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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#41

yeah , I know Tanya . My mother was the eldest bhabhi na , she always took care of all my dads siblings and sometimes we wished she wud take out time ONLY FOR US.

The stubbornness was so much that she didnt care about her health ! She was total Shakkar where Dad was concerned . If any sister of his wud even say sumthing bitchy [ u know na how women r sometimes] And We girls , like Varsha wud rise to her defence , She wud get sooooooo angry with us , my Godddd ! If I dont mind , why r u girls minding , she wud say . They r ur Dads sisters , no one is perfect . She is not bad at heart , this and that .It was pointless talking to her . Especially this deaf Dumb nanand .......My mom loved her just like her own offspring . I am telling u , Archus do exist in the world is my personal finding and experience .But I was A varsha , always . And I prefer that .

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addenise

@addenise

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Posted: 15 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
Deni you think Archu is more Ziddi.... maybe she is but my God , so is Manav .
He took a stand that he would help Shravani by marrying her ...then he saw his wife getting abused left right and center and he also saw her helping him almost by putting her neck on the line ...but nothing absolutely nothing that she did was big anough for him to make him even tell her that he loves her ...

Deni, I think Manav is more Ziddi ...the day archu almost lost her life by drowning , even that day he controlled himself from telling her that he loves her ......

The only thing that he has been unable to do is stopping his heart for falling for her her all over again .....but he has learned not to listen to his heart anyway ....

Tanya, i wont even compare cause their actions differ in meaning for me..wihout a doubt Archana is literally stubborn ..Her decisions are solely hers..if she says she will do this..not even sav aai can make her do different..as we noticed today...she is not influenced by anyone whilst her dearest hubby is......All u listed above Tanya, he did under duress and out of humanity....that is y i use to say he is weak...Our girl is strong...dont doubt that....

Waiting to see if he really will ignore his heart..i cannotttttttttttttttttttt see that Tanya....

BTW, I asked my bf what is Ziddi...and he screamed uuuuuuuuuuuuuuu..so i was like...u serious , then it makes no sense in sentence..then he came with STUBBORNNNNNNNN..well u know it was not funny for me..he was so laughing..i am totally serious..will deal with him later..but he got me big time..ha ha ha

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 15 years ago

#43

He gave in to his heart on one occasion only , the day he put sindoor on his wife , he didn't have to do that but before God , he just could not lie . Other than that he hasn't . Even on days when he is telling off Shravani to lay off Archana , even that day he tells Shravani that Archana is my wife ' TILL I DIVORCE HER ". He makes sure that Archu will nto forget that he is divorcing her and neither will Shravani ....

The way things are right now ... I don't see him giving in to his heart at all ..........................

Right now he is firmly going ahead with his decision of marrying Shravani bu t yes I guess he is falling for Archana ... but clearly Love is not a priority for this man , Shravani and her baby is ....

And he is not doing this in duress . No way , this is his own decision ....

He wants to fullfill his responsibilities towards Shravani and not for Archana .

Tha tis why I don't like this character that much any more . How can a man choose as to which promise is more imnportant . The way I see it , no promise is more important then the one you made on your wedding day ....

Shame on him for forgetting his duties as a husband ..

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#44

Put 2 Tablespoon of extra chilli powder in dinner tonight for your BF. Tha twill teach him what Ziddi really is .....😊

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--Hope--

@--Hope--

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Posted: 15 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
Put 2 Tablespoon of extra chilli powder in dinner tonight for your BF. Tha twill teach him what Ziddi really is .....😊

Deni:

I ahev a very good friend from Guyana. she is a darling. she told me when her first husband troubled her she would threaten him by saying when you are asleep I will put hot oil in your ear. there will be no visible evidence of this torture but you will go mentally insane.
😆 😆

I am sure your bf was teasing you. you are too cute.😆😆😆

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Edited by stillhopeful - 15 years ago

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addenise

@addenise

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Posted: 15 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
Put 2 Tablespoon of extra chilli powder in dinner tonight for your BF. Tha twill teach him what Ziddi really is .....😊

😆😆😆😆😆...so funny....i wish i had chilli powder...

Tanya all Manav did... engagement and sindoor was under duress...come on...sav aai went and gave him sindoor...he had no choice...girishji acutally made him feel guilty about the baby and he gave in...the engagement ...i mean he even told his mom y u embarrassed of chawl ppl finding out if u think it is right....ok, i will not pardon him totally cause no one had a gun to his head..he could have said no but that is not being stubborn...that is y i always say he is weak.....and dont forget our girl's part in all that...she encouraged him after he told her about shravani's pregnancy..she keeps saying to him treat her well...apologize to her..do this and that for her....and u know whatever archana says, goes...for him that is..ha ha ha

Leaving for home now...will catch up later....

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addenise

@addenise

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Posted: 15 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: stillhopeful

Deni:

I ahev a very good friend from Guyana. she is a darling. she told me when her first husband troubled her she would threaten him by saying when you are asleep I will put hot oil in your ear. there will be no visible evidence of this torture but you will go mentally insane.
😆 😆

I am sure your bf was teasing you. you are too cute.😆😆😆

😆

ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha....that sounds like tortureeeeeeeee...hot oil in ear...lawdd..

and nooooooooooo he meant it but i was like "K"..when i drop the "O" it means i am darn serious so he burst out in laughter....but i got caught..ha ha ha..i was thinking how can it mean U....and he did not only say U he went on for long..UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU ha ha ha..so laughing now...funny..thanks hope...but he will say deni has ego prob..she is stubborn...she is like archana..ha haha

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gaurimisha

@gaurimisha

Inactive

+ 5

Posted: 15 years ago

#48

Hail Kool,

Excellent commentary as usual,though I liked your previous style more.

Agree with you all on savita.

If savita has truly changed,I want to see her confessing to Manav about what she did to break their marriage,ask forgiveness from both for this....then ask forgiveness from the karanjkars as well for treating their daughter so shabbily.

Her list of apologises seems to be too big,may be thats way,the CRs ignored them altogether...but till they show something to these effect,I find it really hard to sympathise with her at any level other than may be basic humanity.

I want to see her care for her son,who is a gem....with or without archu's goodness...it should be only Manav's unhappiness which should trigger action from her...only then I can say I like her.

Bhavna is one stupid fellow...now that she has asked herself to varsha to not let her win,I think we'll see some saas-bahu fight here.

Agree with Kool when she says both manav and archana are equally stubborn but archana comes out as the stronger of the two...her decisions are mostly her own...where as Manav takes a decision under emotional pressure and stubbornly sticks to it.

They took one year to show ArMan reunion n their families coming together....now for another year they'll show the deshmukhs n karanjkars fighting the evil clan of shravani,girishji,lokhandes etc together....I can see girishji returning to create havoc in PR

Read somewhere that the Tamil version shows husband wife fighting all odds together...may be now PR is also headed that way.

I never thought I would be saying it here.But Kools post regarding her mother overwhelmed me.

Archus and manavs do exist in real.My mother is one archu and my father one manav...she sacrifices and sacrifices and is still sacrificing....that scene where manav makes chai for sulo...my father is good at cooking and he does for his inlaws...keeps mum and tolerates everything ,at the same time feels bad for us.

Archu tolerates savita...so does my my mom...only thing is savita atleast cares for sachin's child...

my grandmother falls short here too.

We used to stay in joint family,there would be disputes on who will watch the TV ,my uncles never used to allow me to watch news..so what my father did was instead of asking his younger bro to let me watch,he bought a small 5inch TV for me to watch whatever I want with a condition that I had to hide it from others lest another mahabharat starts....Manav buying the necklace for archu was quite similar to me.

My parents are still the same....adding 1000 spoons of sugar for some worthless and insensitive people...I've stood up for them always...fighting my aunts and uncles every now and then,fighting for myself since I was a girlchild....and at the same time getting scoldings daily for not being sanskari ullu .

My best wishes and love for ur mother kool.

I guess I watch this show for this very reason that I can relate to it.

I love my parents for what they are,I know they'll never change ....hence my love for archu n manav...the only hiccup is Manav's commitment towards choo...I find it difficult to forgive him here.

Going to sleep...bye all

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

Sparkler

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Posted: 15 years ago

#49

Hello people.

Kools your story totally overwhelmed me... A big hug to your mother...!!!

I guess we can really see characters of PR around us. In fact my Mom and Dad's story is VERY similar to ArMan's too. (I don't know if I've told u all before, I write so much all the time)

My Mom was an Archu. My Dad was a Manav, who accepted the first job he got as soon as he got his degree for his family (my Grandpa died early) and spent everything on them. His family was not that rich and had sort of a reputation of being highhanded and noisy. Plus it was a big joint family.

My maternal Grandfather was the only person who liked this match and encouraged it- it was an arranged marriage. The boy is good- he used to say- leave other things aside. And he has POTENTIAL of doing well in life. I honestly don't know how he could understand people so quickly and trusted my father SO WELL. (They bonded fabulously after marriage and my Dad was like a son to him) After the marriage my Mom went through all the same problems like Archu (except dowry), doing the household work even during pregnancy. My father was accused of giving undue and excess attention when he suggested things like lets have a maid. These things put him off slowly against his family and his Aai. Thankfully for everyone, my father got transferred almost a year after marriage and things were a lot better even though my Mom's condition was the same. Slowly all my Dad's bros left him after fulfilling their selfish interests, we don't hear from them now. This totally disapponited and hurt him and Mom became the most important person.

My granny was a mild Savita- she went through the same phase of repentance that Savita went through during her last moments- when none of her other children took her home when she was on bed and my Mom (for whom she hadn't cared for even during severe pregnancy illness) served her dutifully. But surprisingly all this never really affected our family life- we were always happy and took all this with a 'these-things-happen-in-every-family' attitude, even though we children turned very critical of her. I always said I would get her knees well when I becum a doctor. All the people who had troubled Mom and Dad now look with awe at how much their children respect Mom-Dad. They have a very good bonding with all nephews and nieces.

You see Kools, that is why I hate the creatives for destroying Manav and making him so weak- I see my father in this guy (By the way has anyone heard off the saying that you always see your dad in the guy you like... hehehe) I really don't understand how he could be shown as so pathetically weak and helpless. When the show introduced him, he was shown as the guy who had struggled against all odds to give his family a better future- his fighting spirit had been focussed on. It was this fighting spirit with which he was supposed to shelter the girl from all odds. What they are showing now, is so bloody ridiculous that I really can't accept it. They made a mockery of the whole character called Manav.

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Mandy

@mandy0310

Alumni

+ 8

Posted: 15 years ago

#50

Hail Kool! I loved today's episode, seeing Sulochana and Savita get along so well and Sulochana apologizing for what she did last time was great! I liked when Savita admitted that Archana is not that bad, Sulcohana melted hearing Savita talk like that. I too believe Savita will dance happily in tommorow's episode

I agree with nikitagmc, I wonder too if the show will come to an end once Archana and Manav reunite but I am hoping it doesn't. I've been enjoying the episodes lately, its about time the show got back to the basics instead of being so dark!

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