Kools Commentary : March 22 PR - Page 5

I think TRP is falling simply because the storyline is boring and stale. Let me tell u why I think so.

First Vaishu: So she is a victim…how do they handle the storyline…they decide to hide her bigamous hubby…in a middle class family conscious of society they will still think of safeguarding her future and will complain to the police….nothing happened for so long regarding this issue. Instead Cvs are either going to show

Her marrying another guy which is a good option but don't think Cvs are thinking that way, or

Madhuri divorcing Dharmu and Vaishu going back to him. To me this is old PR- Arch, Manav shravani reinvented and in a new package….really do I want to see a repeat storyline? Not really 😡

What I could like to see was something drastic….like say Varshu getting really mad and murdering Dharmu…Unusual but not rare or unrealistic! And will be a fun watch😃

Now Varsha, the cvs will either show

Varsha getting baby from Vaishu – something doesn't interest me whay can't Vaishu raise the baby herself?😕

Or Divorce again old packaging for me😡

Or Surrogacy – nice concept and Audience can learn a lot if the Cvs do the right amount of research and will be a personal favorite, but I hardly think CVs will go that way, they will show Varsha crying and divorce either before or during surrogacy and will ruin the storyline for me?😡

I do agree with someone post her who pointed out rightly that Boys need a lot of guidance from wife…it is so true….boys are just different and after marriage a lot of time wives maintain the fine balance with the different relationship with its complexities…nothing wrong here…boys are just different from girls in dealing with relationships and can't do it at different levels ( nothing against men…men and women are fundamentally different and so is the nature of relationships). I do that a lot trying to maintain my sasural and have him do his duties….only thing I could advice Manav is to stop saying " Archu u are so good' or 'what could I have done without you etc.etc.' this part is very unrealistic. So, I think direction is very lousy right now….Cvs just can't handle complex issues that is all …..so in short I think TRP is suffering as the storyline is very weak….and the Cvs are topping it off with idiotic tracks

Originally posted by: Kalapi

I think TRP is falling simply because the storyline is boring and stale. Let me tell u why I think so.

Or Surrogacy ' nice concept and Audience can learn a lot if the Cvs do the right amount of research and will be a personal favorite, but I hardly think CVs will go that way, they will show Varsha crying and divorce either before or during surrogacy and will ruin the storyline for me?😡

Good post Kalapi...👏 Agree with you assessment on reasons for TRP to drop. What I am afraid of is future Surrogacy track & the way CVs will portray it...Satish will sleep with another woman that is what they consider surrogacy...Not by implanting an embryo from using Satis's sperm and Varshu's egg in another woman's uterus..CVs need to understand what true surrogacy is...Unless Satish is up for sleeping with another woman 😉

Loved the movie Dusri Dulhan for surrogacy topic but they totally screwed up the message..Sharmila, Victor and Shabana were superb...

I do agree with someone post her who pointed out rightly that Boys need a lot of guidance from wife'it is so true'.boys are just different and after marriage a lot of time wives maintain the fine balance with the different relationship with its complexities'nothing wrong here'boys are just different from girls in dealing with relationships and can't do it at different levels ( nothing against men'men and women are fundamentally different and so is the nature of relationships). I do that a lot trying to maintain my sasural and have him do his duties'.only thing I could advice Manav is to stop saying " Archu u are so good' or 'what could I have done without you etc.etc.' this part is very unrealistic. So, I think direction is very lousy right now'.Cvs just can't handle complex issues that is all '..so in short I think TRP is suffering as the storyline is very weak'.and the Cvs are topping it off with idiotic tracks

Great commentary Kools! Agree, Manav did all of this natak in the beginning just to make Savita leave her job. Even Ajit was wondering why did we bring so many people to the market? Satish was mighty good today. He was the voted Star of the Day by me, he is so kind despite how Varsha took a hasty step without him even knowing. Bhavna should not have been so demanding for a grandson, but I have 0 sympathy for Varsha. Bhavna was great that one day. Remember Kools, the one day Varsha told Bhavna Vaishu is now living at her maayka because Vaishu got into a fight with Dharmesh and knew his truth. Bhavna was right when she said the problem with you three K girls is that something happenes between you and your sasural and you just leave that is your 3 girls problem. She rocked! Archana: left D house because she could not stand Savita's hatred: Varsha: When she got slapped by Satish just zoomed off to maayka, and after she aborted her baby, expected her parents to invite her in, vaishu when she got into a small fight with Dharmesh. Not when she knew his truth, but the other day when Dharmesh told her he could leave her for his business. Remember his friends came over and the ladoo joke created by Vaishu? Vaishu just left Dharmesh and did a childish act by running off to her maternal place. These 3 girls make me wonder. I feel bad for Manohar Baba. Has to put off with one at least one daughter has to come, oh Varsha is ok but now Vaishu has come, soon we'll see Archu get into argument with Savita and she will run back to us? I will tell you, there has not been 1 full month with all the K sisters at their sasural. Always within a month one of them come. Vandu is great! Even after Ajit slapped her recently, she never ran back to Savita crying, this poor girl tolerates so much. And even when Rasika nearly burned her, and thankfully Savita to the rescue took Vandu home, Vandu clearly said, no I can go back. And her reasons for coming with Savita were she wanted to obey her mother, and 2. She was sure Ajit will pick her up to take her. How brave she is! The K sisters have way nicer mother in laws and husbands and yet they choose to run off to maayka. I will tell you, Vandu is 1,000 times braver then the K sisters. Manjusha is way worse than Vandu is, but even she doesn't just run off to her maayka just like that. I mean, Vinod and Varsha and Sulochana haven't been ANGELS to Manjisha. On that one, Varsha especially never gave her significance. Though Manju is not any better, she doesn't go to her maternal place. This is why I don't like these K sisters. Oh, and I'm going to do my update tomorrow Kools.😊

Though Manju is not any better, she doesn't go to her maternal place. This is why I don't like these K sisters .

Bhalla nice post..

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Bhalla nice post..

One thing I can add is not only Varsha, Vinod and Sulo but Archu also was not an angel to Manju...Archu has been consider to be the goody two shoe- best karanjkar daughter in the family...No matter how bad Manju may be she knows where her best interest lies..She might call Rassi and gossip but still lives with Ks and running their household right now while Vinod is jobless..We yet have not seen the same with Varshu, Archu or Vaishu...😳

Vandu is a very nice SIL to Archu...Varshu & Vaishu don't have SIL so nothing to worry..But Manju has teen deviyaan and sanskari MIL to deal with...Just think folks...Even Manju's life is not peaceful 😆

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

I wrote that abt men not being Socially Savvy...Not that they don't want to but it is just not in them..As u said men are wired and think differently than women..Vehvarik gyan kam hai...That is why women are the ones who handle social relationships and most men go along with it..Does not mean men has to keep saying my wife told me to do this 😳 Too much importance is being given to Miss Archu and all K family members by ULM..Some of them are the same people who not only insulted ULM but navaaza him with thappads too 😲😆

Yes u r right:) I meant that too...just maynot have come out that way, multitasking too much that is all:) so couldn't express well:)

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Manju has teen deviyaan and sanskari MIL to deal with...Just think folks...Even Manju's life is not peaceful 😆

Thanks for the commentary Kool. Manav is the best "receiver" in the whole world. He "receives" advice/suggestions and carries them out impeccably and does nothing more or less than the message received. In that way, he's more like a machine, I think. Wish he starts thinking on his own. That being said, I liked it that he heeded Damodar's advice and proceeded to "help" Savita in his bumbling way. Would have loved it if he had called his parents for the holi festivities first without prompting from Archana. He needs to start thinking for a change. Savita being overwhelmed on the first day of business is understandable---she doesnt know yet what she's gotten into, only the why. I hope she does understand and continues her food stall--that can only be healthy. No comments about the romance---I find very few romantic scenes made the right way-without being cliche' or making the viewer feel like an outsider watching a private moment. I'm more of a playful-romance kind of person😳 But romance is good--the couple has finally got some time to themselves without anyone sharing their small kholi. So they should make full use of this oppurtunity. Who knows when some relative is going to crash their "private" party 😆 About Manju being the sole breadwinner in K household---both Vinod and Vaishali need to start looking for work ASAP. That is a big household to be running on a single person's earning, especially when that person is so bitter about sharing their earnings. Like you said, what is Vinod doing daily if he's not working. Hope he is looking for work.

Finally, a lot of people have said in a lot of different ways their opinions on the Savita-manav issue, including me. Since that was the highlight of today's episode again, I'll finish with my comments on it. I will comment only on Manav and not anybody else, since Archana is not to blame in this situation and I can see myself in Manav's place, so I understand his position but cannot agree with his actions. My problem with Manav is that he's not trying sincerely to get back on good terms with his mother. I absolutely believe in independence and a person living his/her life the way they want. But one should make sure the important people in their lives are still a part of this independence. Basically, it's saying that "I will live my life the way I want to, I will make the decisions in my life, but you are important to me and I still want you to be a part of my life always" This is what Manav is not doing. He's living the life he wants-completely and absolutely the right thing to do. Maybe he does want his parents to be a part of this world he has created, but he's not making an effort to include them in his world. I will agree that he is making an effort when he continues to hound his mother daily, in person or over the phone, telling her to talk to him, that he wants her to be a part of his life with Archana. He should have done that from the moment he could have a private/semi-private conversation and he had a roof over his head--not when he was in in-laws place, but some time after he moved into his kholi. He should have called her daily, visited her as often as he could--not just when she's sick or when he meets her incidentally in a public place. He's not doing that. Once he does that, I will give him full credit for trying. Now I know that it may not be enough, that Savita may still not budge. But if Manav does make total effort on his part, I will give him full credit and advocate his side. The situation may not be resolved, but according to me, Manav will not be wrong if he makes complete effort. Savita will be wrong in being stubborn then. But right now, Manav is wrong for me since he's not trying enough to bridge the gap both mother and son have created. If Manav wants his mother to be a part of his life, he should make his best efforts to make it happen. If she continues to be stubborn, ignore her and move on with your life. If she needs your help and if you can/want to help her, do it and move away again.

If Manav doesnt want Savita in his life, again ignore her and move on with your life. If she needs your help and if you can/want to help her, do it and move away again. It's as simple as that.