Hi KoolDi - Am starting to wonder what jaadu choo has done on u that u actually think she deserves Manav??U r getting obssessed with her now !
I agree with u on all the Archu bashing,what she did was ekdam bakhwas for herself.But Shrav getting Manav is one thing but saying she deserves Manav is another,and that aint gelling with the crowd really
Why is it that a female who has a child 'deserves' a husband at any cost to anybody????
THose who choose to love don't deserve to be together more?
This story is not abt baby,it is abt getting a guy for self-aggrandization at any cost,
and there is no masumiyat in choo involved here.So,why expect Archu to stay away?
Does Manav deserve Archu -80% no,20% yes -why,bcoz she loves him.So with some repentance and effort he can deserve her too
Does Archu deserve Manav - 80% no,20% yes - why,bcoz he loves her and misses her and remembers her and hey,that Archu sensing antennae of his still perks up and starts buzzing when she or her house is in the 1 mile radius,whether it is when face to face(like when showing Sachu's pic to her and she came close) or even when not face-to-face(this is the supposed kismet connection between them,like at that bus stop).And Manav in case he ever feels it,it is only for Archu,despite his annoying frigidity -so,when Archu is ready to become mango girl,she can deserve him
Does Shrav deserve Manav - 100% NO - may be she wud get him due to the excruciating circumstance but she does not deserve Bcoz Manav does not love her.PERIOD.He is neither taking her on romantic walks or holding hands or going into eye-locks,come whatmay.He is civil to her thatz all.He is NOT content,he is not crying out openly,but he is lonely and lovelost,he told Tarun that.Guys dont acknowledge even GF in front of colleagues,it aint new if he did that with Archu at Vaishu's wedding,
Basically choo and manav's relationship has NOT progressed and will not,bcoz Manav does love Archu deeply.Whatever he shows Shrav is definitely not love.Its actually raw fear.And of course,he wants Sachin in the house,thatz all.
manchoo relationship is fast becoming the desi tv version of promo for 'sleeping with the enemy',sadly.
And whatz this abt Manav's word,manav's promise,hez gotto keep it now???I say the circumstance has changed,he was like a widower but his loving wife came back from the dead,he loves her,so why shud previous circumstances matter?
He is afraid to break the promise,but in case he does,it is not wrong either.
Girish,after Shrav and Sachin's sagaai,said 'Shaadi cancel' when Sachin dint get a US visa(of all things !).Is'nt that a broken Promise,more towards God actually?He and Shrav were responsible for Sachin's accident too then.
Kya muh lekey woh Manav sey Harishchandra banney ko bol rahaa hai. He actually told Archu subtly to get lost knowing Manav wanted her still.Shrav told in her uncouth style of screeching thatz all.Insecurity is no justification for pettiness and spite,for the insults Shrav gave Archu,even called her the W word.She is no better than Savita then,worse actually.Archu is plain dumb but Shrav is cheap,spiteful,petty,more than selfish - and she wud be so in every challenging circumstance coz that is her character.
It is nothing to appreciate,let alone to give it an excuse.The baby is born,been a year,D house taking care of choo and baby,Why the need to be married to Manav now when all badnaami risks are past, and when he still does not love her??
Even after Savita explained to Shrav that Archu is his love and Shrav just a zimmedari,Shrav wud not accept it - that is called an ego problem,and nothing else.
When finally MAnav told her the same thing,albeit harshly,what did she do? A half-hearted letter and running away saying I will take care of me and my baby-as if she was some orphan while having a doting rich father !She was doing emotional blackmail and nothing else
I have loved Varsha but criticised her strongly in her behaviour with Bhavna and currently I see Archu glorified and Shravni bashed for some pretty normal things that I personally dont believe in.
So saying I am obssesed by Shravni is wrong . People had started a Shravni hate club ...........I never get this involved in characters to fall in love with them or hate them . I enjoy the story . Neither do I join Hate clubs nor do I join Fan clubs .they r rampant on the forum .
If you cannot understand my POV .........lets agree to disagree . But Kindly do not say I am obsessed with Shravni or what jadoo she has done on me .Im not a teenager to be smitten by characters and Whatever I post , I post with my own thinking or appreciation of the serial .
My opinions are not necessarily popular opinion . And Popular opinion is NOt necessarily a fair opinion all the time .Sometimes Leads r so goodlooking and have such wonderful chemistry that People care a damn about the fairness or unfairness part to other characters , all they want is leads to be together .
Sometimes Popular opinion is fair too ..it all depends on the breeze that is blowing .
I have seen a lot of unfair Shravni bashing , which I dont agree with . And I post what I feel is only fair from MY POV which need not necessarily be anyone else's . There is no hard and fast rule that everyone shud LOVE all Archnas sacrifices and want them back at ANY cost . Some may have totally ALAG views .
I will not explain myself again on this issue . That day too u posted that lets Close this thread on my second lead demand thread saying ARMAN R popular etc but what u did not notice was many posted after that that we do want a second lead . So u see I was NOT the only one .
My point is ...........many have different opinions , so please dont expect their opinions will change and be like yours or that they are 'obsessed' . Simply respect them .
My posts are not to change opinions of others but for CVs to notice and make changes .And They DID . Many can vouch for that .
No hard feelings , ok Saffy ?😊 But I had to speak my mind ...........coz I dont want others to misunderstand either .I dont go to tell others to stop being fans of Archu or Manav and I see no reason why others shud make thse demands of me .😊