is savita always wrong ?

people may think that she is such a selfish & mean mother in law
but in fact she is herself affected in so many ways ....

damodar --- the utter useless person of pr !!!
he takes no responsibilities of his house ... its only savita who cares for sacchu all the time .... all this person knows is to lick the sandals of karanjkars !!!
whenever karanjkars go against manav .... he just stands still & watches all the tamasha .... never says anything for his son's self-respect ..... its only savita who fights for manav's respect all the time .... damodar purposely keeps quiet always .... just to show how sweet he is & how quarrelsome his wife is .... he leaves no chance to portray his wife as a jhagdalu woman
when dharmesh insulted savita .... damodar further deteriorated her by calling her a tamasha creating woman .... there was madhuri also .... doesnt damodar have basic shame about how to protect his wife's ijjat in front of others .... all he knows is to protect his good image in front of others
a very bad father & the most bad husband
if 1 day vinod rapes vandita ... still damodar will lick a** of karanjkars
so in short savita has no support of her husband

vandita also hopeless
she is also among the ones who thinks that her vahini is literally a devi ..... this woman never cared about her second brother & his family ... like damodar she was also always biased about archna & looked shravani with contempt .... & now she is becoming a good bahu .... & she has completely forgotten that its bcoz of her saas that sachin died .... she has forgiven ajit ... thats fine .... ajit just set archana against manav .... so comparatively his mistakes are less
but rasika !!! .... bcoz of her & manjusha deshmukhs went to jail .... got beaten up ..... sachin died .... shravani's life got spoilt ....... but does vandita care about these things !!!
all she knows now is to make her own life happy
this woman has never cared about sacchu ..... look at archana ..... she loves punni & ruchi so much ..... & look at vandita ...... as an aatya or aunty she is utter pathetic

savita as shravani's supporter
i never found anything wrong in that .... any woman will have more soft corner for the bahu who has given u a pota or waaris ..... rather than a kulakshani bahu like archana ... who left her bhagwaan jaisa husband on the day of satyanarayan puja ..... the puja which is so damn important for newly married maharashtrian couples
bcoz of archana's 1 mistake deshmukhs had to suffer so much
archu mayb perfect as manv's wife ... but its shravani who had more right to be called as a deshmukh bahu
bahu ghar ki lakshmi .... the one who gives waaris to the house .... the 1 who cares for her husband even after his death .... shravani completed her responsibility towards sachin by giving birth to his child & then handing over to savita & in return her life got completely spoilt ..... she was not like varsha who aborted her child for ego & has destroyed all happiness of satish & bhavana



manav is also equally responsible
manav always in his efforts to become a perfect son in law has done injustices to savita directly or indirectly ..... which mother will like that her son is getting exploited by his sasuraal people ..... which mother will like to see her son always serving his sasuraal people ..... if sasuraal people r sweet & innocent then mayb its ok ..... but the K gang is full of makkaar & kaminas like sulochana , varsha , vaishali & vinod ........ these people do only two things ..... first they suck manav like a parasite & then like a rang badlu girgit they leave no chance of insulting him .... which mom will like this

don't hold your breadth for any answers from the creatives. Archana is the protagonist of this show, and however twisted her acts they will only be glorified in the end. That is how most indians think, and that is what they want to see.

Loved your views on Savita. She is the most real person in this full of dieties, show.

Originally posted by: serialmad

don't hold your breadth for any answers from the creatives. Archana is the protagonist of this show, and however twisted her acts they will only be glorified in the end. That is how most indians think, and that is what they want to see.

Loved your views on Savita. She is the most real person in this full of dieties, show.

I agree with some points made by prasad1991 and some points by bollywoodcrazed..
What I meant to say is that Savita is sometimes correct and sometimes wrong..

Yes I do agree with prasad1991 about Damo Baba.. I think Deshmukhs problems started coz of this guy..He is responsible for making Manav take responsibilities at a very young age and also Savita getting greedy as she did not see that happiness (in terms of money and jewellery)..

But she has a son Manav who has tried his best to make her happy.. But she always liked Sachin more than Manav in the initial episodes.. As far as I remember she never cared Manav as much as she did Sachin (Correct me if I am worng).

Coming to Vandita.. She is a person who always liked her family. She liked Archana and Shravani equally.. She started liking Archana more coz Archana saved her life and Supported her( Agree with bollywoodcrazed ) and fought against Rasika and Ajit.. Archana also took a slap for her sake.. Who will not like Archana for above and support her...Also she very well knows that her Dada's happiness lies in Archana a true Sister..

Yes I do agree with prasad1991 about Vandita for Sachu.. Atleast now she has to take care of him.. Savita Aai is alone taking care of him and she does not want Archana to touch Sachu as she is scared that Archana might take him also away for him..

Savita as Shravani's supporter - She initially supported her genuinely.. She was concerned about her and the baby.. But later on she did change and was only behind her money.. I totally agree with bollywoodcrazed on that.. Also if she liked and supported Shravani then she would not have taken the child from a mother.. Savita Aai is the best one to understand the loss of a son..

We also cant forget that Savita Aai was the one who poisoned Shravani mind against Archana and She becoming possessive about Manav.. Savita Aai was clearly greedy there..

Manav - Yes I agree with some things pointed by prasad1991.. Yes any mother would not like her son getting insulted.. But Manav was only trying to save his marriage.. Yes I agree he should not help K gang everytime single handedly and take their insults all the time..
But then again it is Manav's nature to help others and also not take any help from others.. So I dont want to blame him for that.. But yes I do agree that he should not take so much insults from them and give them back..

Archana - Yes she has done some grave mistakes.. I agree.. But I dont understand which girl will believe a husband of 15 or some odd days when she can see so strong proofs against him.. It was a arranged marriage for her.. She never knew Manav very well intially.. She was trying to understand and get adjusted to her new family where she could find a greedy mother in law, drunken father in law, a supportive brother in law but not working and a sweet sister in law and not to forget constant fights of her mother in law with the chawl ladies.. Yes it will be very difficult for any girl who has come from a family who is so supportive and caring..
Yes she would opt for believing her family's decision even when it came to going against her husband and family.. The proofs were showed in front of her family which clearly showed Manav as guilty.. She had no option but follow her family..

Manav and Archana - Yes they were selfish and foolish when they decided to divorce and the deciding to elope.. Even I dont blame Savita for her anger as she tried her best to save their marriage.. In this anger she asked both of them to leave her house.. I agree but she does not have any rights to burn her ( or try to ).. As bollywoodcrazed correctly said Savita Aai could not see Rasika Aai burning Vandit's hand.. How can she do the same thing to Archana.. She is wrong here..

Originally posted by: serialmad

@DivyaCutie: sorry if i annoyed you. didn't mean to. I have seen this with many of my relatives and friends moms. They love to watch their saas-bahu dramas. And that is why more and more channels, even if they begin the story at any point, eventually turn them into an inlaw drama. So as long as there is trp, there will be saas-bahu soaps.

Originally posted by: prasad1991

people may think that she is such a selfish & mean mother in law
but in fact she is herself affected in so many ways ....

damodar --- the utter useless person of pr !!!
he takes no responsibilities of his house ... its only savita who cares for sacchu all the time .... all this person knows is to lick the sandals of karanjkars !!!
whenever karanjkars go against manav .... he just stands still & watches all the tamasha .... never says anything for his son's self-respect ..... its only savita who fights for manav's respect all the time .... damodar purposely keeps quiet always .... just to show how sweet he is & how quarrelsome his wife is .... he leaves no chance to portray his wife as a jhagdalu woman
when dharmesh insulted savita .... damodar further deteriorated her by calling her a tamasha creating woman .... there was madhuri also .... doesnt damodar have basic shame about how to protect his wife's ijjat in front of others .... all he knows is to protect his good image in front of others
a very bad father & the most bad husband
if 1 day vinod rapes vandita ... still damodar will lick a** of karanjkars
so in short savita has no support of her husband

vandita also hopeless
she is also among the ones who thinks that her vahini is literally a devi ..... this woman never cared about her second brother & his family ... like damodar she was also always biased about archna & looked shravani with contempt .... & now she is becoming a good bahu .... & she has completely forgotten that its bcoz of her saas that sachin died .... she has forgiven ajit ... thats fine .... ajit just set archana against manav .... so comparatively his mistakes are less
but rasika !!! .... bcoz of her & manjusha deshmukhs went to jail .... got beaten up ..... sachin died .... shravani's life got spoilt ....... but does vandita care about these things !!!
all she knows now is to make her own life happy
this woman has never cared about sacchu ..... look at archana ..... she loves punni & ruchi so much ..... & look at vandita ...... as an aatya or aunty she is utter pathetic

savita as shravani's supporter
i never found anything wrong in that .... any woman will have more soft corner for the bahu who has given u a pota or waaris ..... rather than a kulakshani bahu like archana ... who left her bhagwaan jaisa husband on the day of satyanarayan puja ..... the puja which is so damn important for newly married maharashtrian couples
bcoz of archana's 1 mistake deshmukhs had to suffer so much
archu mayb perfect as manv's wife ... but its shravani who had more right to be called as a deshmukh bahu
bahu ghar ki lakshmi .... the one who gives waaris to the house .... the 1 who cares for her husband even after his death .... shravani completed her responsibility towards sachin by giving birth to his child & then handing over to savita & in return her life got completely spoilt ..... she was not like varsha who aborted her child for ego & has destroyed all happiness of satish & bhavana



manav is also equally responsible
manav always in his efforts to become a perfect son in law has done injustices to savita directly or indirectly ..... which mother will like that her son is getting exploited by his sasuraal people ..... which mother will like to see her son always serving his sasuraal people ..... if sasuraal people r sweet & innocent then mayb its ok ..... but the K gang is full of makkaar & kaminas like sulochana , varsha , vaishali & vinod ........ these people do only two things ..... first they suck manav like a parasite & then like a rang badlu girgit they leave no chance of insulting him .... which mom will like this

& y manav only has to take their responsibilities ..... first of all he doesnt have enough money .... still he somehow manages to help every1 ..... now if he tells satish to help the K gang .... i'm sure satish wont deny .... he is also so sweet & on top of that he being rich he can easily help also ...... but manav single handedly wants to do everything .... he doesnt involve only satish in any things .......... so that at the end of the day he can become very mahaan
manav should have basic sense that after sachin's death savita needs him more ....... but he is always busy in becoming an obedient damaad of the faltu K gang
in his constant efforts to become mahaan .... he has always crushed savita's dreams & expectations

& y manav always has to depend on archana's meherbaani ...... archana has to tell him to let savita do the inauguration ..... archana has to tell him to go & stay with savita ....... y cant manav think on his own about his mom
nowadays he is more busy thinking how will sulochana recover fast ........



& finally archana
well savita was wrong in beginning ..... but she was nowhere involved in armaan separation ....... she hadnt even touched archana & she got beaten up under the accuse of hitting her bahu ..... then her son died ..... after all she is a saas ..... how will she tolerate her bahu & her maayka waalas after all such consequences
if archana wudnt have left manav's home these things wudnt have happnd only
then when archana fell ..... savita did all her nursing ...... mean time she had started favouring archna & she went against shravani .... she wanted to stop armaan separation but archna became mahaan
& then after shravani's delivery ...... wen savita must have actually seen her sacchu's face .... held sacchu in her arms for the first time ..... ofcourse all her love for her grandson multiplied upto infinity ..... which grandmom wud like to get separated from her grandson when her own son is no more ...... & her support for shravani again increased bcoz she was the medium by which her sacchu was to stay with her ........ so was she wrong anywhere
she gave archna a chance ..... but archna made no use of it ..... & wen savita didnt want to see her face .... archana came to manav's mandap & ran away with him
archana is such a double standard woman & a hypocrite
manav is serving karanjkars & archana is letting manav do that ...... wen dharmesh insulted savita ... archu just stood still & watched ..... she didnt question back dharmesh ..... coz dharmesh will get angry & vaishu's probs will remain unsolved ...... so sister's problems were more important than saas's respect
vaishu is definitely more educated than archu ..... if archu could get a job y cant vaishu get a job & leave on her own ..... y has archana brought her as manav's responsibility
a woman who was very ghamandi about her riches .... who looked down manav with contempt for no reason ..... who called him chor ...... & now she is sucking manav like a parasite ....... wil any mom like savita like this
archana is not sending vaishu to sulochana bcoz of her health
& ther's nothing wrong if seen practically ...... archana is an "IDEAL" beti & "IDEAL" behen ..... she knows how to get the problems of her maayka people solved by hook or by crook ..... & her biggest saviour ( or u can even call 'bakra' ) in these eforts is manav !!!!




so in short ....... armaan have only invited savita's anger & wrath every time
& its only savita who loved her second son & his family ...... so how the hell should it bother so many people ???
y only archana shud get savita's acceptation
wen savita loved shravani & took care of her as her responsibility ..... what was wrong in that ????