I still cannot imagine a person like Dharmesh (strictly on the basis of his appearance) can be so much in demand. I still remember that when he first came to meet Vaishu, he mentioned that he had some problem in his horoscope and that was why all the girls were rejecting him. If he already had a wife and a son, why was he still hunting for proposals. Mind you, Madhuri is equally good looking and if his parents could accept a Maharashtrian girl as their DIL, they would have very well accepted a Punjabi DIL. The CVs have badly messed up this story. Whatever said and done, Dharmesh is not a handsome hunk that people would fall head over heels in love with him. Satish/Ajit/Jaywant having an affair is still acceptable because they are good looking.
And one more Q, where were Dharmesh's parents at the party. There was nothing to show that they were equally excited at the thought of being dada dadi ?