Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
mimas
It is not financial helplessness that I am talking of . A lot has happened in that girl's life ........marraige plans gone awry , death of Bf , a baby , Father going after giving her two dominating choices , then attraction to her brother in law . In a very short span of time this girl has lived a life that Archna can only dream of in the emotional sense .
I dont agree that she was so crafty that all along she tried to copy Archna only . The problem is that Archanas goodness overshadows hers . She too wasnt bad on a human level . She was rich , but she quietly adjusted in their chawl , ate the plain fare they cooked , was nice to her nanand , she tried to teach her studies or dance steps , lent her shoulder to cry in Ajit episodes , Never once replied Damo although he constantly and openly favored the first bahu insensitively on her face , gave up jewelry , money of policy without claiming it like Manju . She wasnt really BAD as Rasika , Manju are , or even petty . But no one noticed it coz no one notices the moon when the sun shines in all its brillliance and here the sun was Archana .
mimas>> i am not saying she was a manipulative, jelous bimbo to begin with.. but she has turned into one.. may be it's because of arch' goodness, savita's preaching or manav-Damo's soft corner towards archu.. I hope she knows Sachin's death is not Archu's fault. I can understand if she hold dig at archu on that ground but i cannot understand that girl comepeting with Archu for a trophy called 'Manav'.. all of a sudden that has become her first priority in life? Winning a 5-day test match against Arch for 'Manav Cup' ?
Yes, the girl has been though a lot but her but to some extent she has brought it upon herself..
To this point she has been ok with the DEshmukhs and tolerated enough of Manavs ' Go to bed and sleep while I hobnob with Archu on important issues ' scenario . The meds , food and rest r enot enough for this young woman who has feelings too and is craving emotional security but no one realises that , understands that or gives a real damn for her . Even Manav , he wants the bachcha . She is the person who will become a vamp due to circumstances ........she is not BOrn evl like Rasika , Ajit or that nail biter Manju who sent an entire family to jail .
mimas>> she has heard manav telling tarun about his love for Archana.. why is she chasing something she is not going to get in this life ? what can't she stay as Sachin's widow in that house? why can't she understand that Manav put sindoor in her maang under pressure and he has no feelings for her whatsoever? Why can't she see the way Savita treats Archu? Why can't she understand it could be her turn tomorrow ? Why can't she understand that she is what she is and can never be Archana for that house?
I always thought her as a sweet and intelligent person, totally misfit for Sachin and Deshmukh's for that matter.. and look what she has turned into.. and you can not totally blame it on circumstances..