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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

And honestly what was she looking so SHOCKED about when Satish suggested Legal adoption so Varsha does not bother him when question of giving baby away AGAIN arises ? Was she seriously expecting to happily turn up on the steps with Mamta Card in some weeks ? Archana has done EXACTLY this for last three years ...she spoilt her sister rotten by encouraging her addiction to her baby and is nOw telling Manav SHAMELESSLY that Oh II cud pay more attention to Sachu before this coz Varsha looked after Soham ! What kind of an answer was THAT !!!

Manav needs a tight slap but Archana needs an equally tight one .

Right on!!
ArMan both lead Varsha to believe that she could have Soham when ever she wanted him..She was allowed to come to Ds and stay there, take care of him like a mother...I blame both ArMan for doing it to varsha and putting themselves in this precarious situation...They never drew a line saying "We are parents and you are Mausi"
Manav said it first sarcastically and Archu jumped at it..We have a saying in gujju "bhavtu hatu ane vaide batavyu" ...Pls I cant translate this one...😳
Add: Even Archu not a single time told Sulo that she does not want to lose her son..SHe justified it saying "Varshu ki haalat hi aisi hai na" WTH 😔 Woman u cant go around giving your kids up because someone in your family is having a bad day 😔
Edited by Dabulls23 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
Kool Di, if they show Archana as very caring than why should she not be able to take care of two kids? There are mothers who can take care of triplets as babies even four babies. What is this if I have Soham I can't take care of Sachu? Archana is not to be regarded as innocent, taking care of two kids is nothing compared to taking care of five or ten. And on top of that, she complained when she said she has to take care of two kids, I loved how Manav reprimanded her for that, why even give birth to a child if you will have diffculty in taking care of two children?

bhalla we all r women in foreign countries , looking after 3 or 2 kids ALONE while hubbies do travelling jobs etc , minus ANY facilities like servants , Grandmas etc like India . . Babysitting is costly here so we roam around with babies like Mother Apes , a one woman show , the babies CONSTANTLY on our head . Archana has two Grandmas who DO help out from time to time , A servant , an entire Chawl full of helpful neighnours who volunteer to baby sit Soham etc . She is bloody LUCKY . Even if THIS she cannot manage , its SHAMEFUL . Manav asked Sulo correctly ...HOW YOU managed 4 kids , teach ur daughter !
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sadhnaragini

Is Soham 3 years old? It is very unusual for a toddler who always cries and drinks milk (only chocolate). Is he unwell or something? the child looks very adorable though..I don't understand Archana is not working then why she cant take care of both kids? And there are so many people in the house..they have a maid Sundari, Savita..Sulochana..the script is really very weak..


Its so stupid , the only dialogue to show Varsha's great maternal instincts is her knowledge that the child ONLY drinks chocolate milk which is btw quite UNHEALTHY habit to encourage on DAILY basis . 3 year olds eat solid food , veggies , dal rice , khichadi , everything . NOTHING is given to Soham . Only milk and THAT TOO Archana cannot do and needs VARSHA for THAT . And the baby cries cries and cries , naturally , he must be having worms or something by guzzling all that sugar .
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Posted: 14 years ago
Archana is also selfish in a way she always tries to be mahan with all..she is trying to prove how blindly she follows her husband..she wants to be a perfect mom to sachin but not to soham so that people may not raise any question..she does not want to ruin her relations with her sister thats why she is giving soham..I wonder if someone asks her to divorce Manav what will she do..
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Bhalla

Kool Di, if they show Archana as very caring than why should she not be able to take care of two kids? There are mothers who can take care of triplets as babies even four babies. What is this if I have Soham I can't take care of Sachu? Archana is not to be regarded as innocent, taking care of two kids is nothing compared to taking care of five or ten. And on top of that, she complained when she said she has to take care of two kids, I loved how Manav reprimanded her for that, why even give birth to a child if you will have diffculty in taking care of two children?


Bhalla I came to US very young age of 21 with a small 3 mo young baby and had another one in 18 mo..From 1975 I have always worked until 2004..Managed house, kids, my job, supported hubster in his post grad studies by handling kids 4 nights a week all by myself with no support system...And doing all that while being poor..😳
Archana has no reason to complain..As I wrote yesterday to mandy that just because Soham cries does not mean she needs to jump each time..Its ok for babies or lil ones to cry sometimes...Helps their lungs in growing 😃 healthy..
Most women work outside and inside of their house...May be Manav should start helping out a bit..Nothing wrong in that...Both Savita-Sulo can take turn in helping with kids while Archu coooks etc..
Edited by Dabulls23 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sadhnaragini

Archana is also selfish in a way she always tries to be mahan with all..she is trying to prove how blindly she follows her husband..she wants to be a perfect mom to sachin but not to soham so that people may not raise any question..she does not want to ruin her relations with her sister thats why she is giving soham..I wonder if someone asks her to divorce Manav what will she do..

She did my dear...She has an obsession of serving husbands and a child now to others on silver platter...😔
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Posted: 14 years ago
Savita is purposely not helping Archana but Sulochana has offered to help, I thought with Sulochana back that things would get back to normal but unfortunately things have only gotten worse. Manav and Archana have been written so bad. No amounts of manipulation should ever cause either to even consider giving away their child. This show has made a mockery of illnesses, of children, of the viewers. I am just waiting for the day I read it is confirmed that Sushant and Ankita have quit the show. There is no point to keep them on anymore, there is nowhere to go but down from here. The CVs, Ekta and Zee have shown that our voices mean nothing and that they will do whatever they please. It would've been better to end the show then let it die a slow and painful death, PR can't be saved.
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000


Its so stupid , the only dialogue to show Varsha's great maternal instincts is her knowledge that the child ONLY drinks chocolate milk which is btw quite UNHEALTHY habit to encourage on DAILY basis . 3 year olds eat solid food , veggies , dal rice , khichadi , everything . NOTHING is given to Soham . Only milk and THAT TOO Archana cannot do and needs VARSHA for THAT . And the baby cries cries and cries , naturally , he must be having worms or something by guzzling all that sugar .



yeah..they treat the toddler like a baby and they even dont know how bad sugar sweetened chocolate is for such a young boy..I wonder what does Archana do the entire day..though Soham drinks milk only and she forgets to buy milk powder in advance..
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Posted: 14 years ago
Instead of choosing a easy possible way or the sensible one ,ARMAN choose the mahaan decision just that these Cvs want to justify soham's donation 😔.


Arrey both would have had a talk or fight with each other to get through each point to the other. whats there in deciding to give soham to varsha ..Ufff...


Manav as he has started , because he started well, saying you were doing this all along now what happened, your mother can take care 4 ,what about 2, I didnt say you dont love him or that you do it intentionally, knowing or unknowingly it is happening, sachu is driven into that state ,even after I warning you about this and asked to take care of it, you are going careless.
This is what he started.

He could have lashed at her for ending in this state and when she accepts for soham donation, he along with the sarcasm would have scolded her that I was asking the reason for this mess and the solution but you are accepting for a greater mess by accepting to what I said sarcastically.

He could have fight with her to get through his point, instead he fell for savita's words and took that horrible decision that makes him dead.



Same goes for archu too. If she cares for soham and want soham with him, she could have talked back to manav that manav you are wrong in your statement and the decision,
My point was not that, I am telling you sachu is behaving weird , we need to handle him properly, dont know who spoils his brain and ears with strange things , so I was asking you a solution for it but where were you taking the issue to.

She could have fight with him, you misunderstood my things, I was to keep both my sons happy and take care of them properly but these days some thing happening that going out of control. so I thought you would help me in this but you are blaming.

Like this if they have fight with each other also and atleast tell each other POV and finally understand both want both of their two children to do good and ways for it has to be found out and implemented, then that would had been fine.

But archu too readily accepts for varsha sake.
what she said to sulo, if manav wants I will give, what is this. if you dont want to give your son, fight with your husband, tell his interpretation and the decision was wrong. Accepting for majboori and all is BS. Tell him I dont want to give soham and I love sachu more too. Some things were gone wrong, we both need to straight it up. But thats not she said.
she too wants it in her inner mind. she too thinks ,yes varsha need soham and if soham is not there sachu can be taken care of well. so she accepted manav's decision.


So both these characters irritate me a lot from yesterday and I dont know why I am still writing things about them, this could had been but they are at fault, like this Like this .šŸ˜• .


To hell with them.
Edited by umayal - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

Savita is purposely not helping Archana but Sulochana has offered to help, I thought with Sulochana back that things would get back to normal but unfortunately things have only gotten worse. Manav and Archana have been written so bad. No amounts of manipulation should ever cause either to even consider giving away their child. This show has made a mockery of illnesses, of children, of the viewers. I am just waiting for the day I read it is confirmed that Sushant and Ankita have quit the show. There is no point to keep them on anymore, there is nowhere to go but down from here. The CVs, Ekta and Zee have shown that our voices mean nothing and that they will do whatever they please. It would've been better to end the show then let it die a slow and painful death, PR can't be saved.

Mandy,
As Varsha would say, "Amen sistah!"
Hope you don't mind me copying your phrase Varsha.😊

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