Kool's Commentary : Feb 11 PR - Page 8

Originally posted by: --Hope--

BTW, I decided to actually watch the finger burning scene. it was nice and had a desired depth of newly wed intimacy for the few seconds it lasted. seems the standards of their romance are rising above the mediocre. good.

it actually was very fun to watch though it still seemed like sushant and ankita rather than archana and manav. I think the nature of the romance is where you notice that this is not manav romancing archana.

see manav is not supposed to be obviously playful but subtly daring if I read the character right. Remember that scene at the begining of their marriage when he held her hand chupke chupke while they were swinging the palki at the pooja in front of the entire colony adn she was so nervous because everyone was there but daring enought not to make it noticeable or remove her hand. or when he mouths out that the samosas were delicious so that the rest of the family sitting around him were unaware of his thoughts. (OMG there was a time that I could name the episode and the date it aired of any arman scene - well that was before shibu did the stupid divorce)

That was true husband wife intimacy (beyond sex) and it was subtly daring. Archu used to love the praise he gave her so willingly then because it was about special things she did for him (under cover of his family) and she used to blush alot when she received the praise. even though he is not with the D's anymore, you never see them having those brain melt moments that lovers do when they are with the K's and no melodrama is happening.

Originally posted by: --Hope--

I appreciate what you write because it is an honest and personal opinion and you do not glorify or accept the mediocre for the sake of pandering. Anyways, your opinion and the way you present it has my vote. 👍🏼😃 The day you start pandering and accepting the mediocre I will be very disappointed.Its difficult though . I found out that ultimately ur left alone with ur opinions ...all ur so called friends desert u . But I can never be dishonest for sake of friendship and stop voicing what i really feel , so it will be like this only Hope . The day I am forced to make Kool's commentary mild , I will simply quit .


BTW, I decided to actually watch the finger burning scene. it was nice and had a desired depth of newly wed intimacy for the few seconds it lasted. seems the standards of their romance are rising above the mediocre. good.

it actually was very fun to watch though it still seemed like sushant and ankita rather than archana and manav. I think the nature of the romance is where you notice that this is not manav romancing archana.

someone I did not envision archana and manav's romance to be in the same mischievous vein as I did sushant and ankita's.

see manav is not supposed to be obviously playful but subtly daring if I read the character right. Remember that scene at the begining of their marriage when he held her hand chupke chupke while they were swinging the palki at the pooja in front of the entire colony adn she was so nervous because everyone was there but daring enought not to make it noticeable or remove her hand. or when he mouths out that the samosas were delicious so that the rest of the family sitting around him were unaware of his thoughts. (OMG there was a time that I could name the episode and the date it aired of any arman scene - well that was before shibu did the stupid divorce)

That was true husband wife intimacy (beyond sex) and it was subtly daring. Archu used to love the praise he gave her so willingly then because it was about special things she did for him (under cover of his family) and she used to blush alot when she received the praise. even though he is not with the D's anymore, you never see them having those brain melt moments that lovers do when they are with the K's and no melodrama is happening.U know as I told someone .....I honestly try to see the CHEMISTRY between Manav and Archana [ its always Manav Archna for me . Never Sushant Ankita .Off screen romances and personal lives bore me . I like only the story and sometimes when there is a furore I get mildly curious about whats going on off sceen , but thats cursory . And I don't see the chemistry between ARMAN anymore . I saw it when they were getting engaged [ his attempts to put gajra in her hair or the bangle scene] i saw it during the 15 days of first marraige .........I saw it even when Manav went to her house to talk to her and she refused , I saw it when she shrunk away from him in the rickshaw . Post jailing when he told her he is marrying Shravani and when she went around telling chawl ladies ACCEPT SHRAVANi .......it ENDED . Exactly there it ENDED for me . It was never recaptured , ever . It was her action of totally denouncing her self respect as a woman in trying to get Manav's goodwill that the chemistry was killed . She became shameless , a beggar for his love and poof the chemistry was GONE . Had she shown immense control and shied away from him as a woman and a lover andYET helped him on an individual level perhaps that chemistry cud have picked off from where it left .

I don't see him praising her for say making a special dish or stitiching a button on his shirt or preparing his clothes before bath or something routine and simple that most wives do for their husbands day in and day on. but then again they never show archu do these things any more. I don't see her grihasti anymore just the K umbilical cord. the only indication that her grihasti exists and is stable is the constant dialogue of you are my sahara, i am your sahara, we are each other's sahara and pretty much puri duniya ka sahara. if these two ever get hit by a car, the puri duniya will not have a sahara. so they better get life insurance for themselves and get the puri duniya to pay for their premiums. what do you think mogga?😉😆
😃Mogga its very stupid . They are trying to show two demi gods in lower middle class society instead of two nice lower middle class people . If moving away from Savita for privacy means inviting the Karanjkars to wreck your privacy , the moving out has NO MEANING . The 15 day marraige in D home was more romantic , honestly . This Kholi and its moments r dULL . Its an adda for thrashing out her never ending maaika problems . Telling Archna u be the AAI of ur spoilt overgrown sisters who have experienced men , sex and babies much before her is a pathetic joke . How about telling her as a mother that I have noticed u getting over involved again , focus on YOURSELF and ur marraige for once .........they will manage their problems ? Varsha REALLY doesnt need Archana......she has SATISH .......a complete loving individual . Nor does Vaishu need Archana. She needs a lawyer and her father . Archana's eagerness to become a perpetual mother to her sisters SICKENS me . She shud feel shame for TILL NOW NOT BECOMING A REAL MOTHER , and mind u , she has been married TWICE . I wud like to see that urgency in her as a woman .the one Varsha has now . Instead she wants to play MAA MAA with two fully grown spoilt women .......Pah !!!!

Originally posted by: Polki_Zofi

Oh no, by that I don't mean infront of father in law 😆😆🤣! I tell you an interesting story 😆. After I came in India, I tried to be as close to everyone as I can. Infact, when I landed at the airport, I touched my mother in laws feet (which he didn't tell me, infact I learnt from the internet and gave it a shot 😉), he was surprised, but all of them were very happy.

But few days later, while another one of these Indian shows (rishta kya khelata hai) I went in to the room and quickly jumped on to the couch and took my feet up, then cushioned myself into my husband, keeping my head on his shoulder, holding his arm. At that point I noticed my father in law grumble a little 😛, my mother in law as still as a statue 😛, my sister in law smiling (trying to hold a big laugh 😃) and my husband almost breaking a sweat and also really not knowing what to do 😛. 😆😆😆 Tell me how would I know? This thing I didn't discover in net, neither did he warn me 😆! But later after that day, I sit with my sister in law, and keep my feet down 😊. I don't really display any affection infront of public, as I respect this custom in India and would like to keep it even.

Even previously back in Poland I would wear shorts in our flat, sometimes even less, but that is where my husband is around me. I never go out like it. I go out as a good wife should 😊. Many girls in Central or Eastern Europe are conservative (ofcourse with respect to European lifestyle).

What I mean by saying what I did in my earlier post is that Archana is also not an initiator (suggestive, or someone who would make her husband wish to touch her, to make him tempted 😉), perhaps displaying an Indian trait where the girl is shy even in private with her husband. Maybe I am wrong, but how will I know 😊? In "rishta kya khelata hai" also is the same story, so I guessed.

Oh yes and I really love many things in India, thank you so much Koolsadhu. You are someone who will keep me connected to this show in India, perhaps as long as it lasts, and as long as you continue this wonderful string of comments 😳👏

Originally posted by: ..Sonii..

Helping is different matter di,Archu would have helped even if somebody else was in Madhuri's place.

I feel Archu dont know abt this legal wife status ( archu doesn't understand silent mode language😆) The day she will come to know this truth, Archu will be the first one to stand besides Madhuri...

But if CV's are adamant to show Vaishu making up with Dharmesh, then no hope for Madhuri...

Originally posted by: ..Sonii..

I got it di, I dont say that Archu accusing Madhuri is right, but both girls should do the talking ( not the catty one) than Archu, keeping mute wont heal the solution

we usually dont see sisters interfering life, after marriage, but Archu gets involved with her sisters regardless they are grateful to her or not, this was archu from beginning, their life their padhai, their job..........

But now matter is more serious than what she thinks she can handle,therefore we say elderly persons have to be involved in this situation, they come up with better advices and practical too, I dont see why Sulo aai and Mano baba are unapproachable......

And so is Dharmesh's parents they are the best people for varsha to approach right now.

Varsha still has Satish standing besides her, but Vaishu's problem needs solution they cant prolong this anymore.

It is usually seen people take legal assistance as the last option here, but it can improve things most of the time, they are not always marriage breakers