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gaurimisha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#21

No,he is not supposed to love archana.

As a father if ur child doesnt listen to ur advice and doesnt study for her exams,should u go ahead and bribe the teacher to give her marks...his actions meant somewhat this way to me,but only as far as asking archana out is concerned.He wasnt able to persuade shravani to save her honour ,so he resorted to hammer on manav's conscience...using his so-called saintly goodness to save his daughter's honour.

Archu is indeed clinging on.She's being selfish and I ,for once, feel this is the only action where she has shown her human side...much though I dont appreciate it

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Arien_03

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Posted: 15 years ago

#22

@ Kool

A minor correction. Decision to bring baby in the world was solely Shravani's decision. She was not ready for abortion and wanted to have baby at any cost.

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: gaurimisha
No,he is not supposed to love archana.

As a father if ur child doesnt listen to ur advice and doesnt study for her exams,should u go ahead and bribe the teacher to give her marks...his actions meant somewhat this way to me,but only as far as asking archana out is concerned.

Archu is indeed clinging on.She's being selfish and I ,for once, feel this is the only action where she has shown her human side...much though I dont appreciate it

Yes she is being selfish on an unconscious level . I dont know how many others in the forum are gonna hate me for saying this but I felt very sorry for sHravni sobbing like that and unsympathetic to Manav Archu for reducing her to this .

Both Manav Archu have been liars and unfair to her .

They lied about their real feelings , went on this big Insaaniyat crap spree and constantly appeared as a couple in front of her .

She constantly sensed that they r both talking one thing but actually feeling sumthing diffrent .

This Manav , he is to this date not going back on commitment , so what the hell is Archu doing .....Yaadein bator rahi hoon thing so it seems she can live life ? What life ?Ur marraige isnt even consummated and ur this clingy ?

Even Shravani is clinging .She did not go with Girish , she is clinging .But i yesterday when she said , to hell with u , this house and ur face constantly hovering in this house , Im going out for a walk ..........it was first step for walking out .

When she decides to walk out with baby , these DEshmukhs including Manav will run after her saying Sachins nishaani Sachins nishaani . Just see .At that point all this Archus goodness wont count at all .

SAvita deserved reprimands from Girish . She has dominated Sulochna too much . She desrves occasional pinches from her sanmdhis like Rasika and Girish . She also desrves Shravni , so does Manav .

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gaurimisha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#24

Agree with Arien.

Decision to bring the child was solely shravani's...Manav wanted to provide support to her so that she doesnt have to suffer by taking this decision.He sort of was trying to protect her,save her honour and shield her n her child from social taunts.

Had she wanted an abortion,Manav wudnt have stopped her.

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: Arien_03
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A minor correction. Decision to bring baby in the world was solely Shravani's decision. She was not ready for abortion and wanted to have baby at any cost.

Decision to bring baby was her decision .......but who told Manav to step in , 'feeling responsible for Sachin ' and promise her help ? Did not that encourage her to go ahead and take the step of bringing the baby in the world ? His encouragement and promise of support , and also his constant assurance to her that Archu is no big deal in my life anymore is a BIG contribution in this PB coming in the world .

Had Manav remained silent at tht point , saying Im sorry , Im burnt out with my divorce I cannot do anything ..........who knows if Shravni wud have come around and aborted the baby or not ? Anyways that wud be her problem and her Dads problem . Manav wud be free of any guilt , any responsibility . As it happens , due to the promise that he gave , he is equally responsible today for the safe arrival of the PB .

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Arien_03

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Posted: 15 years ago

#26

Shravani was fully aware what mess she was getting into... she heard Manav confess to Tarun that he loves his wife, she knew that Archana loves Manav, yet she stays there, gets engaged to Manav in front of Archana, the pain Archana had to go through to see her husband engaged to another girl, she was totally oblivious to that.... then she made it some kind of contest to win Manav's heart and when she saw herself losing she got out of control like a kid......

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: gaurimisha
Agree with Arien.

Decision to bring the child was solely shravani's...Manav wanted to provide support to her so that she doesnt have to suffer by taking this decision.He sort of was trying to protect her,save her honour and shield her n her child from social taunts.

Had she wanted an abortion,Manav wudnt have stopped her.

GM he was not trying to PROTECT her honor , he was trying to shield his own brothers mistake as he shields hundreds of Savitas mistake .He did it so dead Sachin did not get a negative name forever . Why the constant feeling of being responsible for Sachin ? Do u mean to say all elder bros in this world shud marry younger bros wives if this happens ?

It was saving Deshmukh honor more than Shravnis honor .As tarantulla said rightly , Shravnis honor IS NOT manavs problem ...it is her dads problem .

And anyways he jumped in and gave a monstrous commitment . So ok stick by it .

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authentic_self

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Posted: 15 years ago

#28

I agree with all that u said Kool di except the rights thing. The money thing that i mentioned was jus an example. but still i will nt agree that Archu has been given the rights which she rightly deserves. Rather i wud say Sharav has got all the rights without even demanding 4 them.

As far as cooking and behaving like bahu is concerned, Archu was nt allowed to enter the kitchen wen she initially returned. But Dam baba used to ask her make sumthng 4 him and then gradually she was allowed to do the kitchen work which was not objected by Sharav. It was only after Sav aai poisioned Shrav against Archu, she started disliking every thing that Archu did. Personally even i dont like Archu doing the household chores and helping Manav. I wud hav loved to see- even after returning to the Deshmukh house hold, Archu continues with her job and studies and wud pay the Deshmukhs for staying at their house and nt be an extra burden on them. And after 3 months jus leave frm there.

Archu enforcing herself on Sharav is also sumthng which I personally dont like. But there is one thing that Archu has been nice to her from start and for that matter even Sharav. Archu has nt changed it is Sharav who has changed. Wen her equation with Archu was fine, she wud consider Archu's nature as caring, loving person. But since the equation has turned out to be sour frm her side she hates her very existence in that house. Being selfish to the extent that it doesnt harm some other person is acceptable, but becoming selfish to such an extent and against the very person who is ready to give away all her rights for ur sake is just nt acceptable. wot if tomorrow Archu refuses to divorce Manav?

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gaurimisha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#29

Kool,no one is going to hate u for saying that.

I,at times pity the girl for having to marry a guy like Manav.I still maintain he shud be honest about his feelings to her...no two ways about it.

The foundation of every relationship shud be honesty...sounds cliched but true....and Manav is being unfair to both archana n shravani...in his internal conflict of mind n heart,he's being unfair to both at different levels.

I'm not sure whether Archana has lied to shravani about her feelings.She has maintained from day one that she loves manav and accepts his decision.That day when shravani was on bedrest,she clearly explained her feelings to shravani and shravani was frightened bcoz she understood and feared Archana's notion of love.

Had shravani been mature enough to understand Archana,as she does her,things would have been so different.This girl is so immature that she only points finger at archana for anything that is happening to her and saying Manav isnt at fault.She needs to realise that Archana is in no way answerable to her.

It is Manav who is answerable to her .Archana is free to do whatever she wants and shravani has no right to expect anything at all from her.But she continues to blame archana for everything.

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: Arien_03
Shravani was fully aware what mess she was getting into... she heard Manav confess to Tarun that he loves his wife, she knew that Archana loves Manav, yet she stays there, gets engaged to Manav in front of Archana, the pain Archana had to go through to see her husband engaged to another girl, she was totally oblivious to that.... then she made it some kind of contest to win Manav's heart and when she saw herself losing she got out of control like a kid......

So true . Agreed .

But then Archna too knew what she was getting into and when she constantly hovered around the couple NOT giving them a fair chance by bringing her face in between them ALL the time ...........Archna knew Manav wud NEVER go back on his commitment to Shravni . Manav had told her that personally . So why did she get this involved si purposefully ? What yaadein bator rahi hoon ? What rubbish !😆 Simple thing ...if ur really his good friend , let him move on , and u move OUT . Till now she is clinging on .

Both women r pathetic . I do hope PB comes out soon and I wanna see if Deshmukhs run after it saying Sachins nishaani .