Archana's fault

I believe it is Archana's fault. How can she forget to tell Manav such an important thing? I mean the CVs show that they live for other people. So how can she forget to mention about Varsha's abortion to Manav knowing that it can ruin Varsha's happiness forever. I agree with Varsha on this one. Plus, I hate the fact that Manav is saying, "tumhari koi galti nahi hai" How? Can anybody explain?

i totally agree with you...

Archana seems to be helping laymen rather than her own people...

simple; manav is archana's chamcha. even if she kills a person tommorow, he will say its not your fault... there is no other explaination.

i agree archu was careless,but manv was much mre foolish,he doesnt have brains or wat,d explantions he gave to adoption peple was varsha was career oriented so she aborted d baby.i was like...

i agree she should told manav

Its both Archana and Manav's fault! I was too thinking and feeling the same thing! But noticed that most people are supporting the leads here. But anywho, it was a VERY important fact and it is utterly shameful that it slipped from Archana's mind. It should have been the very first thing she told Manav about it! Aren't they husband and wives who discuss what and where they are going to be during the day, and the events that will be following after it? I understand that she just received the news of her becoming a mother, but it just seems, the way it is portrayed out is that she was sooo absorbed and lost in her own happiness that she didnt even once think of anything or anyone else! Even forgetting to mention this very important fact to her husband, whom she is with 24/7! She doesnt even do any job, if she did there could have been an excuse that after a long day's work she's tired and she forgot to say this thing. But in her case there is nooo excuse! She should feel bad and guilty!

If you guys put yourself in Varsha's shoes you would not blame her in feeling this way, this anger and everything. She had such high hopes and she wanted to rectify her mistake. If I were Manav I would feel ashamed of going up to Satish and asking him to tell his wife to behave! or even taking any help from Satish. I understand that it was Varsha's doing that brought her in this situation, but it was risky of them to tell the committee this fact about her abortion, anyone wld feel insecure and nervous! its like, you want everything to be just perfect and you do not want anything to go wrong, therefore you try to tread on the path carefully. True that she aborted her kid, but then again, what can anyone do about it.

The fault lies both sides, (Archana n Manav), (Satish and Varsha), for not openly communicating with each other, but you can't shy away from your actions. Archana should feel guilty and bad over it, but then again, she should not make herself sooo vulnerable! as to allow others' to take advantage over her and ask Varsha to take her baby! that is a BIG NO NO NO! it is not the solution to any problem! ughh. wish the writers wrote these stories a bit sensibly. The sequence of human emotions and actions are portrayed very realistically, but then again, these misunderstandings are just getting too old and stale to handle! Make it more realistic than just to pull the storyline.. excuse..

Its neither Archana, nor Manav's fault, every one knows Manav is sincere person, its Sathish's and Varsha's fault, why cant they tell Manav or either, why didn't they inform the adoption authority the truth before it came this way.

Why some people here are so hypocritical to bash constantly to Archana, she is trying to be good for every one, but at the end of the day every one bash on her.

manav-archana two dumb people.

Originally posted by: sherma

i agree archu was careless,but manv was much mre foolish,he doesnt have brains or wat,d explantions he gave to adoption peple was varsha was career oriented so she aborted d baby.i was like...

Totally agree. Archana made a big mistake in forgetting to tell manav to keep the abortion issue to himself, but Manav is dumbA$$ #1 for offering up this info to the adoption committee!! Umm hello, brain no worky again manav??? Any1 w/ som sense would think twice be4 sharing this. He said if like it was no big thing. I mean even if he was under the impression that they knew, y did he spell it out and go into details for them? A big fat DUH to u manav!!! Oof.

Varsha has a right to be angry, but who knows how long her secret would've been kept from the adoption agency. If they found out the truth later, it would have hurt more to have a child they've already taken home be returned to the orphanage.
All this time Varsha had no one to blame but herself for being childless, but now she's found an easier target for her frustration- arman. It certainly makes life easier to hold some1 other than yourself responsible for your misfortune.