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Sharon I've been noticing Zee is doing this to other shows as well it is like the voices of fans mean nothing. I know the baby gifting track has not officially gone through as right now Soham is still with Archana but the damage has still been done. Manav has been destroyed, he was truly unbelievable today. The way he treated Archana was inexcusable and then giving away Soham and wanting to make it legal, he should not even call himself a parent after this.

Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

Sharon I've been noticing Zee is doing this to other shows as well it is like the voices of fans mean nothing. I know the baby gifting track has not officially gone through as right now Soham is still with Archana but the damage has still been done. Manav has been destroyed, he was truly unbelievable today. The way he treated Archana was inexcusable and then giving away Soham and wanting to make it legal, he should not even call himself a parent after this.

Both ArMan are at fault for what has happened, the way Manav treated Archana was wrong but the only reason Archana said yes to Manav giving away soham to varsha was exactly the reason Manav stated because she only cares about her sister and for her happiness. Manav actually did not like the fact that Archana supported him in this decision,I kind of felt that Manav was just suggesting this to see Archu's reaction. And Archana doesn't support Manav in everything it's just that because Manav said something for Varsha Archana immediately accepted it. Feel free to disagree😊

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Mandy Archana too did NOT object to giving Soham away , she rather JUMPED on it as if it was perfectly ok . In fact Manav commented sarcastically on it . And its not as if she is not at fault ...She is proving to be a RATHER inept mother of late , as if she cannot manage two kids AT ALL . Her mistakes r shoddy . oSme of Manavs points were RIGHT . He did not doubt her love for Sachu , all he told her was THIS CANT GO ON< U GET UR ACT TOGETHER . Upon which she told him If she pays attention to Soham she SIMPLY CANT MANAGE SACHU . He got horribly ANNOYED at that . She is not a working mother , a housewife and two other women r there in the house and also a servant Sundari . His annoyance was justified as Sachu was giving some strange answers to him and Archana seems to have no CLUE as to WATZ happening in his life . On the top she is asking Manav YOU TELL ME WHAT TO DO . Its a bit thick for a man to come from a tiring day in office to be asked this , he expects the woman to shoulder this end of marraige and responsibility well . So he snapped and she actually took him up on that .

My point , While I absolutely berate manav for his eccentricity and condem his decision of giving Soham up , Archana is NOT blameless At all .

Kool Di, if they show Archana as very caring than why should she not be able to take care of two kids? There are mothers who can take care of triplets as babies even four babies. What is this if I have Soham I can't take care of Sachu? Archana is not to be regarded as innocent, taking care of two kids is nothing compared to taking care of five or ten. And on top of that, she complained when she said she has to take care of two kids, I loved how Manav reprimanded her for that, why even give birth to a child if you will have diffculty in taking care of two children?

Neither of them should we support. And neither should we blame only one of ARMAN at this time.
As kool di said and as all been saying here before, both are at fault , both are to be blamed and in my view not to be forgiven too.

Manav is WRONG, archu is WRONG.

Ya, Manav could have looked for a better solution.
when He asked for a solution to this and she answered varsha takes care of soham ,so no problem, then the answer from Manav and the sarcasm I liked it actually. In the situation he is in, after coming from office, he wants to see his family happy and at ease and mostly not at the way sachu complained. we know Manav is one hell of Zimmendaris .so Obviously he will behave like that.
If he has carried on that sarcasm and told her correctly that both should be taken care of , no varsha talks and had talk with her the ways and let her speak too instead of the blame ,then things could have been better.

So where he has gone wrong is simply letting the anger get through him and savita's words get into him and making the most foolish ,🤢 decision ever, instead thinking of the other ways.
Totally he sucked as a parent there.

Then archu, if she loves soham she could have said a no. But no she readily accepts .
Even in the precap, when sulo asks archu how could you do it, how could you support manav on this issue, what was her answer.

Its not that manav asked to do, her answer was you know varsha's state na, health ,position na.
So she accepted this for her sister. 😡

If she is oh so not ok with it, she could have talked to manav about the possibilities and sachu's state, his misunderstandings and the ways to handle it.
She could have talked to manav when he sarcastically mocks at her, Manav please dont say this, that was not my intention ,I truly want you to guide me in handling sachu as something weird is going on right now and guide me too keep both our sons happy.


Neither of them thought about keeping both their sons happy.
Then what is there to blame either one of them. Both sucked and dead is the fact.😡

Is Soham 3 years old? It is very unusual for a toddler who always cries and drinks milk (only chocolate). Is he unwell or something? the child looks very adorable though..I don't understand Archana is not working then why she cant take care of both kids? And there are so many people in the house..they have a maid Sundari, Savita..Sulochana..the script is really very weak..

Even if Manav were doing this to test Archana he knows very well she would have gone along with what he said, she always does. Manav made his choice first he was all about never giving away his child now he is willing to have Varsha and Satish legally adopt Soham. He's a disappointment as a father and will feel like a fool when he learns what his mother has done. He's always listening to Savita and now it is going to cost him both his sons. Savita's plan to have Shravani and Manav marry will never happen. Shravani will just take Sachu and move far away then both ArMan and Savita will be left with nothing and they'll have no one to blame but themselves for their stupidity and selfish behavior.

Even if Manav were doing this to test Archana he knows very well she would have gone along with what he said, she always does. Manav made his choice first

Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

Even if Manav were doing this to test Archana he knows very well she would have gone along with what he said, she always does. Manav made his choice first he was all about never giving away his child now he is willing to have Varsha and Satish legally adopt Soham. He's a disappointment as a father and will feel like a fool when he learns what his mother has done. He's always listening to Savita and now it is going to cost him both his sons. Savita's plan to have Shravani and Manav marry will never happen. Shravani will just take Sachu and move far away then both ArMan and Savita will be left with nothing and they'll have no one to blame but themselves for their stupidity and selfish behavior.

Being an adult and a father of two kids why Manav is listening to his mom? And how they can think of giving their own kid to a mentally challenged person? Sounds very absurd..

Archu jumped at Manav's first statement of giving Soham to Varsha (Sarcastic one indeed)..She did not defy or show any reservations to him...It was Sulo who kept trying to make her see why she should not support Manav's suggestion. Sulo told both of them that she was disappointed in this decision which they will regret it later.