Originally posted by: star_wars
We reward people that excel so why should Shravani be flogged, she should get her trophy (Manav) Why the delay, I have no idea.
Should we go down the road of madly in love characters. I wish not to as Shravani's falling in love with Manav is well renowned but I guess hers is normal.. We have reached a dead end and I respect most of your posts.
Thank u dear , I do know for a fact that u like many of my posts ....u press the like button , I have seen it . I guess we have reached a dead end of sorts but I wud like to make myself a little clearer , see if u can understand my POV ........or u can just leave it and agree to disagree.
I personally disapprove of premarital sex and abortion both on a religious level . However I am not a prude and I dont judge others if they do this....I am no one to judge . Its their life is my opinion .
That said , Inspite of disapproving of it , if these mistakes happen by youths , I dont feel they shud be left to face the consequences ruthlessly by parents or society . Coz these youths r inexperienced and now they will be bringing a child in the world and if they handle the child all wrong due to sheer inexperience , an entire life is destroyed .But if society steps in at the right time to help , the chils life can be resurrected , saved . Illegitimacy is NOT the childs fault .
If youthful women r left alone with their pre marital pregnancy saying , u did na , now u suffer ........these things can happen
Due to inexperience , no guidance , they may eat , drink , do things that may harm foetus
They may sink in depression , take drugs etc which may harm child
They may attempt suicide
They may attempt abortion .............medically it may be a choice but on a religious level its far greater a sin than pre marital sex even as it is snuffing out a life
So I liked it that Deshmukhs gave Shravni support . She had no mother , her bf died tragically .How much shud she pay for her youthful mistake ? Shud she pay for it by killing her child so she can live a life according to society's expectations of her ?
Shravni did NOt make Archu Manav divorce ...their marraige was already in the doldrums .
Shravni tried to abort the baby although it was dangerous for her life but Archu manav stopped her
Shravni accepted this solution from a practical pov but later fell in love with Manav which was held against her . I dont know about others but I agree with sid who says it is a myth that we fall in love only once .We can fall in love again . Archna barely knew Manav for 15 days , Shravnis association with him is much longer .She grew up playing near him , later he became her saviour in her hour of need ,If what she had with Sachin was an infatuaation or crush , it evaporated as she observed Manav , his decency , and totally fell for her saviour . I find this normal , very normal . These things happen in real life . What does NOT happen is an association of just 15 days turns into a Mere Bhagwan kinda relationship .
Shravni disliked Archna rushing over to meddle in each thing of hers and Manavs . Again , her reaction was normal and common as jealousy is a common feeling .
Manav told her I dont love u I love Archu but Shravnis love for Manav did NOt go away .Normal and common again . Just coz Manav does not love her doesnt mean HER feelings will go away .
Shravni was however NOT bitchy like Manju to Manavs family . She was rather nice to them .,She was not snobbish she lived in the chawl , cooked , is now travelling by trains , respected Savita much more than Varsha respected Bhavna. Damodar was against her and openly favored Archu but Shravni didnt mind that and was ok with him . All she cud not stand was Archu as she knew that on a womanly level she cud nEVER measure upto Archus mahaanta.
sHravni never minded Sachins insurance money being squandered on Vandus trousseau by Manavs foolish family .She truly isnt bitchy like Mannju .
Practical marraiges not exactly done for love r solutions accepted by women all over the world. Not working inspite of having US education due to difficult pregnancy and babys delivery , later bringing up of baby is quite understandable. I cannot hold this against Shravni .But inspite of giving up education at young age when I see Archu tossing opprtunity aside just for Manavs sake each time when he is giving no commitment to her , I feel more zapped .
Today all r saying she shud live with Girish this that .She has no mom , no experience in bringing baby up , Deshmukhs love the baby . Why shudnt she take their help ? Women all over the world do , even with second and third pregnancies . She is living with them ...as u saw she cannot even hold the baby so correctly .Savita and Manav r helping her and she is ok with it . It is a happy arrangement in which they have put Sachins death behind and r setting a new life .
Archu gave up everthing coz Manav was her weakness and What Manav wants that Manav shall get , Ill do anything for Manavs happinesss was Archus behaviour . And Manav , her Bhagwan , wanted the baby [ not shravni] .
So Archu moved aside and respected this arrangement .
So far so good .But now why this re association with Manav ?I have Haq of knowing truth etc ........Lady u lost ALL Haqs when u signed on divorce paper .Now dont look that way , move on . The man has moved on .
Deluding urself that HIS family is in reality URS wont be looked on kindly by his fiancee ,. Coz although not married , Shravni at least is his fiancee , UR nothing !Ur a divorced woman who has been told to stay away by his fiancee many times . Either u shud have fought for him before divorce and refused him divorce or .........divorce him and just leave him .
This is my POV .😊
