Originally posted by: stillhopeful
Ok guys,
BE PREPARED FOR THE LONGEST POST OF MY LIFE
For starters this is what I thought of the show.
Today I want to ask people on this forum (and I know they will never accept) to change the name from SaSha to "SENSE AND SENSIBILITY."
Tanyadi, I change my nomination.
In my opinion, Satish has gone from being STAR OF DAY to STAR OF SHOW. (I mean entire show). Even if my darling Manav gets bolder, this crowning glory moment of Satish will never ever be forgotten by me.
So I will start of with my thoughts on my darling Satish
When I watched the start of the show I fell in love with him, by the time I saw the ending I respected the guy, admired him and then adored him. Hell, I wanted to nominate him for the Nobel Peace Prize.
In my line of work i.e. negotiations and consultations, the most basic skill that you have to learn is called "ACTIVE LISTENING" It is a professional communication technique that sounds very simplistic but is the most difficult thing to do. It takes a lot of practice as most people who are in my line of work tend to be overconfident and opinionated (sounds familiar ok this is me being self-mocking) and therefore cannot listen without debating or contradicting. It took me a few weeks to even start to utilize this skill naturally. Well some people are born with this. Thank God Satish is one of them. Interesting knowing about your work
He listened patiently, thoughtfully and did not say a word till the very end.
When he was speaking to Varsha, did not stand over her. He got down to her level. That builds trust in someone that is vulnerable and invites confidences from such a person. This is a useful technique they use in distress counselling.And thats what will make her go bonkers over him ..........the not standing tall over her . U know what i felt ?For the first time ......no chauvinism , YET every inch a MAN .
Lastly, he when he supported her and asked her if she believed that he truly meant it and wanted to stay, HE LOOKED AT HER - NOT AT HIS MOM ' NOT AT THE CEILING OR THE FLOOR. This is another valuable communication technique used in counselling. Muvaa to him for that moment .
This man should get out of the brokerage business and go into counselling or therapy. He is amazing.
I would take this guy on my team anyday. Wow. Just Wow. I am so pleased I will not be posting on Zee Discussion Board or anything like that today. Ekta, you get one day respite for being a good girl.
Ok now that that lecture is over, for the fun part.
My observations today:
DUMBEST COMMENTS OF ENTIRE EPI:
Sulo aai tells Varsha " Bappa will take care of you" ' OMG Manav looked at her incredulously. He was thinking Aai why are you giving her this failed formula. Arre I believed you when you told me this but seriously, we all know that Bappa is not the solution in PR. Tell her to trust her husband. Did you learn NOTHING from my upcoming divorce? OKAY READ MY LIPS ' TELL YOUR DAUGHTERS TO TRUST THEIR HUSBANDS NOT BAPPA BECAUSE THEY ARE MARRIED TO THEIR HUSBANDS NOT BAPPA. Hope , the weaklings , when they have NOTHING , take refuge in BAPPA. Instead of using their BRAINS which Bappa gave them they use him as a buffer .
Manohar baba tells BA " You are intelligent, you will make the right decision - OMG Stupid Stupid Man. Can you not see that this woman has already acted as Judge and Jury against your daughter. She has insulted your daughter, your SIL who you consider a son (please let us all not forget the 3 lakhs and the serving of sherbet) and of course your wife. Again, your advice should be - Tell her to trust her husband. An impartial party. Don't place your trust on the most biased person in the room. Buddha satya gaya hai, kya kare? His wife, three daughters and Manju have sucked all the grey cells out of this man with their constant schemes and drama. Poor Poor dude. It came across to me as pathetic fright , and wanting to please and butter up the boys mom so that their daughter cud stay there . The boys mom was being downright unfair , not even HEARING them out .........so many people against one man's word . The least she cud do was HEAR them out civilly and coldly .The way of the Karanjkars is weak .........placating wrong persons like Manju , Bhavna and Rasika and Ajit.
MOST CLEVER COMMENT IN ENTIRE EPI:
All Satish's comments to Varsha
Urmila's support of her sleazeball. Guys when I saw her telling him c'mon Ashu., it hit me like a bolt of lightning. ZAP, ZAP, ZAP ' THAT'S WHERE THE PANTS IN THE FAMILY ARE. Wow she is not as coy as she looks. Good for you Urmila. Ashwin, you suave suave harami, who even I find very very interesting (shameless that I am) you are going to get the biggest boot of your life. This woman is going to drag your butt naked to divorce court and then take you for every penny that you have and when you are kangal, you no longer be so suave (or we hope desperately) and then you will no longer be attractive to women. Wow Mission Accomplished.I wonder .I agree she seems tough but Ashwin is BAD . I wont be surprised he will turn as ugly as Ajit if it comes to that point .
MY FUNNIEST THOUGHTS ABOUT PR TODAY WHERE ALL ABOUT ARMAN:
Thought 1 - Godhbarai
Guys, Godhbarai is coming up and it will be a bigger CRY FEST than Varsha's biddai. I guess all of next week will be this one event only.
I don't know if I can take it. Imagine in manav's dream only 4 people were crying. after godhbhari, these four people will be accompanied by all karanjkars', all chawl people.
Hell even the dhoban, the tarkari wala, the dudhwala and any other vendors in the neighbourhood will cry. they might even have Thane bundh that day. police will need to be called for mob control. Archu will become like Amitabh in the picture Sarkar (my fav by the way!!!) Only happy people will be the rickshawalas and the community lawyers that will be taking on the divorce, as business will be thriving.😆😆😆😆😆😆
Thought 2 - Manav Sulo Hug
Guys when I saw Manav hugging Sulo I felt so bad for HIM. He gave her the biggest bear hug he could. HE NEEDED IT GUYS. He really need this hug. You see guys, Shravani has only given him permission to hug aunties and vandu. all other woman are off limits. defo archu Poor Manv.
But you see, whenever you get all supportive of an emotional woman, you have to prepared for the consequences. She will not only lean on you for support BUT WILL ALSO SEEK COUNSEL. Ahah. THERE THERE IS WHERE MANAV'S PROBLEM BEGINS. Arre he cannot fix his own problems how can he fix Sulo's (especially when HE IS ALSO ONE OF SULO'S PROBLEMS ' IT IS CONFLICT OF INTEREST GUYS, TOTAL CONFLICT). Anyways, I laughed so much when I saw the hug. He did not know how to comfort her so he turned to his BEST FRIEND AND HELPER, OUR DARLING ARCHU. She tried poor thing but she has her own problems. Well, guess what he picked the wrong person for passing the parcel, so the PARCEL CAME BACK. Then he was careful NOT TO GIVE A HUG. He was so afraid that if he did SHE MIGHT NEVER LET GO. Poor Manav he already has two women hugging him all the time, how I ASK YOU HOW, can he even think of taking on another. Guys, he almost peed his pants in gratitude when a much more experienced and older male, his FIL stepped in to counsel and calm the inconsolable woman. He was so grateful he would have borrowed another 3 lakhs at that moment and thrown it at his FIL. All as gifts. NO INTEREST NO LOAN. Manav, learnt an important lesson today when a woman cries, drop whatever you are doing and run in the opposite direction. Do not hesitate for even a second and do not turn back. 😆😆😆😆Third hug of a woman .Wow , Manav is a MAGNET .
PS: I almost jumped out of chair in total shock when I heard Manav raise his voice while defending Varhsu to BA. I thought OMG maybe I should restart this video I think they put on a different show update not PR. Then I realized Savita gave him temporary license to speak.😆 It didnt have much effect anyway ....Ekta does not like Sushant Rajput for sure .
OK I think I have said enough for now. I will stop.
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