Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Some think Manav had Archus best interests at heart ...........he chose her secured future as against her personal happiness by forcing her to marry Jay . He did it coz he felt Jay is a good proposal for Archu .
Perhaps . But did he make enquiries about Jay on personal basis ?
Should Manav be making enquiries about Jay or any other boy that Archana's parents choose for her on personal basis? Jaywant works in a good position and handles factory work efficiently , comes across as a decent guy and Dhramesh holds him in high regards. People look only at job, status and personality when they look for suitable groom and from all angles Jaywant looks like a nice guy. Nobody can go inside a person's mind and find out what his motives.
We saw him getting affected by the swarthi word used by both moms in this show .
Whether it is Archus happiness or Archus secured future ....it has to be Archus decision .
Going to stay with Deshmukhs for 3 months and enduring abuse was Archana's decision, was it a right decision? Giving divorce to Manav was Archana's decision, was it a right decision? What makes you think Archana should be given more chance for deciding about her life when she is on the spree of making wrong decisions in her life?
Not Manavs . Manav didn't take initiative to get Archana married, he weighed in what everyone was saying and believed that its in Archana's best interest to get married. What secured future will Jay give Archu when financially she earns ,more than him So successful women who have good career and are financially independent don't get married? Do we need men only to get financial support from them? Secured future does not only mean financial security. Men/women need emotional security, companionship, children and thats why they enter matrimony. and its HE who intends to use her for climbing the ladder ?Neither Dharmesh nor Manav know about Jay's true intentions.
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