Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
😆 They need to involve Savita even more now, as they started to do in the last episode.
Sharon Thats EXACTLY what they r doing . They will make Savita instrumental in getting Soham back for Archana . In short Savita will save Archana .
I will feel very sorry for the adopted parents . She fed him , clothed him , looked after him ...WHATEVER the case . Her abortion , her non adoption from orphanages r seperate issues . Motherly Type or not is also seperate issue . She DID look after soham ...and She LOVED him is the evidence .
for that matter What big Motherly Type is Archana who gives up her own babies right from first trimester .
I will not be able to bear look on Satish's face when Archana clings to baby .Its OH SO NOT FAIR .
So many LIVES will go thru emotional torture due to Archana . Always she takes such mahaan decisions without knowing repercussions of her actions .
Sharon , Always in cases where the real parents surface to take babies away from adopted parents who looked after them in true sense ...I side with adopted parents .
As Niks said ...JANAM DENEWAALE SE PAALNE WAALA BADA HOTA HAI .
Meaning ...More than one who gives birth , the one who REARS and LOOKS AFTER the child is more BIGGER as a person .
Varsha not being the motherly type will be argument advanced by many . To that I say in advance ...What big motherly type is Archana ?Neglected her own kid grossly in first pregnancy , gave it away in first trimester , Gave it Away after second pregnancy .
Both sisters r same . Today if archana is doing fantastic job with sachu , so is Varsha doing nice job with Soham .
If Varsha puts up a fight for Soham , I will be on her side . Satish and his house is WONDERFUL . Soham will be very happy there , if only archana stays OUT . And THAT shud be demand ...ARCHANA stay OUT .
I sound terrible na ? Thats the way I am😆😆
Kools,
Such a fantastic response. I agree with most of what you say. The reason why I say Varsha isn't motherly material, (and this is just guessing as we still don't know what actually led to Varsha getting Soham), is because it appears that she was not meant to have Soham permanently. The possessive way she has with Soham is not normal, and is not good for Soham, now or in the future. This doesn't indicate that she will, in years to come, when facing various situations, be able to make sound decisions, taking Soham's interest into acount. She will only make selfish decisions. Decisions that make HER happy.
In normal situations, I, too, would support the adoptive parents who have actually parented the child. Giving birth to a child and fathering a child does not make you a parent. Raising a child is what makes you become a parent. If the birth parent(s) return when it suits them, to reclaim their biological child, after the adoptive parent(s) have done all the hard work and become attached to the child, I would not support that.
However, the situation with Archana and Varsha is different. Varsha did not take Soham solely out of love and concern for him, supposing that Arman, for whatever reason, couldn't/wouldn/t care for him. Soham was not at risk with his biological family. We were made to believe that Manav, for sure, loved and wanted his child alot. Varsha wasn't doing Arman a favour, or Soham for that matter.
Kools, what you said re Varsha feeding and clothing Soham. That is true. However, she had to know that Soham wasn't really hers to keep and interact with, in this manner. She's assuming that because she has done all this (mind you, done with only her decision), she now believes she has all rights over Soham, and she alone should decide what happens to him? It's the same selfish approach she took re the abortion. She didn't even tell Satish, the father!!!!! Can you imagine if Archana were to do to Varsha, what Varsha is currently doing to Archana? No way would she care at all what happened to Archana!!! She is way to selfish, and doesn't learn from her mistakes!!!
I want Soham to be returned to his biological family. I believe Archana is appearing to be disinterested with Soham, or to not care about him, as this is her way to cope and stay sane, for not being able to be with her child.
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