Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
A hypocrite is one who says something and behaves otherwise . One who hides his real intentions and professes something else .A hypocrite is also someone who has double standards and is not sincere. Shravani is clearly displaying a double standard here, she goes clandestinely to Archana's house to request her to make Manav quit his job and when it actually happens she displays displeasure and tries to blame it on Archana
Do we see Shravani ever bothering to hide her real intentions ? Her intention is to marry Manav at any cost ..............does Shravani hide it ? And Archana too does not have any secret intentions that she tried to hide, why is Archana labelled as hypocrite then?
She dislikes Archna intensely ...........does she hide it ?
Why did she then go to Archana's house and was apologetic to her and thanked her for taking care of Manav if she really disliked whatever Archana did for Manav ?
Does she try to hide her commonness , her pettiness , her selfishness ? She bluntly tells , Im not so mahaan like u , I am ordinary , I want Manav , Bas . Is this the behaviour of a hypocrite ?
If she is not trying to hide her selfishness then go to Manav directly and talk about moving to flat for Sachin's sake, why use Savita for that purpose. It's because she knows Manav has too much pride and she doesn't want to portray herself as selfish in front of Manav. Does she care for Manav's pride in the process....No.
She bluntly tells I will sink to lowest level too to fight for Manav ...........Main apna Haq CHEEN LOONGI . Is this hypocritical ?
It is hypocritical to make up mind like that and next day take an apologetic face to Archana with hidden agenda in her mind. Tell Archana that she is worried about Manav's safety while actually its her own insecurity thats bothering her and then even as Manav is fired to plant bug in Savita's ear that its coz of Archana when in fact she herself went to convince Archana.
If Ur pinpointing yesterdays episode to say Shravni too is a hypocrite ............Even there I did not find her bothering to hide her dislike for Archna . She bluntly told ............See ? This was what I was telling all along ...............this woman is trouble . We were at peace till she came along ...........now due to her Manav got physically harmed , lost his job , the subsequent financial loss may affect Sachin as Manav doesnt accept a penny from her Dad . In a way Archu is affecting Sachin too .
Her words made a point with Savita coz there was a grain of truth in it ....they were fine till Archna came along .That is the blunt truth .
Manav is slipping financialwise since Shravani came to his house, first his garage was shutdown( garage for which Archana had arranged loan for Manav), then he lost his case ( owing to illegal construction issue, a fact that Girishji was aware of) and had to look for work and where did he find the job? Do you think Satish cared for Manav if he was not Archana's ex-husband. Shravani was herself piqued that Manav hid it from her that he was working for Satish and Dharmesh, who are Archana's relatives.
Shravni did not hide her dislike of Archna. She used these facts cleverly to make her point . She knows that the bread shud be baked when the oven is hot .
Oh yeah, she will go to bake her bread even if someone's house is on fire, she doesn't care if someone's house is on fire as long as her bread is getting baked.
She is FUNDAMENTALLY not a hypocrite . She is UPFRONT about her emotions ..................her attitude always was ..............Put a Sock In ur Mahaanta Archna , I know ur real intentions , U want Manav and u will not give up ur emotional control over him .
Shravani did exactly same thing, using her emotional control over Savita by putting Sachu's card in front of Savita she is trying to create fear in Savita's mind to achieve her mission of marrying Manav.
Her straightforward talks yielded her nothing but hatred from Manav and his family who asked her insensitively ...Lekin usne tumhara kya bigada hai ?They actually wanted her to welcome the first wife's emotional control without any natural feeling on her part . So she decided now to change tactics and beat Archna at her own game .That means then she is becoming hypocrite too If she uses Ehsaan card , The PAVITRA RISHTA card to constantly keep in touch with Manav , Shravni used the Baby card to push her back . Ur calling it hypocrisy but I call it fighting back . Fundamentally Shravni was NOT hypocritical at all . Even now she cant disguise her dislike for Archna . Not hiding hate for Archana is not the only measuring scale for hypocrisy. There are other factors too. Like hearing Manav-Tarun's talk on terrace and going for abortion and then telling her father that she thought she was coming between ArMan. Asking Manav as gurudakshina after telling Manav to re-think his decision. Telling Manav again and again that she trusts him yet not trusting him and being suspicious of him. She wants to live life of luxury that her father can provide but Manav cannot and so using Sachin's name and luring Savita into convincing Manav to move to luxurious flat.
Archu on the other hand was constantly hypocritical . I will dIVORCE manav ...........did she ? In a real sense ?No , there she is , hanging around as a PAVITRA DOST , wanting the same emotional control over his heart that she once had as a wife .If she REALLY wanted Shravnis happiness she wud not even go near Manav . I don't remember Archana ever saying that she wants Shravani to be happy, that is something unachievable as far as Shravani is concerned. Archana and Manav are making sacrifice for Sachu.
Telling Dharmesh Im not showing u this Poverty Tour coz I want DAYA from u . Now if this isnt hypocrisy wat is it ?
Saying Im resigning coz I feel morally responsible but in reality doing it to see if it affects Dharmesh enough to give Manav his job back .
If Manav lost his job coz he fought for Archana, its only natural that Archana will fight to keep Manav on job. She felt morally responsible for Manav's trouble and she tried to make that point to Dharmesh by resigning, she had put her job at stake too. Its not like she hoped that she won't lose her job when she offered her resignation, if that was the case then Archana would be hypocritical.
