Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Arien ......We can argue till the cows come home How about arguing till weekend to pass time instead 😊
Archna has a very bad habit of poking her holy nose in other peoples decisions , convinced she is giving the right advice . The way she interfered in vinods decision(Well, Archana is the one who unveiled Manju real intentions behind keeping Sulochana in her house and Archana is the one who brought her mother back. If Vinod found out about it and is at cross with Manju, Archana has some role to play in it. She has always thought about Vinod's kids first. And being their aunt and Vinod's sister she has right to give some advice) , the way she interfered in her parents argumentargument (we all speak our mind in our own family matters, Archana is very much part of Karanjkar family) and backerd Sulo to go to Manju , the way she ran after Shravni and brought her back( from where? Manav was the one who brought Shravani back, Archana just led Manav to where Shravani was and to help find 8 mths pregnant woman with complicated pregnancy who is putting her life and baby's life at risk does not look like such a crime. ArMan had divorced for Shravani and so she would want to see to it that her Shravani gets married to Manav) and now the way she is telling Manav that its right to marry Shravni when clearly he is having great doubts if it is the right thing after all( well the sacrifice that Manav made involved Archana's life too and if they went ahead and divorced for Shravani and if Shravani is living in Manav's house with that promise that Manav is going to marry her then it seems really unsettling that Manav is having these doubts now and again Shravani will blame Archana for Manav's feeling. Archana will try to talk sense into Manav if he has cold feet now.)
The truth is .Vinod , Manav , Sulo ..........all need to take their own decisions , its their life . Archna tries to take decisions for everyone . She shud learn to let it be .
Really?I thought people have been taking decision about Archana's life- immediately after marriage Sulochana took decision not to send Archana with Manav, after Satyanarayan pooja again Sulochana takes decision, after that Savita takes decision of intiating divorce, after that Manav takes decision that Archana cannot come back and has to divorce, Manju takes decision to get Archana married to Satish..... Archana is not making decision she just gives her opinion and people listen to her coz they think its right opinion.
What she needs to do is explore her heart and follow her instincts .Although late , Manav is doing that .Archna is still NOT . In trying to be over good and implementing her over goodness in each ones life she constantly unconsciously LIES and becomes hypocritical . Shravni straight away goes after what she wants , she knows what she wants .
I am confused now. Do you want Archana to get back with Manav now after promising Shravani over and over again and after divorcing Manav. I thought your sympathies are with Shravani. If ArMan now get back and dump Shravani at this point then clearly everyone will have sympathy with Shravani and ArMan will look like characterless people.
