Originally posted by: goblue
Hey Kools,
I enjoyed your commentary but want to disagree on your support of Jaywant's behaviour. I wrote some of the following on the SOTD thread so just copy pasting here.
Jaywant was so egoistical, his down fall has begun. If my would be husband would have spoken to me like that (even if he was justified) I would have not tolerated it and broken the engagement. I give no one that right to demean me especially if I were to have a longer term relationship planned. Just not right.He does not have to tolerate Archana either, he wants to be in the relationship for his career benefits or now it is a ego issue for him. So for me both of them do not have honest reasons to be together and are equally at fault. Archana is caught in the egos of two men. I feel sad for her as she is just a means to their individual ends and I do not like women getting treated that way. A relationship has to be honest even when it is flawed, that's what I liked about Ajit -Vandu, Satish_Varshu. Archu is honest in this jay relationship, can Jay say the same?
Take care.. Anjali
Yes , but did Archu enter this for honest reasons ? She used this man to please Manav . She told this man categorically today I am in this marraige for Manav's sake . He initially accepted her inspite of her divorcee status , it was SHE who went to him asking him to marry her , He quietly witnessed all the stupid tamashas she pulled [calling Manav to the engagement etc] ...........Archu trampled his ego very very badly , there r no two ways about that . Who has demeaned whom Anjali ..........Archu demeaned Jay , Jay didnt demean Archu .He spoke up today after a long long time . It was long overdue .
Yes his mom went overboard in lying about the divorce , but Archu had no reason to call her a LIAR etc in front of his relatives . If Archu loves Manav sooo much watz she doing in Jays house , go , live with Manav then .
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