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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: LovePRSoham

But I am all fine now and for my friend's sake will not mention anything about baby gifting as yet.. Will wait and watch 😛... awww,thanks Rachu 🤗

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Posted: 14 years ago
Rachna , I am liking Manav The reason is that he has achieved so much in the last 4 years ..He learned a lesson for his child's death .he did not let his baby's death go to waste .. His baby dying also klilled a part of him...
The reason he is what he is now is because of that horrible night ...
But saying that , I agree that he is overdoing it right now and a few phone calls can be made ..
when he had a fight with his wife then the next day she called ( being the person who started talking first ) then he should have at least returned her call after the meeting ...He didn't do tha tand that was very wrong of him ..
Even after knowing from Sachu that Archana is depressed , he stil ldid not bother to call her ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
For me one of the biggest flaw in Manav's character is his inability to strike a balance with relationships and other aspects in his life.Its always one extreme or another.This work and money obsessed Manav is emphasising that flaw as well.
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: shootingstar27

For me one of the biggest flaw in Manav's character is his inability to strike a balance with relationships and other aspects in his life.Its always one extreme or another.This work and money obsessed Manav is emphasising that flaw as well.

You guys may not like me saying this but I think mostly men are like that ...
Not all but they are like that ..The balancing act has to be done mostly by the woman in a relationship ...
speaking from personal experience ...😆
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Rachna , I am liking Manav The reason is that he has achieved so much in the last 4 years ..He learned a lesson for his child's death .he did not let his baby's death go to waste .. His baby dying also klilled a part of him...

The reason he is what he is now is because of that horrible night ...
But saying that , I agree that he is overdoing it right now and a few phone calls can be made ..
when he had a fight with his wife then the next day she called ( being the person who started talking first ) then he should have at least returned her call after the meeting ...He didn't do tha tand that was very wrong of him ..
Even after knowing from Sachu that Archana is depressed , he stil ldid not bother to call her ...

@bold this is what I am not liking in Manav now..
Rest everything is fine.. I am happy he is rich now and coz of his baby he learnt a lesson and busy making his wife and children's future secure... 👍🏼
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Posted: 14 years ago
I will tell you where I think Archana was right and where she was wrong ..
She was right in getting hurt that he did not return her phone call after the meeting was over even though they had a fight the previous night and she was the one who took the initiative to call him ...
She was wrong in not eating ..If he did not come till late night , then she should have called him and if he was not there then she should have just eaten instead of waiting for him..Obviously he is busy at work ..Why hurt yourself physically ...You have your own things to do which you cannot if you go without food ...Plus she should try and understand how bad he had to struggle all this time and now that he is enjoying his hard work and good fortune then this is a happy thing and she should try to be happy for him...
I am just trying to be fair andlook at the situation from both sides...
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Posted: 14 years ago
Hmm I dont know how to put it across Di... 😃.. I know Archana has to move on in life... Manav has moved on and he is happy... But we cant blame for being like this.. We have seen her and she is not a person who will do this.. Her only aim is to be with Manav... She has all simple desires in life... She loves to be with Manav and feeding him and eating with him makes her happy.. Manav is also responsible as he always encouraged her initially.. Now that he has changed he wants her to change which is not easy...
We dont know what happened in these 4 years so cant blame anyone.. May be Archana was happy initially as Manav was happy but now she cant bear the loneliness and her patience is questioning her... That is the reason she is trying to be a nagging wife 😕...
I am saying this as Aashna herself accepted the fact that Manav is ignoring Archana a lot..
What is the use of the money when his wife is not happy and so him 😕...
I am happy with this new Manav to some extent but not completely Di..
I liked the Human Manav than a Money Minting Machine Manav...
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Posted: 14 years ago
Archana will change eventually. She has no choice but to accept the changes. I hope she does that soon enough and does something substantial for herself .And not lose her basic nature . If people cannot appreciate it, its their loss.
She has not changed much yet. The day she hardens a bit, I will be very happy for her.
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Posted: 14 years ago
You are right Vishwap .Archana has to change now ..Tha tis somethign no one can stop ..Change is the only consistent thing in life ...
She has to realize that things have changed .Manav has changed ...
How can he be the same man .Look at all he had to go throug.He was the one begging people for money and carrying sacks ..Of course all this would change anyone ...
And Archana still expects him to find pleasure only with eating with her and hiugging her ...how can that be yaar ..
tha tman was always humiliated and crushed ...Now he has worked hard ,luck for once has favoured him and he is in a position to call the shots .. no one can insult him or his family...
I know he is wrong also that he doesn't call but I find Archana also wrong in not understanding the pain he went through..Because if she had understood his pain then she would not have questioned the change that she sees in him...
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Posted: 14 years ago
Remember that movie Mashal , where dalip Kumar is screaming all night and his wife dies and no one helps ...after that night , they show a man who had principles and was honest actually becomes some underworld guy ...
I know all that is filmy but what I am trying to say ...tht after going through what Manav did , how can he be expected to stay the same and find pleasure only in love ...
Archana has to become a little more practical ...
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