at his intentions which are pure. She wants to be put first and made a big deal of not give up the limelight to Ovi because Arjun wasn't prompt enough to let his dad and Ovi know.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Jhanvi,
Well said...😉 you are right indeed..."hell hath no fury as a woman scorned". I watched Issa's clip online too...will probably wind up watching it tonight (fast forwarding the parts I cant handle of course).
I admit now about the ring...it is an eyesore and Im finding myself really hating the fact he has it on his finger. I am not sure why he continues to wear it...hopefully there will be a significance to this and he will take it off in a very public way...
There is no doubt that he has every intention of telling Ovi the truth. He wants to respect her feelings and try to do it with as minimal pain as possible but I agree with Laurie...he has to come clean now once and for all...
I do want to see some gumption in Arjun where Purvi is concerned and I want to see him get all fired up. At the same time he was confessing he showed his powerful self by telling her she needed to come out or he was coming in, and also even in the scene the next morning twice he cut her off...he asked her who she was to tell him whether to love her or not, and also gave her an ultimatum. We need to see this come back- and with his personality Im banking on the fact that it will. Yes, he kept mum and silent because as he keeps saying he is confused and doesnt know what to do. But the thought of losing Purvi forever will be absolutely unbearable to him...he is too much in love with her and will ignite a truly stupendous explosion.
Im hoping we see a return of this, and I think we will. I just dont see him going ahead with Ovi.
Even now, indirectly, hes not listening to her is he? She ordered him to stay away from her, never try to contact her, their rishta over etc. He is not just crying about it, giving up, taking her word for it and keeping quiet. Even after that he is still trying to tell Ovi the truth. I just dont see him going ahead with a marriage to her. Hes going along with this farce to spare her feelings. I truly believe the minute he starts seeing the ugly side of her (her yelling at Purvi and such) all hell will really break loose.
Its like I said before- the MU will be around him trying to explain things and not getting a chance to somehow. Someone posted (Laurie or Munni?) that if he does get a chance to explain and Purvi listens to him...the MU is over...she wont be able to hold out. I dont buy it but you never know...its possible she is trying to distance herself from him. But its not going to work. He is not going to let her. Call him lovesick fool, spineless, a sop, etc..but one thing is very clear: now that he knows she loves him, he is not going to let her go that easily. He wants her too badly- enough to throw all propriety and caution out the window whether justified or not ("that bull in a china shop analogy was very, very accurate- picture all the china pretty much broken and in pieces- that is exactly what is going to happen.")
Another thing: there are certain other factors still in play here that we need to consider.
1) We know for sure that Ovi is going to find out (not how/when but we know she is)
2) We know for sure that Archana is going to find out (same thing)
3) Soham/Varsha are going to enter at some point (thereby opening another drama for Archana/Manav- another child they thought was gone is back)
4) Punni still has to make an appearance (we know for sure it ain't over till its over in her book)
5) Savita/Damodar will be coming to India.
Now these are all factors to consider that leaves me to believe that this silent sacrifice angle, with only Purvi and Arjun (and the missing DK) knowing the truth, is not going to last that long. Once the people around them find out all hell will break loose, and it wont be her call anymore.
With all this I am hoping and praying this track is not going to drag until the divorce. Even though they didnt give us much the CVs did make the 2 accept their love for each other and give us the confessions and sweet scenes instead of my worst nightmare at the time: Ovi running into Arjun at the airport first and hugging him while Purvi watches. Then she would have kept mum and he would never have known her feelings. 😭
Someone, I dont remember who (in the forum was it Shyamala? Not sure..) but look at the banner itself. Archana and Manav are standing far apart while Purvi and Arjun are standing in front of each other looking up and smiling at each other. This may be overly optimistic where EKTA and the CVs are concerned, but I dont think the CVs will keep both couples separated at the same time for a long time. If you notice as the MU is there between Arjun/Purvi, Archu/Manav are enjoying more closeness and nice moments. It could be very possible that if Archu finds out, sides with Purvi, Savita will come, MU with Archu/Manav will happen, and ARVI will reunite.
It is clear they are not going to let them both be happy. The whole sacrifice angle is that someone gets to be happy while someone else has to pay the price.
I dont know...thats what I think. This week was just terrible for ARVI. However, (me being the perpetual optimist here again) although it has really taken a very terrible toll on all of us, the worst is pretty much over. This week sees the MU between ARVI, and the Purvi sacrifice decision.
This is hard to do...but we knew we had to go through it and we have. Purvi breaking up with him, Arjun still with Ovi hanging on him and us having to bear the sight of her, Purvi deciding to sacrifice for her family's happiness, and forcing Arjun to keep his mouth shut about them (probably in tomorrow's episode). What else can there be short of an Arjun/Ovi actual marriage?? (which we know isnt going to happen).
So lets all get through tomorrow's episode...take the weekend to recover and get our emotions back in check...and wait for next week...I really think things are going to start to turn around slowly. The separation may last for just a little longer- then the process of reuniting them will start to begin. There is no other way to keep the story moving. 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Axiom123

Arjun - In my humble opinion if you really want Purvi to listen to you you need to do exactly two things:
1). Take off that RING and toss it far away right in front of Purvi. Frankly, its an eye sore for us all (let alone Purvi) and for some reason its one of the things I always notice in these scenes now (actually secretly hoping he would take it off/forget it)
2). Most importantly - Stop talking! Take the high road. Now that you've tried bearing your soul several times to her and she's not listenening (yet), switch it off! The silence will be deafening for her. She will not be able to stand you staying away from her and she WILL search you out for answers.
Once you have her undivided attention, you then make your apologies, sweep her off her feet and give us back our ARVI!!!
Laurie

I agree , he needs to break up with Ovi ASAP .
He should not think about his dad , Manav , Purvi or anyone else but first thing to do is to break up with Ovi ..
Then he should just do his work every day and go home ...that's it .
And if Purvi thinks that he is a cheat and a two timer then I think she should tell Archana but maybe she doesn't think that Arjun is such a bad case of a cheat and whatever happened was a genuine mistake , then she should stop saying all these harsh things to Arjun ...
she should also go to work every day and then go home ...
Then I guess, one day DK will find time for his only son and will come back from Australia and then maybe the story will move forward when he will sit with Manav and tell him the whole story .
Edited by Tanyaz - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: archverma10

Jhanvi,

Well said...😉 you are right indeed..."hell hath no fury as a woman scorned". I watched Issa's clip online too...will probably wind up watching it tonight (fast forwarding the parts I cant handle of course).
I admit now about the ring...it is an eyesore and Im finding myself really hating the fact he has it on his finger. I am not sure why he continues to wear it...hopefully there will be a significance to this and he will take it off in a very public way...
There is no doubt that he has every intention of telling Ovi the truth. He wants to respect her feelings and try to do it with as minimal pain as possible but I agree with Laurie...he has to come clean now once and for all...
I do want to see some gumption in Arjun where Purvi is concerned and I want to see him get all fired up. At the same time he was confessing he showed his powerful self by telling her she needed to come out or he was coming in, and also even in the scene the next morning twice he cut her off...he asked her who she was to tell him whether to love her or not, and also gave her an ultimatum. We need to see this come back- and with his personality Im banking on the fact that it will. Yes, he kept mum and silent because as he keeps saying he is confused and doesnt know what to do. But the thought of losing Purvi forever will be absolutely unbearable to him...he is too much in love with her and will ignite a truly stupendous explosion.
Im hoping we see a return of this, and I think we will. I just dont see him going ahead with Ovi.
Even now, indirectly, hes not listening to her is he? She ordered him to stay away from her, never try to contact her, their rishta over etc. He is not just crying about it, giving up, taking her word for it and keeping quiet. Even after that he is still trying to tell Ovi the truth. I just dont see him going ahead with a marriage to her. Hes going along with this farce to spare her feelings. I truly believe the minute he starts seeing the ugly side of her (her yelling at Purvi and such) all hell will really break loose.
Its like I said before- the MU will be around him trying to explain things and not getting a chance to somehow. Someone posted (Laurie or Munni?) that if he does get a chance to explain and Purvi listens to him...the MU is over...she wont be able to hold out. I dont buy it but you never know...its possible she is trying to distance herself from him. But its not going to work. He is not going to let her. Call him lovesick fool, spineless, a sop, etc..but one thing is very clear: now that he knows she loves him, he is not going to let her go that easily. He wants her too badly- enough to throw all propriety and caution out the window whether justified or not ("that bull in a china shop analogy was very, very accurate- picture all the china pretty much broken and in pieces- that is exactly what is going to happen.")
Another thing: there are certain other factors still in play here that we need to consider.
1) We know for sure that Ovi is going to find out (not how/when but we know she is)
2) We know for sure that Archana is going to find out (same thing)
3) Soham/Varsha are going to enter at some point (thereby opening another drama for Archana/Manav- another child they thought was gone is back)
4) Punni still has to make an appearance (we know for sure it ain't over till its over in her book)
5) Savita/Damodar will be coming to India.
Now these are all factors to consider that leaves me to believe that this silent sacrifice angle, with only Purvi and Arjun (and the missing DK) knowing the truth, is not going to last that long. Once the people around them find out all hell will break loose, and it wont be her call anymore.
With all this I am hoping and praying this track is not going to drag until the divorce. Even though they didnt give us much the CVs did make the 2 accept their love for each other and give us the confessions and sweet scenes instead of my worst nightmare at the time: Ovi running into Arjun at the airport first and hugging him while Purvi watches. Then she would have kept mum and he would never have known her feelings. 😭
Someone, I dont remember who (in the forum was it Shyamala? Not sure..) but look at the banner itself. Archana and Manav are standing far apart while Purvi and Arjun are standing in front of each other looking up and smiling at each other. This may be overly optimistic where EKTA and the CVs are concerned, but I dont think the CVs will keep both couples separated at the same time for a long time. If you notice as the MU is there between Arjun/Purvi, Archu/Manav are enjoying more closeness and nice moments. It could be very possible that if Archu finds out, sides with Purvi, Savita will come, MU with Archu/Manav will happen, and ARVI will reunite.
It is clear they are not going to let them both be happy. The whole sacrifice angle is that someone gets to be happy while someone else has to pay the price.
I dont know...thats what I think. This week was just terrible for ARVI. However, (me being the perpetual optimist here again) although it has really taken a very terrible toll on all of us, the worst is pretty much over. This week sees the MU between ARVI, and the Purvi sacrifice decision.
This is hard to do...but we knew we had to go through it and we have. Purvi breaking up with him, Arjun still with Ovi hanging on him and us having to bear the sight of her, Purvi deciding to sacrifice for her family's happiness, and forcing Arjun to keep his mouth shut about them (probably in tomorrow's episode). What else can there be short of an Arjun/Ovi actual marriage?? (which we know isnt going to happen).
So lets all get through tomorrow's episode...take the weekend to recover and get our emotions back in check...and wait for next week...I really think things are going to start to turn around slowly. The separation may last for just a little longer- then the process of reuniting them will start to begin. There is no other way to keep the story moving. 😊

Arch, you have laid it all out - we cannot lose sight of those 5 factors - yes, Shyamala is the one that keeps pointing to Arjun and Purvi on the banner😆 and I am the one who said Purvi will fall apart if she lets Arjun talk😃 I am waiting for the china to break 😉, hope it comes crashing down all around his lovely fiancee, that will be a sight to watch! It will give us something to look forward to😆
For some reason, that ugly fat gold band is driving me nuts, I don't like it on his finger😔
I think you are right, one couple at a time, one is happy the other is not, it is like the CVs are playing musical chairs😡
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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Munni, he is selfish, he gave not a thought to either of the two girls, how they would react if they came to know, especially as they are sisters. Don't get me wrong, not that being selfish is evil, we all are selfish upto a point. Arjun though did put his own emotions and needs before Purvi's, in declaring his love to her before clearing his past with Ovi, and again in putting DK and Ovi before her at the engagement party. Many on the forum have said he is newly in love and so wholly in love. Yes, he is but he is like a child about a new toy, he sees the toy in the store, it is not yet bought, not yet wholly his but he lays claim to it anyway. Maybe Arjun needs to mature a little, lovable as he is now, it wouldn't hurt. Purvi is young, she is human and did get affronted with his behavior, she is no saint to say oh, poor Arjun, he loves me and I need to look at his intentions which are pure. She wants to be put first and made a big deal of not give up the limelight to Ovi because Arjun wasn't prompt enough to let his dad and Ovi know.



Jhanvi... i cannot agree with the point that he is selfish …

selfish - Lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one's own personal profit or pleasure.-----egoistic - self-seeking - self-centered - self-centred

Arjun, is considerate for these 2 girls... his intentions were not to gain any pleasure or profit by hurting these two … he is drowning in guilt by hurting each one of them..

Arjun agreed to marry Ovi only for her happiness...he decided to go ahead with the relation..even though he was not in love.. he never knew what the future has in store for him

He fell in love with the girl who changed him inside out..who showed him what happiness is..who showed what trust is ..what love is and what humanity is..and what relations are...Is he at fault to fall in love.. or is it in his hands not to fall in love or is at his disposition to avoid falling in love... love is divine and Arjun fell in love ...is he at fault of cheating on Ovi by falling in love with Purvi..who happens to be her sister

now with 2 girls ...one of whose heart he is bound to break... he tried to call Ovi even before confessing to Purvi.. does that show that he is selfish...

-If he was selfish and self-centered... he would be the happiest man today..and two timing them.. but today he is despondent and desolate and dire... he is drowning with guilt for hurting these two girls... I don't see any traits of his selfishness...

- why was he taking enough time and space to tell Ovi about his and Purvi's relation... because he is sure of what Ovi will go through when he tells her about his love for Purvi.. he is trying to make her comfortable and tell her in a relaxed way and making sure she will not be hit with the news like a thunder .he was preparing Ovi as what she is going to face... I don't see him being selfish... i see him as considerate and as kindhearted and as passionate as any selfless person would be

- and if he was being selfish by hiding the truth from Purvi... then he should be happy by breaking Purvi's heart...he should be fine with the engagement.. he should not call her.. he should be offended by her harsh words and by her slap... but he never felt offended... because he is in love and he feels guilty for hurting her unintentionally... I do not see him being selfish here,...

- he is considerate to both of them...he is guilty of hurting them.. his intentions were very clear of not hurting either one...

here again, i would like to add my most favorite lines

In life, we always want best for our loved ones, but even with best intentions in heart, we still do hurt others.. such is life and it's zillion shades... that is what Arjun is doing..

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