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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: vishwap

I think that Archana should first get over the fear of losing Manav. It is this fear (apart from her love for him) that makes her forgive Manav easily every time. But then Archana is like this with everyone she loves be it manav, Sulochana or Varsha that she ends up looking foolish all the time.

It is not that she does not make mistakes but when her intentions are suspected, it hurts badly. Manav of all people should know by now that she is not the kind of person to throw an important file in with the "raddi". I only hope that this thought occurs to him when he calms down. Savita's recent unexplained behaviour should also alert him to the fact that something is wrong somewhere. But Arman is Arman , they think thro their heart!
I really wish that Archana should somehow disappear from everyone's lives for some while so that her real worth comes into focus. And she gets the much-needed respite from day-to-day Khich-Khich!

Vishwap,
@bold...that is a brilliant idea!!!! Let Archana disappear from everyone's lives, without their prior knowledge (like Manav did, pre leap).
She should take the children with her, and Sundari could go too, so that Archana has someone to help her take care of the children when she is at work or has other matters to deal with, once she settles down. After she has left the house, she should call to infrom them that she has left with Sundari and the children, so that those at home would not worry and involve the police. Just tell them she needed a break.
Let Manav know what it is like to be without Archana, on her terms. When he left, pre leap, he decided to go. He knew he was okay. He wasn't in Archana's position to be in a state of worry and stress, not knowing if her husband was even alive, much less, where he was! Then Manav will really realise how much Archana means to him, and how much he has been taking her for granted!
If Archana were to take this step, Sulochana would also get a taste of her own medicine, and come to realise how much she made Archana suffer when she was missing! Savita will also learn a lesson when she sees how much Manav is suffering and at the point of a breakdown, because his beloved wife, whom he says he can't live without, has left their home and he has no idea whatsoever, where she is!!! I would love to see how happy Savita would be, seeing her beloved son in this condition!!! 😡 How happy and satisfied would she feel in succeeding in running Archana out of the home, when she looks at her devastated and broken son? 😡
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Swati_

Hm...So Manav is the devil who is making Archu suffer ?

Ya Archu has suffered alot alone , Manav was no where with her.
Manav tried not to keep Archu hungry after their second marriage and did not care about himself, but yes only Archu suffered
He did not care about his Mum, but yes only Archu sacrificed When Archu cried when Sulo went missing , she was in pain but when Manav cried for savita , oh he did not care about Archu
He did not care about his self respect to save his child , even begged but of course he doesnt love Archu
Manav has lead a comfortable life, with ease without any sufferinga till this age , Giving up education at the age of 16 is such a small thing, had to take care of his drunkard father, but no he doesnt deserve to be happy
After all the things Manav has done for Archu i had thought he did not need to prove his love again but i guess i was wrong
Manav's friendship with Ashna is innocent but i guess he is not allowed to be a friend
Manav did not call her in the coffee shop, niether they were on a date , so why is Manav being labelled as a cheater
A Boss and a employee can never be friends ah ?
I am just tired of the way Manav is being bashed for the thing he doesnt even think
Manav is rash, impulsive and gets manipulated easily be it Archu, Savita or Ajit
Yes he was wrong during Riya or Savita track but why is his love for Archu being doubted
Please leave this show Sushant 😭

Swati Dear,
No one is saying Manav doesn't love Archana.
What is being expressed is that he is inconsistant with his trust of her. He readily accepted what Savita said re the important file that went missing, but didn't readily accept Archana's explanation. If he trusted her implicitly, he would've realised something wasn't adding up and let them all know that he would deal with it when he came home.
All the instances you mentioned in your post are true, and are an indication of his deep love for Archana. However, there is the saying that sometimes, love isn't enough! Just because you love someone, doesn't mean that all will be okay. You have to constantly work on that love and that relationship, for it to grow and survive.
Manav constantly tells Archana he will never doubt her again (after being proved wrong for having doubted her actions), yet he falls back into that wrong behaviour the very next time Archana's actions are questioned by someone. In this case, he did this after only one day! This is what we are upset about. I LOVE Manav, but if you love someone, you have to admit when they fall short, and help them to correct their wrong. You can't ignore the wrong deed(s), or support it (them). That approach will not help the person you love now, or in the future.
I hope you can understand where we're coming from, even if you don't agree.😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
Vishwap,
@bold...that is a brilliant idea!!!! Let Archana disappear from everyone's lives, without their prior knowledge (like Manav did, pre leap).
She should take the children with her, and Sundari could go too, so that Archana has someone to help her take care of the children when she is at work or has other matters to deal with, once she settles down. After she has left the house, she should call to infrom them that she has left with Sundari and the children, so that those at home would not worry and involve the police. Just tell them she needed a break.
Let Manav know what it is like to be without Archana, on her terms. When he left, pre leap, he decided to go. He knew he was okay. He wasn't in Archana's position to be in a state of worry and stress, not knowing if her husband was even alive, much less, where he was! Then Manav will really realise how much Archana means to him, and how much he has been taking her for granted!
If Archana were to take this step, Sulochana would also get a taste of her own medicine, and come to realise how much she made Archana suffer when she was missing! Savita will also learn a lesson when she sees how much Manav is suffering and at the point of a breakdown, because his beloved wife, whom he says he can't live without, has left their home and he has no idea whatsoever, where she is!!! I would love to see how happy Savita would be, seeing her beloved son in this condition!!! 😡 How happy and satisfied would she feel in succeeding in running Archana out of the home, when she looks at her devastated and broken son? 😡
swati very well said👏👏👏i love ur post i also thinks that way
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Posted: 14 years ago
Swati,

I'm really sorry if any of my post offended you in any way. I've mentioned in my posts before that I've never doubted Manav's love for Archana.Its just that Archu's love comes with complete trust and respect whilst Manav in fits of anger always thinks the worst off her which isn't very fair.That is what some of us are unhappy about.
Edited by shootingstar27 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: shootingstar27

Swati,


I'm really sorry if any of my post offended you in any way. I've mentioned in my posts before that I've never doubted Manav's love for Archana.Its just that Archu's love comes with complete trust and respect whilst Manav in fits of anger always thinks the worst off her which isn't very fair.That is what some of us are unhappy about.

yes i m completly agree with u that archu's love for manav is pure bt manav's love means trust on archana is not strong
Edited by poas - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
I honestly dont think Savita wants Archu out of her house or wants to throw her out of the house..She just wants her punished and humilliated due to Rassi's ear filling..Lil does Savita remembers that Rassi is evil and is MIL to her own daughter Vandu...Rassi could do the same torture to Vandu as well..
When the curtain of misunderstanding is off Savita's eyes she will regret it all and will be devastated as she ruined her son's marriage and hurt Archu and herself plus ruined her own relationship with Archu..
Hope ME opens Sav's eyes abt Rassi..I want Sundari to tell ArMan abt Rassi and Savita's convo..Tooo bad peace in the family is destroyed by evil of Lokhandes...
Where is Manav going to get all that money to buy Vandu a house? He is not a millionaire as they portray him to be..Why would he be still living in a chawl than?
EDIT: I dont like Archu keeps forgiving Manav w/o saying a word..Let him know how she could have appreciated his faith in her and believed her that she had safekeep the file in the cubbard locked drawer..she would not throw it in a dustbin..He should have given her BOD just like he gave it to Savita his mother..
Another thing I dont like is after Manav getting mad at Archu, she has not even forgiven him and he is ready for Sex. Sex is not a solution for everything...Communication is a must..Realizing your mistake is a must..Changing your behavior is a must if you make mistake..dont use your sex as a bandage or solution to feed your own ego..I felt Manav wanting to romance today was bit out of place after his bad behavior 2 days in a row..Although i understood him getting upset over file missing.
Edited by Dabulls23 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
As expected , manav went running to Ashna to tell her about his problem with Archana and then did exactly what Ashna told him to do ...😆 In terms of understanding , manav and Ashna have a better rishta than Manav and Archana ...there is more respect and trust there , which is lacking between manav and Archana ...
Edited by Tanyaz - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

As expected , manav went running to Ashna to tell her about his problem with Archana and then did exactly what Ashna told him to do ...😆

tanya di he listens blindly and follows to Ashna's instructions😆

Hmm what is so big in a bday party that ashna keeps discussing abou it whenever she is with manav😆 and even in office hours😆even DK throws so many parties, never saw him discuss lik this and al in office or even at hme😆.
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Posted: 14 years ago
Yeah and what is the need for Manav to tell Ashna abt his fight with Archu?? Is aashna the marriage cousellor now? Man learn to communicate with your wife...You are ready to hop in a bed with her which does not take hardly any talking which is fine by you...Grrr
I hate men who are not manly enough in realizing their mistake, accepting it and work on it by not repeating it...Sex is physical sex but communication is part of love making...
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: shootingstar27

Swati,


I'm really sorry if any of my post offended you in any way. I've mentioned in my posts before that I've never doubted Manav's love for Archana.Its just that Archu's love comes with complete trust and respect whilst Manav in fits of anger always thinks the worst off her which isn't very fair.That is what some of us are unhappy about.



Omana 🤗
Ok dear i am really feeling i should not have written the post 😳
Na dear you never offended me . NOr anyone did , let me be clear i was just stating my opinion 😊
It is just a show and Manav a fictional character, i would never ever want any living person to feel bad about it😳
My living friends on the forum are more important to me than fictional Manav😳

Please Omana dont say sorry, just as i state my opinion you state yours 😃
This forum is meant for discussion and i am very sorry if my post sent any wrong message


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