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Originally posted by: mirageas

Ok, So I don't watch this show for whatever reason it is, but today I happened to read few posts related to show so I'm asking these question hoping to get some answer.

Firstly, what is wrong if 50 year old women dresses up to meet her husband? Lets keep aside the mistake she did though I know one can never forgive, but really what is mistake in it?

I mean she is not meeting some random guy to impress she is just meeting her husband after years to talk him how is that wrong? I mean if she had been to place like bikhari then should we assume that she went like that because she wants money. 😕 Because if I'm reading updates properly Archana doesn't know reason of meeting him.

Why do we have to use usage of word throwing body? I mean does a women is meant only for that especially those who dresses up? I read one novel recently in that a women who had murdered few people was given death sentence and her last wish was to get dress up like married women and send last few mins with her husband. So, should I take that even that woman was throwing her body to be her husband? I know circumstances is way different here, but as she also did same should I come to conclusion that she was throwing her body to her husband? Because when I read I actually felt bad, but now I feel this also might be reason.

Also I don't know how many have watched "Dor" movie in that Ayesha is a widow and one day while going to temple she dances to a song but suddenly she feel guilt being happy thinking she is hurting her husband by being happy, so does that also mean a women who is a window or divorcee shouldn't get dressed up?

I really don't know if Manav and Archana should get re-united again or not, but having been read these post just had me in doubt. Also if we talk about PR only a useless husband like Damodar was away from home for years first and Savita was happy enjoying which isn't wrong so when he came back she was happy so does it also mean that she was using her body? Even when he went to rehab center Savita was all dressed up with gold enjoyed her son money so was it wrong to enjoy like that? She danced when she got gold of Sharavni after her son died so was it also like this context of be happy?

Sharavni started wearing mini-skirt,lipstick looking much prettier than before even after Sachin death, and even left her son to be with Savita knowing how bad is she did, so was she also wrong in getting dressed up?

This a show which is done by writers and I do have complain regarding this to show makers on why is that actors are not done make-up according to age required in script? 😕 Youngsters toh I can understand why, but even experienced.theater actors like Ushaji,Savita also don't experiment with looks which is like surprising.

Today we see many celebrity dressing up who are aged so are those people doing it wrong?

😕 😕 😕

Here few I said are frictional and real events yet some where context are same women get dressing up or being after having tragedy in life or being in late 50's.

I have nothing against views, but this was some genuine question by someone who hasn't seen life yet because I'm still young so just asking.

Archana's dreams gtting thrashed or nt i give a fig as until manav is connected to savita's umbical cord she needs to face all these😆

Not only Sulo dolled up each day for 4 yrs when her husband ran away from home but she even celebrated anniversary w/o a husband...Her sanskars are very well followed by all Karanjkars..Even it did not stop Purvi from dropping her dupatta to seduce Mr. Malik...Punni to usse bhi aage...Blame it on darn Sulos sanskars

Wonderful posts prasad and Varsha Di👏

Archana was dressed up to look all good in front of Manav. So happy that Archana got it good from Manav and Sachu, I hope we don't see Manav going back to being ULM again

So many years have passed, Manav is raising his daughters and Sachu so nicely, like a mother and father, Archana never called ONCE to ask about the kids in these 18 years, and now she says firmly as if she is some official, demanding, I want my three kids. She clearly said it without thinking about Manav and how hurt he would be if his hard work of raising them, and now Archana is demanding for her children? What HAQ was she talking about? Had she ever once done anything for Ovi and Teju to have a right on them?

Archana doesn't even care about the kids, she just wanted to snatch something from Manav. First she separated Soham from Manav and now she wants to separate all three children from him, how selfish is she.

Sorry, double post😳

Originally posted by: mirageas

Ok, So I don't watch this show for whatever reason it is, but today I happened to read few posts related to show so I'm asking these question hoping to get some answer.

Firstly, what is wrong if 50 year old women dresses up to meet her husband? Lets keep aside the mistake she did though I know one can never forgive, but really what is mistake in it?

I mean she is not meeting some random guy to impress she is just meeting her husband after years to talk him how is that wrong? I mean if she had been to place like bikhari then should we assume that she went like that because she wants money. 😕 Because if I'm reading updates properly Archana doesn't know reason of meeting him.

Why do we have to use usage of word throwing body? I mean does a women is meant only for that especially those who dresses up? I read one novel recently in that a women who had murdered few people was given death sentence and her last wish was to get dress up like married women and spend last few mins with her husband. So, should I take that even that woman was throwing her body to be with her husband? I know circumstances is way different here, but as she also did same should I come to conclusion that she was throwing her body to her husband? Because when I read I actually felt bad, but now I feel this also might be reason.

Also I don't know how many have watched "Dor" movie in that Ayesha is a widow and one day while going to temple she dances to a song but suddenly she feels guilt being happy thinking she is hurting her husband by being happy, so does that also mean a women who is a window or divorcee shouldn't get dressed up?

I really don't know if Manav and Archana should get re-united again or not, but having been read these post just had me in doubt. Also if we talk about PR only a useless husband like Damodar was away from home for years first and Savita was happy enjoying which isn't wrong so when he came back she was happy so does it also mean that she was using her body? Even when he went to rehab center Savita was all dressed up with gold enjoyed her son money so was it wrong to enjoy like that? She danced when she got gold of Sharavni after her son died so was it also like this context of being happy?

Sharavni started wearing mini-skirt,lipstick looking much prettier than before even after Sachin death, and even left her son to be with Savita knowing how bad she is, so was she also wrong in getting dressed up?

This a show which is done by writers and I do have complain regarding this to show makers on why is that actors are not done make-up according to age required in script? 😕 Youngsters toh I can understand why, but even experienced.theater actors like Ushaji,Savita also don't experiment with looks which is like surprising.

Today we see many celebrity dressing up who are aged so are those people doing it wrong?

😕 😕 😕

Here few I said are frictional and real events yet some where context are same women get dressing up or being after having tragedy in life or being in late 50's.

I have nothing against views, but this was some genuine question by someone who hasn't seen life yet because I'm still young so just asking.

Edit add: Regarding divorce, if I'm not wrong if a wife is staying away from her husband for more than 2 years then husband can get divorce easily if he provides proper evidence of wife not staying with him. 6 months time is given only due to certain circumstances like not able to provide proper evidence or wife is not agreeing. This is according to Hindu marriage.

oh wait a sec ... after sachin's death shravani always wore punjabi dresses ... in deshmukh house she always wore saaris ... only in abroad she wore mini skirts & mind u shravani's case was different ... she knew that her son was in his paternal home only & staying happily

Originally posted by: mirageas

Ok, So I don't watch this show for whatever reason it is, but today I happened to read few posts related to show so I'm asking these question hoping to get some answer.

Firstly, what is wrong if 50 year old women dresses up to meet her husband? Lets keep aside the mistake she did though I know one can never forgive, but really what is mistake in it?

I mean she is not meeting some random guy to impress she is just meeting her husband after years to talk him how is that wrong? I mean if she had been to place like bikhari then should we assume that she went like that because she wants money. 😕 Because if I'm reading updates properly Archana doesn't know reason of meeting him.

Good point but an alternate point of view

there is nothing wrong with any woman dressing up to meet anyone especially her husband

In this instance if it offends the sensibilities a bit and sounds inappropriate I guess is because of the intention behind the dressing and the backdrop for it.

archana has been seperated from her husband and her children for the last 18 years. this was not an amicable seperation. It is not even a situation where they were seperated due to a natural calamity or something (where there are no misgivings on either side) and she is being reunited with her husband after many years.

her children believe she abandoned them and harbour ill will towards her. She heard this information first hand

her husband cannot get past the last set of mistakes that caused the seperation and the fact that she did not attempt to reduce that distance over the last 18 years.

She is walking into a situation where there are a lot of misgivings on her husband and childrens side and in this environment as a mature 50 year old her first instinct was not to discuss and make peace with the past but to dress up with romantic aaspirations. Even without the added complication of beign served divorce papers it seems inappropriate and insensitive when viewed by many people especially people whoa re mothers and prioritize their children over their own chemistry with their husband (active or dormant).

It is like saying you dressed up pretty to see your kids at their dad's funeral, I guess

It is not the fact that you dressed up (that is everyone's right) it the question of how sensitive and appropriate the behaviour is for a 50 year old woman who is in a very aggrieved and conflicted family situation right now.

not sure if I expressed myself clearly. I tried.

Hope

Originally posted by: --Hope--

Good point but an alternate point of view

there is nothing wrong with any woman dressing up to meet anyone especially her husband

In this instance if it offends the sensibilities a bit and sounds inappropriate I guess is because of the intention behind the dressing and the backdrop for it.

archana has been seperated from her husband and her children for the last 18 years. this was not an amicable seperation. It is not even a situation where they were seperated due to a natural calamity or something (where there are no misgivings on either side) and she is being reunited with her husband after many years.

her children believe she abandoned them and harbour ill will towards her. She heard this information first hand

her husband cannot get past the last set of mistakes that caused the seperation and the fact that she did not attempt to reduce that distance over the last 18 years.

She is walking into a situation where there are a lot of misgivings on her husband and childrens side and in this environment as a mature 50 year old her first instinct was not to discuss and make peace with the past but to dress up with romantic aaspirations. Even without the added complication of beign served divorce papers it seems inappropriate and insensitive when viewed by many people especially people whoa re mothers and prioritize their children over their own chemistry with their husband (active or dormant).

It is like saying you dressed up pretty to see your kids at their dad's funeral, I guess

It is not the fact that you dressed up (that is everyone's right) it the question of how sensitive and appropriate the behaviour is for a 50 year old woman who is in a very aggrieved and conflicted family situation right now.

not sure if I expressed myself clearly. I tried.

Hope😃

Thanks for reply totally appreciate it! 😃 I agree on what you are trying to say on Archana also, but to begin I never said what she is asking for Manav is right or wrong. Also let me clear one thing here I'm not at all judging on Manav and Archana.

Here what I was trying to ask is why is it assumed that a married women getting dressing up is to throw her body to her husband? I mean what ever a lady does is her wish na on how to dress up and all. Here Archana has been away from 18 years so she thought she will dress that is her wish , and if we think of different perspective then Archana wouldn't have never said Manav to go away from her without using her body if we think this time she got dressed for that reason. I mean is women an object to think like that? 😕

I'm not at all bothered of mothers in this show because all are showed to be insensitive towards children which is wrong, but to say she got dressed to throw her body is something I felt was inappropriate usage of word because not all women get dressed up like that and I don't think even Archana dressed up to do it in road like that. 😆

Also if we take this example of dressing up like that to be throwing her body then we should take even few other ladies also to be same in this show right from Savita to latest younger generation. 😆

If we try to see different point of view then why can't we think on why Manav never remembered Soham nor why he never tried to find him in these 18 years because if I'm right no confirmation of death to Soham is showed na? In that case does he also become insensitive towards his kid?

Edit: For a point, I agree it does look inappropriate for her to dress up that like for some people due to reason you stated, but what I'm trying to say is that she got dressed not to throw her body to him she got dressed up because she wanted whether if someone liked it not is people choice, but I don't think any women in trauma dresses up to throw her body on her husband. It is just her wish to look nice not for throwing body is what I'm trying to say. 😊

Great to see some voices after so long!!! Hope thank you for answering the question so well.

Originally posted by: prasad1991

archana's all dreams of putting on a dark seducive lipstick & then trapping manav were totally spoilt🥳

🤣wee,,🥳