Bhavna's obsessiveness about a POTA - Page 3

bhavana never forced varsha to leave the job ....... she was herself completely willing to take care of the baby
very few women get considerate MILs like that

there r some MILs who just dont want to take responsibilty of their grandchildren ...... they just want to put everything on bahus & relax


varsha just had to manage that 9 months ...... bhavana was always a loving person ...... she wud have taken complete care of that baby & even varsha's work

but varsha always wanted to dominate on others


left her home & parents also in a haste only


she is neither a good daughter ,,, nor a good saali ( remember how meanly she behaved with manav ) ,,,, nor a good wife & nor a good bahu
& she wud have been a horrible mother



& i cant understand 1 thing ..... she wanted success ,,, work & career na
now dooors r completely open for her

y doesnt she get out of satish's life & become a successful businesswoman


by staying back & that faltu ka rona dhona ..... she is spoiling satish & bhavana's life ....... & moreover her own life also ( afterall that is wat she always cared for )


if she gets out of satish's life everybody ... including her .... will get wat they want from life ..... & everybody will be happy


she is staying back & messing everything

Originally posted by: ..Sonii..

@ Varsha di, I agree your post on first page, I dont thing Bhavna aai's demand is gender specific ( be it pota or poti) she is open for all, just that it is said in that way....

Like in marathi, my grandma says naatu ( its not gender specific) there is no such word in hindi....( I can be ignorant abt that, open for correction)

Who knows with time, Varsha would be able to concieve again 😊

Originally posted by: prasad1991

bhavana never forced varsha to leave the job ....... she was herself completely willing to take care of the baby
very few women get considerate MILs like that

there r some MILs who just dont want to take responsibilty of their grandchildren ...... they just want to put everything on bahus & relax


varsha just had to manage that 9 months ...... bhavana was always a loving person ...... she wud have taken complete care of that baby & even varsha's work

but varsha always wanted to dominate on others


left her home & parents also in a haste only


she is neither a good daughter ,,, nor a good saali ( remember how meanly she behaved with manav ) ,,,, nor a good wife & nor a good bahu
& she wud have been a horrible mother



& i cant understand 1 thing ..... she wanted success ,,, work & career na
now dooors r completely open for her

y doesnt she get out of satish's life & become a successful businesswoman


by staying back & that faltu ka rona dhona ..... she is spoiling satish & bhavana's life ....... & moreover her own life also ( afterall that is wat she always cared for )


if she gets out of satish's life everybody ... including her .... will get wat they want from life ..... & everybody will be happy


she is staying back & messing everything

So does that mean that the only purpose of a marriage is to have babies? Her marriage to Satish has no other importance? I'm sorry... I don't agree with that...

To be honest, I think she really meant a Pota, not a Poti:-)) And anyway here all I am trying to say is that Bhavna's dominating, controlling behaviour was just not acceptable.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Darling I UNDERSTAND what ur trying to say . I REALLY do . . But what has happened is THIS . Viewers r FURIOUS with Varsha for snuffing out a human life on a whim . They r furious with Archu , Sulo and Satish for PAMPERING her post abortion and thinking of only HER feelings when clearly she was the HAVOC DOER and NOT the victim , She went SCOT free to this point . Now what has happened is this .........She is getting the IZZAT AARTI of her life by Bhavna who is NOT sympathetic to her POV . Viewers r beyond caring that what Bhavna did or the WAY she did is REASONABLE or no . They KNOW that she is OUT OF LINE but they DON"T CARE . U see , they are experiencing VIEWER Satisfaction . . Varsha getting GOOD is outweighing WHETHER Bhavna was RIGHT or WRONG in HOW she put her point across .

Originally posted by: ..Sonii..

I can understand your point.

No one is support of abortion, Varsha is the responsible for the situation created by her.

I see it this way, if bhavna aai wouldnt have forced her at that time to have a child and would have supported her job as preference this all wouldnt have happened.

Obviously after some months Varsha realized how much importance a child holds in a woman's life, she was willing eagerly to become mother. She was ignorant about this feeling and this came up with time, exactly this time must have been given to a girl to think about her life, she will definitely understand this.

But forcing her to have a child again and again had a negative impact and hence abortion.

The hiding part was done by both Satish and Varsha from Bhavna aai, both got enough of hammering for it, and they deserved this

But again started with pota pota jap????

I understand grandma has equal haq on grandson, but cant she wait for some time?

She would have shown concern for Varsha that she wont be mother again, this is also a big suffering in itself!!

All in all I just want to say that give time, pota's never pop out whenever we demand, they are not in their late 30's or early 40's to say that time is running out.

All are in equal pain, just support will take them through this tough time.....

Yes, I see your point:-) But Varsha did not really go scot free, she got punished and knows it. But just because someone did wrong does not mean someone else's meanness should be applauded, that is all

I think Bhavna's demand of Satish getting married again was made in anger. She immediately said that she did not mean that. It's not nice to say mean things in anger, but I guess the news came as a shock to her. Especially after she had already suffered disappointment when Varsha thoughtlessly aborted her first child.

Originally posted by: musica10

I think Bhavna's demand of Satish getting married again was made in anger. She immediately said that she did not mean that. It's not nice to say mean things in anger, but I guess the news came as a shock to her. Especially after she had already suffered disappointment when Varsha thoughtlessly aborted her first child.

A wife is not there just to reproduce and have children, that is true, but raising a family is still seen as one of the responsibilities of a married woman. Besides Varsha did not abort the baby because she was unprepared to be a mother. It was more so to spite Bhavna. She should not have taken her anger out on her baby and on such a loving and supportive husband.

Bhavna was a little pushy about the baby issue. There are a lot of mils who are like that. Typically in India, after a year of marriage, people start asking if there is any 'good news'.