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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: shootingstar27

Agree with everythig you wrote here however I don't blame Manav entirely though.This is Manav's first white collar job, he doesn't know that Riya is acting inapporiately by asking him out for a movie, how would Manav know when his married superior,Aashna is very much involved in all his private affairs and has asked him out for lunch/dinner before.He probably thinks that is normal for superior and subordinate to hang out and be involved in each other's private matters.The justification he gave for Riya to Archana that she is new in town and has no friends felt like that to me.

Aashna is a friend to both Archana and Manav and when she and Manav went out to dinner it was work related, Riya on the other hand wants a date. It was highly inappropriate to ask that and for him to encourage her, especially since she lied to Archana about her reasons for calling.
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

Aashna is a friend to both Archana and Manav and when she and Manav went out to dinner it was work related, Riya on the other hand wants a date. It was highly inappropriate to ask that and for him to encourage her, especially since she lied to Archana about her reasons for calling.



Yes, mandy I can't say Aashna is a threat to ArMan's relationship, she indeed is a great friend to them, just the one problem is that she is interfering in ArMan's married life a bit too much. But Aashna is great compared to Riya. Why in the world would a secretary of a worker whom she knows for barely two days, ask for a date to the movie? Manav showed some foolishness and naivety today, he should have took Archana's words a little more seriously. Riya lied alright to Archana, straight lie she had told. It's good Archana has caught on that Riya is not good.

In a way I feel for Manav too, it's not his fault that Riya is tricking him and he doesn't know. While I do feel sorry for Manav, I think he should keep a distance from Riya and stay close to Archana and Aashna as a friend.
Edited by bhallarox - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago

Emotional atyachar!!

I must say Sulo is one ziddi lady. Reminded me of Archana during her ziddi times too. Complete carbon copy!!🥱 Archana couldn't convince Sulo n now she needs to lie for her too. Why should she b partner in Sulo's crime? Manav would b very hurt when he finds out that Archana hid the truth from him.😭

Oh the overzealous secretary is too good!! Asking Manav for films so boldly! Manav was defo got excited to see his wife J. Soon he'll b landing in a big soup. But i personally dont think the girl would b negative. She looks more stupid to me that evil. Dharmesh hired her to create rifts but i'm skeptic if it will work.

Looking forward to this track though. Archu will get a new funda in her life – spying on secretary rather than thinking about mom.😆😆

God Ashna!! This one worries me. She is in awe in front of ArMan. Hope she doesn't come to stay in the chawl till DK comes. The man is a no nonsense guy n sooner or later, he'll snapped.He already looked not quite please.

The phone calls were not enough .Once her hubby is out, she tapaks at Archana's place for dinner!! Now ArMan cant even eat alone too. She has refused to go to Singapore to help Manav in the project n to check on him at home too.

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: bhallarox

Yes, mandy I can't say Aashna is a threat to ArMan's relationship, she indeed is a great friend to them, just the one problem is that she is interfering in ArMan's married life a bit too much. But Aashna is great compared to Riya. Why in the world would a secretary of a worker whom she knows for barely two days, ask for a date to the movie? Manav showed some foolishness and naivety today, he should have took Archana's words a little more seriously. Riya lied alright to Archana, straight lie she had told. It's good Archana has caught on that Riya is not good.

What I dont understand is why would a boss's wife need to have so much involvement with subordinate or his wife. Normally we keep our personal and professional lives seperate. DK is keeping that distance but Aashna though she is nice is way too much involved in ArMan's life.
Its too close for comfort be it Ria the secretary or Aashna Boss's WIFI.
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Posted: 14 years ago
I totally agree Varsha Di, Aashna needs to maintain a distance from ArMan. See, while I know Aashna interferes too much in ArMan's life, she also kind of wants that love from DK too. But DK is very, very serious about work, and I mean over serious. He may as well give some time to his wife, I know he offered to take her to Singapore, but again that was basically for business.

Varsha Di, Riya (unlike Aashna) is delibarately interfering in ArMan's marriied life, so she can get Manav to hang out with her more. This is not a good sign
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Posted: 14 years ago
Varsha Di, do you fault Aashna more or DK in their family matters?
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: omshreejaanu

Emotional atyachar!!

I must say Sulo is one ziddi lady. Reminded me of Archana during her ziddi times too. Complete carbon copy!!🥱 Archana couldn't convince Sulo n now she needs to lie for her too. Why should she b partner in Sulo's crime? Manav would b very hurt when he finds out that Archana hid the truth from him.😭

Oh the overzealous secretary is too good!! Asking Manav for films so boldly! Manav was defo got excited to see his wife J. Soon he'll b landing in a big soup. But i personally dont think the girl would b negative. She looks more stupid to me that evil. Dharmesh hired her to create rifts but i'm skeptic if it will work.

Looking forward to this track though. Archu will get a new funda in her life ' spying on secretary rather than thinking about mom.😆😆

God Ashna!! This one worries me. She is in awe in front of ArMan. Hope she doesn't come to stay in the chawl till DK comes. The man is a no nonsense guy n sooner or later, he'll snapped.He already looked not quite please.

The phone calls were not enough .Once her hubby is out, she tapaks at Archana's place for dinner!! Now ArMan cant even eat alone too. She has refused to go to Singapore to help Manav in the project n to check on him at home too.

So true, I'd rather see Archana keeping a close eye on Riya than worry about her selfish mother.
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: omshreejaanu

Emotional atyachar!!

I must say Sulo is one ziddi lady. Reminded me of Archana during her ziddi times too. Complete carbon copy!!🥱 Archana couldn't convince Sulo n now she needs to lie for her too. Why should she b partner in Sulo's crime? Manav would b very hurt when he finds out that Archana hid the truth from him.😭

Oh the overzealous secretary is too good!! Asking Manav for films so boldly! Manav was defo got excited to see his wife J. Soon he'll b landing in a big soup. But i personally dont think the girl would b negative. She looks more stupid to me that evil. Dharmesh hired her to create rifts but i'm skeptic if it will work.

Looking forward to this track though. Archu will get a new funda in her life ' spying on secretary rather than thinking about mom.😆😆

God Ashna!! This one worries me. She is in awe in front of ArMan. Hope she doesn't come to stay in the chawl till DK comes. The man is a no nonsense guy n sooner or later, he'll snapped.He already looked not quite please.

The phone calls were not enough .Once her hubby is out, she tapaks at Archana's place for dinner!! Now ArMan cant even eat alone too. She has refused to go to Singapore to help Manav in the project n to check on him at home too.



Exactly omshreejaanu, right on Sulo is the ziddi lady, and Archana is backing up her mom on this. While I don't blame Archana for questioning Manav about this Riya situation, I also won't blame Manav if he lectures Archana on hiding the Sulochana truth from him. He has been worried all the time for her, and he treats Sulo like his own mother that he will probably not be able to concentrate on his work, and project, all because of the Sulo Archu duo😡 I will 👏 for Archana if she decides to go against her mother and tells her whole family exactly where Sulo is. But I don't think she will😡
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: bhallarox

Varsha Di, do you fault Aashna more or DK in their family matters?

Both. Bhalla 2 people make marriage. Make it or break it.
They both are on different pages when it comes to what they want out of life and no communication, time, love, romance or passion in their marriage.
Besides work what else do they have in common?? Nothing. No life of their own. He takes 5 steps with her for their so called walk and she is flipped with joy giving him too much credit for it.
They both should be doing something each other like. Discuss their wants and needs out of this marriage. If nothing there than move on and divorce na. Dont eye on other couple's marriage b/c she thinks it is an ideal one. ArMan has their own problems. no marriage is perfect IMHO.
Marriage = WIP Work In Progress.
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Both. Bhalla 2 people make marriage. Make it or break it.

They both are on different pages when it comes to what they want out of life and no communication, time, love, romance or passion in their marriage.
Besides work what else do they have in common?? Nothing. No life of their own. He takes 5 steps with him for their so called walk and she is flipped with joy giving him too much credit for it.
They both should be doing something each other like. Discuss their wants and needs out of this marriage. If nothing there than move on and divorce na. Dont eye on other couple's marriage b/c she thinks it is an ideal one. ArMan has their own problems. no marriage is perfect IMHO.
Marriage = WIP Work In Progress.



Very true, Varsha Di, Archana once asked Aashna if this was arranged marriage. I was shocked to know it was a love marriage. I'm not trying to say a love marriage has the couple getting along better, in fact it's likely the opposite, but yes Aashna and DK should discuss their wants and should express their feelings to each other about what they want to do for their futre, like having kids etc. Aashna and DK, as you said, are on different pages. Aashna lives very sad life, and decides to give more attention to ArMan then her own husband, while DK on the other hand has no time for Aashna and is all about his business.

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