Originally posted by: Tanyaz
In my opinion this time she is putting kids before Manav .First of all she is clearly putting Sachu before manav because of no other reason but only for the love she has for the boy ...Then she herself heard her daughters say that they hate her and they feel that she is dead ...
Sachin told her that her daughters care a lot for Shravani and Sharavi's coming into their life will complete the familuy picture ..She even told her mother this that both her daughters , savita , damodar and manav with shravani will be a family and she plays no part in this family ...
In my opinion this is the reason why she is quitting ..She was very interested to get back with Manav but after her conversation with Sachin she changed her mind ...
How ? Responding to underlined . 18 years she did not phone kids or try any contact with them .
Now she got kids on platter . There are no ego issues from HER side about WHY Manav did not contact me for 18 years . She had RUSHED to greet him at airport . So she did NOT refuse for EGO battle or HURT feelings . That NOW I DON"T WANT YOU , I WANT ONLY THE KIDS . Nothing of that sort either .
But she refused the PLATTER for SACHU . And SACHU is NOT ALL HER KIDS .
What about Ovi Teju ? ONCE also did she think of them ?
And whats this BULL of SHRAVANI ? For once Sulochana told her RIGHTLY that
Sachu is STILL a YOUNG KID ...him dreaming of Manav getting back with HIS MOM may be a childish fantasy that has NOT left him even as he grew up like Purvi has dreamt and dreamt of being part of a COMPLETE family with Archanas missing husband coming back like a present from Santa Claus ...But surely ARCHANA is adult enough at 54 to realise that MANAV simply does NOT want Shravani and this is HIS decision to make ?
That if he wanted Shravani why the hell wud he live like a monk for 18 years but not trace her abroad and have a live in relationship there itself ...WHAT WAS THERE TO STOP HIM ?
What was Manav waiting for ...for Shravani to become BUDDI ?
So he cud marry her in BUDHAPA ?
And Archana had clearly heard Manav tellin her he Loved her STILL .
WHY does she have to hear a boys explanation ...a boy HALF her age ?
What about OVI TEJU ? Sulo asked her that .
Why is she refusing them for Sachu ? Coz her love for Sachu is GREATER ? Just like 18 years back her love for MANAV was greater than the babies ?
Ok . Heres one Solution . Take Manavs offer which gives ALL the kids back to her for 24 hours everyday as they live TOGETHER . THEN set about MANOFYING Sachu or placatin him ...is not THAT what she is doing now ? By showing him the Gates and swings ? She intends to make him EMOTIONAL by getting in touch with his emotions and making him LOVE her like before , yes ?
So Cannot she do same thing AFTER taking everything back ?At least in that way OVI TEjJU r not sidelined for MAHAANTA ?
And if the excuse is that ANYWAY Ovi Teju HATE her so she took this decision ...should not she ALL THE MORE grab Manavs offer to regain THEIR love as anyways too much time has been LOST ?
Whats this faltu thing of giving Manav upto Shravni and giving up her children and THEN demanding them in a legal hassles KIT KIT round about way ?
Clearly Manav does not want Shravni , Clearly Archana wants him and Family , Clearly Sachu can be managed later too . In fact she will have LOADS of time . She cud even contact Shravni and tell HER to explain as last time Shravni left her VERY PLEASANTLY with apologies .
EVERY NONSENSE is her priority , but NOT her marraige and kids
As far as Purvi goes , I dont know if Archana encouraged that dream of Manav as Father . But I do know firmly that its NOT Purvi's place to DECIDE if ARMAN shud get back or no ...SULOCHANA is encouraging her and THATS wrong . I dont see Archanas encouragement but i DO see Sulochanas hand in it .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 13 years ago
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