Sulochana vs Savita - Page 2

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

bhallarox u made very intelligent observation. . manohar does not really agree to all the things sulochna does ..he DOES have his difference of opinuions with her on certain issues but publicly he supports her come what may like an ideal spouse shud . If u notice when Manohar selected Manav for a husband after a great deal of practical thought ........he in his mind had NOT agreed with Sulochnas insistence that I want only an ENGINEER for my ninth standard educated daughter , so he opted to hIDE things from her . But publicly its his policy to stand by his wife , come what may . . Its like Satish .Satish knows Varsha is wrong sometimes but he supports her in front of Bhavna . In my opinion Manohar and Satish are the best spouses in PR . During Varshas case when Sulo slapped her after abortion and told her she has no place in maayka Manohar had clearly told her I always support ur mom and even now I will support her as a spouse . . Damodar is SELFISH . He has his own agendas . Savita may be crass but Savita isnt wrong 90 percent of the time in her deductions of K family . Damodar wants to drink , to DEFY , so painting Savita blacker and blacker is to his advantage . Like a sly fox he manipulates her , ridicules her in public , makes HER a laughing stock so people dont notice HIS irresponsibilities .Then he slinks off to drink , chat , and in general has fun . He does love Manav .yes , but I feel Savita loves him a lot more . Damo never defends Manavs honor when he is publicly insulted by his sasural ........Savita defends him like a tigress . Damo merely watches indifferently and is CAREFUL not to spoil his individual image as GOOD SASUR with the Karanjkars . Forget supporting Savita in front of Sulochna , Damo doesnt even defend Manav in his public insults . There too he blames Savita . Varsha , Vaishu called him Chor , Manhoos whatnot , this man was cHUP ! . Even when Manav was put in jail , this man was laidback .Savita was running around begging Jai , the Karanjkars , everyone to leave Manav .Damodar NEVER gets involved in responsibilities . . Archana came just for 15 days mind u ......his exposure to her was so less coz he immediately went to a drama tour , but the way he statred Archna jap was unbelievable . Purposeful it seems sometimes . Seriously , what HAD Archna done for him ? NOTHING . Still the way he loves Archna OVER his Vandu .just like he loves Sulo over Savita at times seems IRONICAL . . His latest nonsense is NOT telling Dharmus SACHAAI as it will WRECK HUMAN LIVES .Arre what the hell , does that mean Vaishu shud live with a bigamist , a chor in human relations ? Even there he was reprimanding Savita. I tell u na .....most of the times Savita is RIGHT and he is wrong yet he has the gall to preach to her . She had told him Karanjkars r framing Manav when he was put in jail second time , but he DISBELIEVED her and made fun of her .Then Ajit came and told them that Savita was RIGHT , indeed the K damads were framing Manav . That time Damo didnt even go to fight with Ks and demand explanations .Conveniently he leaves ALL dirty work to Savita and enjoys like a Narad Muni . The next time he praises Sulo and criticises Savita someone shud tell him to go and MARRY Sulochana .

To koolsadhu1000 I like what you posted. Remember the day when Rasika came to the Deshmukhs to visit? Well, she was right when she told Savita that your husband is a useless man. Meaning he dosen't do anything for the house. Although considering what Damodar has done to his wife such as slapping abusing, locking her up in a room. That was mean! And considering that Savita actually DEFENDED him! One thing I have noticed is Damodar never agrees with one thing Savita has done. I agree Savita is a bit annoying at times but even when she is right like when she says that I won't let the Karanjkars do anything to my Manav. Damodar objected to that, meaning the Karanjkars can do whatever they want to his own son whether it's insulting him hitting him putting him in jail. He dosen't care! Now whenever his sweet daughter in law Archana gets abused by Savita, he has a problem with that. Who has he known for 25 years? And who has he known for 1-2 years? When Sachin died he didn't have any sympathy for Savita. Even if something happens to his Vandu he won't care. As long as his "Archana" is there he's perfect. Now today when Savita said whenever God gives her something good she refuses. She was right. Archan could've gotten what she wanted for free! But no, Damodar always has to praise his daughter in law against his own wife. If Dharmesh accuses Manav of doing a chori and he didn't even do and Damodar knows very well that Manav didn't do it, he lets Dharmesh babble what he wants to. Now when Savita wants to take revenge on Dharmesh by revealing his truth, Damodar won't let her. What type of injustice is taht? Please do reply koolsadhu.